Do they know?
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Bump because I'm still curious.
PlayfulLittle1
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What the hell, one more time.
So now for those whose spouses know, do you play? Chat/cyber/cam/voice whatever? Is/would spouse be okay with that? Is that just assumed to come with the territory? (NOT an invitation, just asking! LMAO!)
Mr. Riles and I have a strange relationship. It's been a very bumpy, winding road to get where we are, and I can't say if it's a good or bad place. We have both come to terms with the other's needs for MORE, yet still wishing to remain together. So....we have given each other a certain amount of freedom and room to explore. We do this both as individuals and as couples. If he wanted full disclosure on my activities, I wouldn't have a problem telling him...all but one tidbit. That is just for me, and I will take the consequences of omitting it.
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So I was listening to the radio this morning and they were talking to a young woman who recently lost her husband. In the process of settling his estate she found indisputable evidence of an affair.
I wonder how many of those who sneak or cheat would be caught after death. How tough would that be to find out? Oof.
And bump, I guess. LOL.
I wonder how many of those who sneak or cheat would be caught after death. How tough would that be to find out? Oof.
And bump, I guess. LOL.
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Honestly I think he would be far more upset if I were having these sorts of conversations etc. with the guy down the block.
This we have talked about and can have certain boundaries around.
I think, for him the biggest plus is that it's free.
This we have talked about and can have certain boundaries around.
I think, for him the biggest plus is that it's free.
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OK...so, I'll post. I may edit later.
My wife does not know.
She's not very "comfortable" with sex, although at times, she's been somewhat adventurous. It varies.
I tried, some years ago to get her interested in erotic writing. That's what drew me her. It didn't do much for her. I don't think she particularly finds visual erotica or porn interesting either (I don't understand that).
However, she loves good writing, and there are certainly a number of wonderful writers here. But, she probably would not enjoy the genre.
I think, if I pitched it right, she would be OK with me coming to an erotic stories site and even posting stories. She kind of likes facebook, and I've often called this facebook for people who admit they are perverts.
She might like some aspects of the boards. But she would never understand the ...um..how shall I phrase this..."flirting" that some people (certainly not me...) do here. So the first time some guy PMed her a pic of his erect cock and said "I want to force your face down on my cock and make you suck me dry"...would be the last time she was on lit...
So, I think I'll keep this my secret. Although one of my fantasies is for her to show up here, and us to fall in love, all over again... I know. I'm a dork.
My wife does not know.
She's not very "comfortable" with sex, although at times, she's been somewhat adventurous. It varies.
I tried, some years ago to get her interested in erotic writing. That's what drew me her. It didn't do much for her. I don't think she particularly finds visual erotica or porn interesting either (I don't understand that).
However, she loves good writing, and there are certainly a number of wonderful writers here. But, she probably would not enjoy the genre.
I think, if I pitched it right, she would be OK with me coming to an erotic stories site and even posting stories. She kind of likes facebook, and I've often called this facebook for people who admit they are perverts.
She might like some aspects of the boards. But she would never understand the ...um..how shall I phrase this..."flirting" that some people (certainly not me...) do here. So the first time some guy PMed her a pic of his erect cock and said "I want to force your face down on my cock and make you suck me dry"...would be the last time she was on lit...So, I think I'll keep this my secret. Although one of my fantasies is for her to show up here, and us to fall in love, all over again...
I know. I'm a dork.
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Is that his gun on the avatar?
oh hell no, that little .22? no that's mine.
His is a 9 mm.
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You need a 9mm for yourself or a .45
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That is really nice ... although there is a chance she might fall in love with someone elseAlthough one of my fantasies is for her to show up here, and us to fall in love, all over again...
The rest is BS, lakesailer, and you know it: you keep it in the closet because she'd give you hell, like the rest of us
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Well, that's how I wanted it to appear
... I fear what would happen would NOT make me smile at all
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That is really nice ... although there is a chance she might fall in love with someone else
The rest is BS, lakesailer, and you know it: you keep it in the closet because she'd give you hell, like the rest of us
I don't know if "she'd give me hell" but yeah, she would be hurt. And probably a little pissed.
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How perverted is it of you not to name the name?
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This I understand completely. Frankly looking at pictures doesn't do a damn thing for me either unless they are of people I know. Otherwise they might just as well be anatomical illustrations in a text book for all the thrill I get. People around here tease me about my avi having my Rugar in it but to be honest I get hotter looking at the new catalog than I do dirty pictures of anonymous naked guys. (There may be too much info in that sentence somewhere.)
I think, if I pitched it right, she would be OK with me coming to an erotic stories site and even posting stories. She kind of likes facebook, and I've often called this facebook for people who admit they are perverts.
I'm the first to admit that I'm still fairly new here (some would say very) but it may be that my brazen nature makes up for a tiny bit of that. Still and yet, I can tell you with all honesty that I have received exactly zero PM's of that nature. I have gotten a few colorful offers and suggestions but I have yet to encounter a single individual who was nasty to me even when turned down flat. I don't want to invite a bunch of attention here (please guys, read that part a bunch) but I'm not sure the guys around here entirely deserve all the flack they take. Most seem at least human or above.
So, I think I'll keep this my secret. Although one of my fantasies is for her to show up here, and us to fall in love, all over again...
This part is just inexpressibly dear. It makes me like you frankly. If you feel like that then she is lucky to have you on whatever terms the two of you have negotiated between you.
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Most of the men here are good guys looking for a little flirting, reading, writing, distraction and would never do something like that. There have been/are/will be some who are not like that. I suspect the gun in your AV helps reduce the unwanted PMs.
Somewhere around here are a couple of threads where the women of Lit have posted some of the more obnoxious/stupid PM's they've received. They both shock me and make me laugh at the same time!
And thank you for the other insights and compliments.
