Do men REALLY like dancing

TonyG

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Ladies, do you have to get a few drinks into your guy to get him on the dance floor? Will he actually fast dance or is his idea of a fast one "the chicken dance"? Does he ever initiate taking you dancing?

Guys, tell the truth, would you rather sit at the bar with your buds, watch Sports Center and let your woman dance with the other ladies? Or do you jump at the chance to swing your lady around the floor? Honestly, can you fast dance or does your lady ever say "Stop, you'll embarrass me"?
 
I would much rather sit at the bar and drink than dance. However if I could learn some cool 50's or 60's or swing dances I would they look like they are so much fun.....
but right now I'm just a bar fly that makes fun of others......
 
When we first met, we were both taking ballroom dance classes (at different places). We still both enjoy dancing, and sometimes HE has to talk ME into getting out on teh dance floor (at parties)! BTW, our first tryst was immediately after a night of dancing, and inspired my very first ever erotic story (two parts):

http://www.literotica.com/storyxs/stories/mratlli_ir_1001_e0.shtml

http://www.literotica.com/storyxs/stories/mratllii_ir_1001_e0.shtml

Previous boyfriends hated dancing. I lucked out this time.

-- Latina
 
Always have to get a few drinks in him and then he refuses to fast dance. Never offers to go dancing, but will do so without complaint if asked. He's much more of a slow dancer and is fairly good at it, or at least not "embarassing".

I would love to learn ballroom dancing, maybe after he gets home I can finally convince him to go with me.
 
I don't need a few in me to dance at all, no matter what kind of dancing it is.

My parents were dancing fools, omg, they loved to dance, so, of course i went with them most of the time.

I learned to dance to eveything from the Jitter Bug to ball room dancing to fast dancing.

Although i do like to sit at the bar and drink a few with the guys, and watch the sports games, but come on, there is a time and a place for everything, and i'm sure not going to take any of them home with me..lol

My mother taught me how to dance, hell we used to go out on that dance floor and cut a rug, as she would say, she also taught me how to slow dance, but as i got older, and started dancing with girls my age, i learned a few things about slow dancing, my mother never taught me. go figure.lol

There's nothing better than to see a lady in the bar that you are attracted to, approach her, ask her to dance and to see her eyes look into yours as you go on the dance floor. To wrap your arms around her, pull her close to you, and to smell the fragrance of her hair as she lays her head on your shoulder.

What happens next, is the thing my Mother never taught me...
 
I LOVE IT...

when a guy, just even attempts to dance, I think that is great! I ask guys all the time to dance and haven't heard too many no's. I think if coerced enough and the proper way, any guy will get out on the dance floor. But, more times than a few, I see girls dancing with girlfriends while their guys sit and get to know their beer better...been there, done that! LOL But that's ok, to each there own! Just remember us ladies don't take rejection to kindly, so next time a young lady invites you to her world on the dance floor, I say be brave, and give it your best!
 
I never have trouble getting guys to dance, sober or not. Not very shy, I go onto the floor and usually end up dancing with someone. Of course it's that whattya call it, dance? r&b? It's that kind of music where you're essentially fucking in vertical position with clothes on. The DJ knows my name and keeps telling me to put it back on. *pout*
 
I'm an uncomfortable dancer sober, an okay dancer when not sober, but I've had a lot of traumas occur on a dance floor, and really don't care if men want to dance or not. I don't.
 
Damn! I love dancing (especially after a few shots) but God did not intend my husband to ever do any kind of dancing. He has great rhythm in bed, but he can't seem to translate that into a vertical position. Actually, I beg him to drink beer and watch Sports Center while I dance with someone (lots of someones!) who isn't going to crush my toes.
But...as the song says...I save the last dance for him. The one at home in bed. ;)
 
I like dancing. At least, by the end of the night and several drinks on I do.

This doesn't mean that I look good whilst I'm doing it, so I prefer to dance in the middle of a crowd.
 
I would never want anyone to do anything that made them uncomfortable....but I ADORE men who dance. As a general rule (Julia's hubby being the exception) men who can "move" on the dance floor can also exhibit some spectacular moves in bed.

However this theory is not what I would call complete. I think I need a little more research. ;)
 
Bunny Hop???

