Do men really like BBW

[sueanninct]

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Unfortunetly for me, my family are some of those putting me down. And most of what I called friends think I've lost my mind. But I'll get past this. I still have one or two friends the stand by me no matter what and these are my true friends.

That's the spirit. Don't give up!

 

[kikmosa]

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That's the spirit. Don't give up!

Oh I'm not giving up. The more they try to stop me the more I try. Hoping to move in the spring. Going north and start over far from all my family. That way if they don't like what I'm doing then they can pretend I don't exist. They're pretty much doing that now unless they need something. Been told by one sister that she doesn't consider me a part of her family because I'm to embarrassing to be related to her. Her loss, not mine. Of course I must admit that she has the most imagination when it comes to nicknames. Her favorite is 'The great white walking whale'
Had to laugh the first time I heard it. And boy did that make her mad.

 

[lady_deanna]

I generally don't like to slam people I don't know, but Kiki, from what I've seen of you (and not like THAT is what truly matters anyways!) and know about you from the bits and pieces I've read here and there, it sounds like your sister is the embarrassment. To be related to someone so shallow and closed-minded!

OK, enough of the negativity! Positive thoughts. Its amazing what they can do. At work we've made a pact to be more positive this year, and things are so much more pleasant. I am happier and generally feel better about myself too! Like you, I have a low self-esteem at times, but I am working on that. Still no dates, but, hopes.

Oooh, I should go before I become less coherent... It's been a LONG day, lol.

Another Ya-Ya sis and friend

 

[kikmosa]

I generally don't like to slam people I don't know, but Kiki, from what I've seen of you (and not like THAT is what truly matters anyways!) and know about you from the bits and pieces I've read here and there, it sounds like your sister is the embarrassment. To be related to someone so shallow and closed-minded!

OK, enough of the negativity! Positive thoughts. Its amazing what they can do. At work we've made a pact to be more positive this year, and things are so much more pleasant. I am happier and generally feel better about myself too! Like you, I have a low self-esteem at times, but I am working on that. Still no dates, but, hopes.

Oooh, I should go before I become less coherent... It's been a LONG day, lol.

Another Ya-Ya sis and friend

She doesn't embarress me. Even though she feels that way, she's still my sister. In a way I feel sorry for her. Her attitude has given her a life a lot like mine. She's alone and lonely. The only one the bothers me a bit is my dad. Ever since I got the tattoo's he's been preaching at me about them being marks of satan. Like a bit of ink under my skin can change who I am. That does hurt a bit. But I deal with it. I let them have their opinions and I just go on as I am. They can accept me as is or not. Their choice.

 

[soileddove]

A Menber of the club

As a BBW I can say that I have no problem with men finding me attractive. I didn't always have the same attitude I have now and realize that's why men didn't find me attractive. It took me a long time to love myself and once I did the door (invisible or real) started to open. Don't let anyone tell you you are not beautiful. I know PLENTY (did I say plenty cuz I ment plenty ) of skinnny women who are "ugly" b/c of their attitude. They couldn't get a man if they tried.
Keep your head up and represent for the Diva's.

 

[kikmosa]

Re: A Menber of the club

As a BBW I can say that I have no problem with men finding me attractive. I didn't always have the same attitude I have now and realize that's why men didn't find me attractive. It took me a long time to love myself and once I did the door (invisible or real) started to open. Don't let anyone tell you you are not beautiful. I know PLENTY (did I say plenty cuz I ment plenty ) of skinnny women who are "ugly" b/c of their attitude. They couldn't get a man if they tried.
Keep your head up and represent for the Diva's.

I feel I still have a thing or two to work on. But I'm learning to love me for me. It's not an easy thing to do but I'm getting there.

 

[MsAngel]

Still learning....

I seen this thread and wanted to pop in and say hello.

Kikmosa I am empathize with you on your sister. Although my sister is not into making names like yours, she has a way of always making me feel bad about myself. Now after 29 years I am starting to love myself for who and what I am. I don't need her positivity or negativity in my life. I love her and her children with all my heart and would do anything for her. She is family and that is how we were raised but... and I do have a big butt here.. that doesn't mean I always like what she does or says. She can be a very cold person at times. In retrospect to me one time I heard her telling a friend how "different" I was cause I don't like going out to bars or partying all the time like she did when she was my age. I was really hurt that night, left without saying goodbye or when I was coming back (at the time I was living with her... BIG MISTAKE)

As for my parents.... well I wouldn't trade them in for the world or all the money in it. My dad wouldn't like it either if I got a tattoo but I doubt he would be like yours and say it was satans work. I have an uncle that is a preacher who has 2 sons and 2 grandsons with tattoos and though I doubt he really likes them I never hear him saying anything like that.

I'm sorry if it seems I am going on and on. I just wanted you to know that you are not alone. Even though my life is not exactly like yours I do understand and am willing to lend a shoulder anytime you want it. You seem like a very kind and caring person. We BBW have to stick together and learn to love ourselves before we are really able to share that love with anyone special in our life. Take care and I hope to get to know you all here!


Ms Angel

 

[TFL]

Good morning TO ALL THE BBW, Have a gr8 day heres X12
TO YOU ALL!

 

[PleasureMe]

Re: Re: A Menber of the club

I feel I still have a thing or two to work on. But I'm learning to love me for me. It's not an easy thing to do but I'm getting there.

