Do most me like anal sex?

[InLove]

Okay.......... how ordinary is this???

My husband never liked anal sex.. I myself loved it.

Are there men out there that do not like anal sex? And why?

I have an online lover who has never experienced anal sex, and he sounds excited about tring it. But I'm to shy to talk to him more about it, and he doesnt bring up the subject.

So, I really would like to know how many men do not like anal sex, I do not want to force (force isnt a good word, but) him to experiment with something most men do not like???

Help me out please ~ thank you

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Yes, I posted this before, but did'nt get a respond. Thought it might need its own thread

 

[InLove]

that should be most MEN....... I really should proof read.....sorry

 

[Amorphis]

I personally have no interest in anal sex. I don't find the thought of my cock covered in shit very sexy.

 

[SilverVeil]

*Some of this is cut and paste from your original post in the other topic *

Yes, this is ordinary. Lots of men do not like anal sex. They think it is dirty and nasty. Their loss.

This can be dealt with by using an enema. But to each their own I suppose. My guy and I have tried both ways. Not using the enema there was only one time he got even the littlest bit messy, but that was an unplanned entry. The rest of the times I knew in advance we were going to be playing around back there and cleaned up before hand.


As for your online lover..... find a story that has a couple of variations of sexual positions in it, reg, bj and make sure it has an anal scene, send it to him and then talk about it. Ask him if he liked the story, what he liked most about it. Mention you thought the anal scene was really hot.

I have found that stories make a great ice breaker in some cases.
Or start a game of 20 questions with him. And have that as one of the questions. Something that opens the door to the subject. Once it is out in the open it is hard to ignore.

 

[weathered2]

Re: Do most men like anal sex?

Are there men out there that do not like anal sex? And why?

First, you might try starting one of those threads with a poll in it, you'd get a lot more votes than you get actual posts, so your sampling would be better I think.

I can only give you one guy's opinion, which I thought was sort of typical talking and reading about it. We personally like anal quite a lot, both giving and receiving; not everytime, necessarily, but fairly frequently. Knowing this my partner keeps things handy and gets prepared regularly in case it happens. It's something we save for the weekends usually, so she sorta knows when we may "go there". I do a lot of anal foreplay first and don't push it further unless whe really seems to want that. There are some lovely nerve endings in that part of the anatomy. Try it if you can.

 

[djacq]

Sadly Yes

I can say that are some men out there that don’t like anal sex. They think that it’s a homosexual act or it’s dirty. Some think that it’s just not right because the anus is for exit only.

My hat’s off to you InLove because there aren’t that many women out there that do like anal sex. My lady is one of them. There was one moment that I did spark her interest by fingering her anus during a 69. She had a small curiosity for anal sex but her heart just isn’t in to it and so I never pressed the issue further. It’s all in the attitude.

I love giving anal sex because it gives so much pleasure to the right partner. If you ever need another online lover, just send me a PM or Email.

 

[cactiphile]

Not interested.

Partly the 'dirty' aspect and partly when her pussy is
so sweet why should I need another entry point?
Another factor is that shes not interested,
and I did ask in case she was.


c.

 

[Guest]

what. what? what.?!

Sorry to post as unregistered but I had to comment. I don't not know any guys who would not like to have anal sex with their girlfriends or wives. If your having sex and your wife/girlfriend screams out "fuck me in the ass!" and you don't want to, there is something completely wrong with you. How can that not turn you on? If you are completely homophobic or think that sodomy is a horrible sin I can see how you would not grasp the greatness of taking a woman anally.

 

[Kaos_Star]

i could be called curious. i don't know if i really like cuz my g/f is totally against it. but hey, as long i get it from the other side....oh-well.

 

[canadianCouple]

anal sex

my husband didnt like it too much at first but now he cant get enough..........i just kept telling him how much i love it and have him lick my fingers from my wet pussy while i finger myself....give that i try....It could be a size thing too.Tom was scared that he might hurt me so lots and lots of lub..

