Do the "Jack n Jill" ads really work?

[Guest]

Hello. This question has been plaguing me for a while now, so I figured it was time I finally asked it!! Please vote on the poll, and if you want, add comments here! Thanks.

 

[RomanHans]

You may have seen Tigerjen's similar thread--I've never heard of one that actually took place...

Roman

 

[Guest]

Oops... No, I haven't seen it. I'll have to dig it up.

 

[Huggles]

How about someone explaining what a Jack and Jill party is? What commonly happens at one? What etiquette is involved, and how you go about organising one..

 

[tigerjen]

You may have seen Tigerjen's similar thread--I've never heard of one that actually took place...

Roman

Hey hey........Roman is right, I put up a similar thread a
couple weeks ago over on the Playground.....if I get a
chance I'll go dig for it


tigerjen

 

[ericviking69]

LOst?

What is a Jack and Jill Party?

Can blessed or Tiger fill me in? I bet it would be fun what ever it is both these lovelies were involved.

 

[Native Alien]

my understanding of a "Jack and Jill" party is just that, people jacking and jilling off with or without any help just in a group. you know, like what my brothers used to call a "circle jerk". which to them meant a bunch of guys sitting around jerking off.

if i am wrong, someone please correct me. but that is my understanding. i know that there have been several ads on the personal board of people in different places trying to get one together but none have happened that i know of.

 

[Guest]

Right. They are "masturbation parties". I've been told there is no contact between people. It's strictly watching only. (They are not, after all, orgies or 'seinger's parties'.)

Many people have placed ads here at Lit looking to start a local area "Jack n Jill" party, but most of the responses seem to be from men saying they'd love to go if women show up. And, so far, it seems no one has met people offline due to these ads.

 

[ericviking69]

No for me

I prefer getting into the action...

Who would want to just watch loveslies such Native and Blessed?

I guess if it floats someones boat....

Thank you ladies for the explanation.

 

[RomanHans]

FYI, you can follow the similar thread here

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=153160
Another Jack 'N' Jill Poll

including at least one description of an actual JNJ party that a poster took part in!

Roman

 

[RomanHans]

And here's tigerjen's thread:

Boy, these JNJ parties sure are a popular topic!

Roman

 

[MercyMia]

curious minds want to know...

you're at a jack and jill party. everyone is making delicious noises around you, really getting into their business. you're so distracted and turned on that you border on that frustrating edge of wanting to cum so badly, but can't because there's so much to watch.

two hours later...everyone is spent, exhausted piles of naked bodies around you. and you still haven't cum.

so what then? do you fake an orgasm? (hard to do if you're a guy, i know.) or do you shrug, give up and laugh it off? would that still be a good experience for you?

 

[HoHoBomb]

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[Spenser41]

Re: now and later

mercymia

a jack and jill party will give you loads of pleasure. when you are all alone at your own home months later you can always recall the experience and have your orgasm at your own pace.


kissinggurl

Sounds like you have been to one. I would like to go just to see what it is like. Would I do it, yea if there were women there as well. Many people get off watching others play. I mean come on guys, how many porns have you watched where a woman is alone playing. The only thing I would hate for it to be would be abunch of guys doing it... NO THANKS! It would be cool if couples came as well. I think they call that soft swinging where you watch but do not swap. But who knows, it is all fantasy I think. Lots of talk but no action

 

[Guest]

Ya know, I don't understand men. Ya'll say you'd love to attend this type of party "as long as women are there". Well, there will still be other men there with their cocks in their hands. Ever think about that? It's not like 10 women will go into a private room with one man to masturbate. (Hell, those other women might be straight and not wanting to look at other pussies too!)

 

[RomanHans]

Ya know, I don't understand men. Ya'll say you'd love to attend this type of party "as long as women are there". Well, there will still be other men there with their cocks in their hands. Ever think about that? It's not like 10 women will go into a private room with one man to masturbate. (Hell, those other women might be straight and not wanting to look at other pussies too!)

