Do Overs

[Spenser41]

I am sure all of us, have had times in our lives, we wish we could have a do over. Maybe we said hurtful things or maybe wish we had not said no or yes to someone. Anyway, I figured that some of us have a lot of those past memories that kind of sit in the back of our minds and we wish we could have a do over.

I thought it would be a good idea to maybe have a place to say our do overs. Maybe if we say it out loud (or in type) it would be easier to just let it go.

I know this is kind of a strange thread, and I am sure there will be some that will slam it... but.. I just wanted to do this. So post if you want...

 

[Spenser41]

When I first started in radio, I was like 17. When I was 20 or so, there was a girl I knew from high school, that I kind of liked. I was very shy and she worked in our office as the front office manager.

One night at a staff Christmas party, she told me she liked me. I was shy, and kind of geeky. 128 pds, hair like Sonny Bono, and glasses. I was kind of shocked that she was interested and to be honest, it scared me. (Yea I know ... I told you I was a geek.) Anyway I kind of brushed her off, and never really said anything.

Over the years I always kicked myself for not telling her... and just recently I connected with her online and she looks great and I knew I made a major mistake for not telling her.

So.. if I could do a DO OVER, it would be that night.

 

[call_me_Melody]

When I first started in radio, I was like 17. When I was 20 or so, there was a girl I knew from high school, that I kind of liked. I was very shy and she worked in our office as the front office manager.

One night at a staff Christmas party, she told me she liked me. I was shy, and kind of geeky. 128 pds, hair like Sonny Bono, and glasses. I was kind of shocked that she was interested and to be honest, it scared me. (Yea I know ... I told you I was a geek.) Anyway I kind of brushed her off, and never really said anything.

Over the years I always kicked myself for not telling her... and just recently I connected with her online and she looks great and I knew I made a major mistake for not telling her.

So.. if I could do a DO OVER, it would be that night.

Ppppssstttttt Spencer...
TELL her now!!!!

 

[Spenser41]

Ppppssstttttt Spencer...
TELL her now!!!!

I did but she is married and not a good idea to mess that up. But I did tell her I was sorry in case I hurt her feelings that night.

 

[kodos9000]

I did but she is married and not a good idea to mess that up. But I did tell her I was sorry in case I hurt her feelings that night.

Sorry dude, that sucks! But life would not be life without regret. Your a good man and should be proud that you didn't pursue it and possibly fuck up her life, or your own.

Mine is almost the same! I had a mad crush on my friends older sister. she was two years my senior. Anyway I went to a house party and got plastered and walked my friend home. His parents were out of town and his sister Beth was home. She told me that I was in no condition to walk home and that I was to stay there. I did and she even sat on the couch and talked to me all night. While my friend was passed out. I tried nothing. I never really saw her much after that night. I ran into her a year later in a mall, we had lunch and she asked me why I didn't try anything that night. I told her I was to shy and thought she might reject me. She said she wouldn't have and that she rather liked me. But by then she was involved with a new man and I missed my chance!