SimplySouthern said:
I would never want anyone to do anything that made them uncomfortable....but I ADORE men who dance. As a general rule (Julia's hubby being the exception) men who can "move" on the dance floor can also exhibit some spectacular moves in bed.

However this theory is not what I would call complete. I think I need a little more research. ;)

Can't dance to Maiden....or Skid Row...

But I take exception to the rule...in fact, I am the exception ;)
 
Roll-One

Originally posted by Roll-One
...There's nothing better than to see a lady in the bar that you are attracted to, approach her, ask her to dance and to see her eyes look into yours as you go on the dance floor. To wrap your arms around her, pull her close to you, and to smell the fragrance of her hair as she lays her head on your shoulder.
You hit the nail right on the head. When my buddies and I used to go to clubs back in the college days, we always had a great time because we were never alone. It was no problem meeting women since they enjoyed our company because we all knew how to dance.
 
Re: Bunny Hop???

Thumper said:
SimplySouthern said:
I would never want anyone to do anything that made them uncomfortable....but I ADORE men who dance. As a general rule (Julia's hubby being the exception) men who can "move" on the dance floor can also exhibit some spectacular moves in bed.

However this theory is not what I would call complete. I think I need a little more research. ;)

Can't dance to Maiden....or Skid Row...

But I take exception to the rule...in fact, I am the exception ;)


Oh..to the contrary my wabbit friend. You CAN dance to hard rock. "Smooth up in ya" is a pole dancing song if I've ever heard one.

Wait...that's not the kinda dancing you meant is it? ;)
 
I'm afraid I have two left feet where dancing is concerned, but I do try, I like to dance close with my partner, and rarely dance alone.

I prefer singing myself, although I haven't had much chance to do that just lately.

Carl
 
tony_gam said:
Ladies, do you have to get a few drinks into your guy to get him on the dance floor? Will he actually fast dance or is his idea of a fast one "the chicken dance"? Does he ever initiate taking you dancing?

Guys, tell the truth, would you rather sit at the bar with your buds, watch Sports Center and let your woman dance with the other ladies? Or do you jump at the chance to swing your lady around the floor? Honestly, can you fast dance or does your lady ever say "Stop, you'll embarrass me"?
LMAO, I wish I could say this was true. But unfortunately for me, it's not. Teehee, he loves to dance. He constantly wants me to go out dancing with him, but me, being insecure in myselfness, almost always say no. I can dance on stage, I can dance by myself in a room where I don't have to see, but there is no way I am going to a club and dancing on the floor where everyone can see. Did that once and got laughed off the floor. Never doing it again. As for slow dancing. Well, that's where things get really strange, see, it wasn't my dad who taught me to dance. Teehee. Nope, it was my mom, unfortunately for me, she only knew how to follow so I had to learn how to lead and I still have trouble not leading. Heck, in order to keep from leading my new husband at our reception, took off my shoes and stood on his feet while he danced <g>
 
I absolutely love to dance!

I'm "fluent" in most Latin dances, Swing, Ballroom, etc. but I do admit it's hard to find a guy that's a willing partner.

I'm currently single, but every guy I've been with in the past would only step out on the dance floor after drinking about ten beers... I

t's a shame more guys don't dance. I bet if they did, they'd get laid a hell of a lot more often. Now guys, if that's not incentive, I don't know what is!
 
It's been a-while since I have gone out and danced.But I always have enjoyed dancing.

Sometimes I need a few drinks to loosen me up,and sometimes I'm just in the mood to Boogie.It just depends on what kinda mood I'm in,and what kind of music is being played.
 
as for me and dancing...........

I love to dance, slow and fast.......plus I am told that I am good at it and I am. I like dancing to techno, pop dance, latino music, rock that has dancability to it, hip hop etc etc etc..........I like getting out there on the dance floor and shaking a leg (or two!!!!!) and letting it all hang out, it is my friends who are dancing challenged. I go out and actually dance as opposed to them who go out and just sway their bodies to and fro.........

Some of my friends call me "rubberband" man because of the way I shake it..........get loose as a goose and funky as a chicken........love dancing just have not been in a bit now, might be dancing tonight though!!!
 
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