Well, dear BlessedBe, that's male psychology for you. Why wouldn't 10 women go to a private room to masturbate for one guy? That sounds like a reasonable way to have fun to me!

Anyhow, I think that having at least a token female presence is needed to reassure guys that this is a 'straight' activity, and to give them something to watch. If it were 10 guys only in the room, then it would probably be a 'circle jerk' and not a Jack 'n' Jill party. Guys would feel justified in exposing themselves to other guys, as long as they get to see a woman pleasuring herself in real life...

Roman

 

[RomanHans]

OK, we've got the same situation as on the other threads--so far, three folks have voted that they've attended a Jack 'n' Jill party--so why no stories about what it was like?

Roman

 

[Guest]

Well, dear BlessedBe, that's male psychology for you. Why wouldn't 10 women go to a private room to masturbate for one guy? That sounds like a reasonable way to have fun to me!

Anyhow, I think that having at least a token female presence is needed to reassure guys that this is a 'straight' activity, and to give them something to watch. If it were 10 guys only in the room, then it would probably be a 'circle jerk' and not a Jack 'n' Jill party. Guys would feel justified in exposing themselves to other guys, as long as they get to see a woman pleasuring herself in real life...

Roman

Yes, I know it's psychology and male egos and all.

I've heard "straight" men say "if they could, they would suck their own dicks". So, why aren't they bi? They just admitted they would suck a dick if they could reach their own with their mouth. Their responses to me are "it's my own dick!" I've also heard "straight" men say "if I were a woman I'd be bi!" Does that mean the men are currently bi? If they're not attracted to men, yada yada, would they be a lesbian if female?

 

[Guest]

So far, three folks have voted that they've attended a Jack 'n' Jill party--so why no stories about what it was like?

I agree!! If you were honest with your vote, and voted that you have been to one and the ads on Lit DO "work", tell us!!!! Give us "non believers" faith that people are not wasting their time in the Personals!!

 

[manofsteel52]

Ya know, I don't understand men. Ya'll say you'd love to attend this type of party "as long as women are there". Well, there will still be other men there with their cocks in their hands. Ever think about that? It's not like 10 women will go into a private room with one man to masturbate. (Hell, those other women might be straight and not wanting to look at other pussies too!)

I can't speak for anyone else, but I wouldn't mind if other men were there, that can be something of a turn on, to. I just wouldn't want it to be all male.

 

[manofsteel52]

Yes, I know it's psychology and male egos and all.

I've heard "straight" men say "if they could, they would suck their own dicks". So, why aren't they bi? They just admitted they would suck a dick if they could reach their own with their mouth. Their responses to me are "it's my own dick!" I've also heard "straight" men say "if I were a woman I'd be bi!" Does that mean the men are currently bi? If they're not attracted to men, yada yada, would they be a lesbian if female?

Ans, if circumstances were right, I just might suck a dick, too. I never have, but have always been curious.

 

[Native Alien]

i don't understand it either. i mean i am like mercymia on this one. i know me and i would get to distracted to do anything on my own.

and the thought of it months later...hell, i do well some days to just remember what day it is let alone something that i saw two weeks or more ago.

i prefer the touch of another to cummin on my own anyway.

 

[Guest]

Ans, if circumstances were right, I just might suck a dick, too. I never have, but have always been curious.

Well, that's the difference between sexually open minded people and "100% (homophobic) straight" people.

 

[tigerjen]

fyi peoples......

CT is slowly getting one together..........we're aiming for
the end of April.....and for the first go-round it will be a
small number of people of both guys n' gals

 

[RomanHans]

i don't understand it either. i mean i am like mercymia on this one. i know me and i would get to distracted to do anything on my own.

and the thought of it months later...hell, i do well some days to just remember what day it is let alone something that i saw two weeks or more ago.

i prefer the touch of another to cummin on my own anyway.

I have no doubt that for a number of guys, there's the wishful thinking factor--that the woman or women present would get so excited by all those guys, that they just COULDN'T resist letting things go beyond masturbation...

which is also probably why some women don't want to be involved, so that they don't inadvertently send that signal to those guys!

Roman