 

[Lasz]

I would only do it if the girl really wanted it. I yet have to talk to a girl who really wants anal sex, in real life. The idea of just hurting somone doesnt appeal to me verry much. I would like to try it once before I die.

 

[Guest]

anal sex

anal sex for me is gross. that is an exit only hole. i dont feel comfortable getting it and i dont lke to put my dick where shit comes out of. i am sorry ladies but i dont like it.

 

[Guest]

I don't know what "normal" is, because of my limited experience. Still, my ex-girlfriend liked anal sex a great deal and requested it many times. I'm not sure if she liked it because I liked it or for other reasons.

I liked it because it felt evil and forbidden, mostly. It feels good to be so bad. I think that I wouldn't like it as much if it became too ordinary. It was sometimes a little messy, but I usually wore a condom and/or took a shower shortly after.

Actually, the mess of anal sex never really bothered me, and it usually wasn't very messy. I admit that having sex when she was on her period was a little strange, though. All that blood. She wasn't on the pill so it was the only time I could "go bareback"--so it was a little freeing, in that sense.

I wouldn't be averse to a strap-on, some time, but we never really did toys. I've done a little playing around, and I've found attention to that area rather pleasurable.

 

[felixdakat]

yeeeessssss!!!

i love anal sex with a woman, not however with a man. but unfortunately, i've never been able to really let loose, due to willing, but sore, partners. i'm gentle, when i need to be, and can't imagine hurting a girl that i was with (against her will). for a while i had a girlfriend that would indulge me, but was not able to fully engulf me, which is what i've always wanted to do.... so here's hoping!

 

[marduk]

If the partner is willing and i care about that person then yes i do like it ..but wouldnt think about it with someone i didnt know very well..

 

[Golden]

she has to really want it as I am absolutely not into pain or humiliation; and then I love it!

 

[SweetBrat73]

I thought she was asking if men liked anal sex....ya know doing the man anally...but after reading most of the posts I'm not so sure now LoL anyhow in my experience men don't want it anally because they usually think it's a "homo" thing... it's also a lot messer doing a man than a woman...I've never done the enema thing before anal sex and they don't get "dirty" ...anyhow...I don't know a man who doesn't want to do a woman up the ass except the ones that posted her sending a story to your online lover was a great idea Good Luck!!!

 

[bi_now2001]

I like it! I enjoy giving it to women and receiving it from men

 

[Ventoso]

I like, as many men do, anal sex. But only if the lady agrees, accepts and like it. I never forced a lady to be sodomized against her will.
Many ladies can reach a powerful orgasm with anal sex, of course not all ladies like it and not all reach orgasm.

I also like to finger the backdoor when licking and sucking a pussy, and I often lick also the backdoor. This is generally very well welcomed by ladies, and it could be a preliminary to the anal sex!

It is very nice for a man to reach his orgasm into a welcoming ass!

 

[Babydoll5272]

As a female I do not like it

I have tried anal sex once! Personally I did not like it! It hurt and the pressure was not very comfortable and I personally did not like the fact of the mess it could entail! Although from reading other view points on this I never thought of a enema good idea!

DOLL

 

[SlyFox]

Anal Sex

I don't know about "most" men, but speaking for myself, I thoroughly enjoy anal sex occassionally - as does my wife. With plenty of "foreplay", particularly in "that" area - AND a lot of sweet smelling (and tasting lubrication, it is usually very enjoyable for both of us. And since I am, at least somewhat, bi, I also occassionally enjoy being on the "receiving end" as well, if the guy (or the dildo) isn't too well endowed . I usually don't experience a great deal of pain, and what there is generally dissapates very quickly as the pleasure mounts.


SlyFox

 

[Eroticus]

I think most men prefer the idea of anal sex - kind of like the idea of a facial shot. It's dirty, forbidden and therefore erotic. But when it comes down to it I prefer a hot pussy wrapped around my cock. The few times I've done anal it was okay, but I felt like I had to run to the shower and wash right afterwards.

 

[KMann]

any day any night

I'll take anal sex with a woman any day. I've never found it dirty.