Hi kikmosa,
I won't repeat all the postive things that have already been said, I will just say "ditto". I just wanted to pop in and say hello and tell you that I never knew there were men out there that liked BBWs either. I only recently started posting pictures, and I couldn't even begin to tell you what drove me to post, but I was very pleasantly surprised! Now, I only wish that all the BBW Admirers were in my area, there is definitely a shortage of them here!

Have a great day hon!

 

[Gil_T2]

wildone

Kikmosa..Yes there are men out there that like BBW..I am very fortunate that I have found one here that loves me for me...He likes that fact that I am a BBW...I hope that you can find a man that will treat you like a queen...every woman deserves that. I hope that you can find one that will treat you like gold and be so good to you!! *hugs*

Reading your post pleased me very much....you are a wonderful lady and I HOPE THAT YOUR HAPPINESS LASTS FOREVER

Hugs &

 

[Arden]

Re: wildone

Reading your post pleased me very much....you are a wonderful lady and I HOPE THAT YOUR HAPPINESS LASTS FOREVER

Hugs &

Man, do I have to chase you down to enjoy # 2000?

 

[kikmosa]

Re: wildone

bump

 

[thump]

This was one area that I would like to add to. I dont like or dislike a woman that is considered a BBW, the same goes for SBW or any other type of woman.

I know this sounds like Im trying to kiss ass, but the fact of the matter is that I believe a woman is beautiful or ugly based on how she is. How many of you have first seen a woman that "looks" just awsome and then the more she talks or the more she acts a certain way the less attractive or for that matter the more attractive she becomes. I think the same can be said the same about any type of woman.

So ladies, you are either beautiful or not long before you became the weight that you are.

 

[kikmosa]

This was one area that I would like to add to. I dont like or dislike a woman that is considered a BBW, the same goes for SBW or any other type of woman.

I know this sounds like Im trying to kiss ass, but the fact of the matter is that I believe a woman is beautiful or ugly based on how she is. How many of you have first seen a woman that "looks" just awsome and then the more she talks or the more she acts a certain way the less attractive or for that matter the more attractive she becomes. I think the same can be said the same about any type of woman.

So ladies, you are either beautiful or not long before you became the weight that you are.

I wish more guys felt that way. Unfortunatly a lot of guys do go for the looks and not the heart. The ones that judge a girl by who she is and not what she looks like are few and far between and believe me, we cherish them when we find them.

 

[thump]

Well darlin, people like different things...Some like blondes or redheads. I just dont want to limit myself to that point. However I do limit myself to the type of person they are. If they are mean or in love with themselves, I just dont have time for them. I would much rather be around someone who is beautiful inside and out...Someone like you

 

[redelicious]

Honey let me just add my 2 cents and agree with what's been said.

I am BBW.

Men are attracted to me. It took me awhile to appreciate that. Hell, it took me awhile to realize I was attracted to me, do you know what I mean?

And you know what, while everyone is entitled to their preferences, the guys who are not attracted to BBWs prolly are not worth my time. I guess that sounds rude and I don't mean it to, but that's how I feel.

 

[thump]

Red you are so right. If you are a type of person that you can not like yourself, how in the hell can you expect me to like you. And I know this sounds like my mother saying this, but a person that takes pleasure in making fun of you or putting you down, is not your friend...

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Unique

Hello kikmosa


I think that we are all unique in our own way .. regardless of what size we are ..


Simply enjoy life and have fun

 

[Sweetevil]

I agree with all of you. I am also a BBW and I am happy with myself. I wasn't up until about 2 years ago. And I think that's why I felt so ugly and unattractive. And I never noticed any men looking at me....it depressed me sometimes, but I am married and figured I wasn't trying to impress anyone anyhow. Well since having my 4th child, I have totally changed my outlook on things. I am happier with myself, and I have noticed that I attract men! And I think it has alot to do with the fact that I have self confidence and self esteem! So believe me, men do want and are attracted to BBW!!!!

Keep you chin up Kikmosa. And Njoy yourself and life. Cuz remember life is what you make it, and you only live once!!!!

 

[wildone28]

Re: wildone

Reading your post pleased me very much....you are a wonderful lady and I HOPE THAT YOUR HAPPINESS LASTS FOREVER

Hugs &

Gil....... So good to see you here..and I am so glad that my post pleased you..I miss hearing from you!!

BTW Congratulations on 2000 posts!!

 

[TAKEMEE]

Just stopping by to visit KiKi
How ya doing today?

 

[soileddove]

Kikmosa, since I have given you my version and hope it helped in some ways, just wondering how you are doing today.
Get the nerve to post mosre pics.
Keep representin for us

 

[kikmosa]

Kikmosa, since I have given you my version and hope it helped in some ways, just wondering how you are doing today.
Get the nerve to post mosre pics.
Keep representin for us

Today's been a pretty good day for me. Dispite a throat so sore from coughing that I can't talk.
As for pics, all I have left right now are a few pretty naughty ones. Not sure I'm ready for that yet. Let me see if I can find one that's not too bad.

Ok, this is from about two months before I got the tattoo. Somewhere around May.

 

[Native Alien]

my $0.02 worth

yes men are attracted to BBW, and if anyone doubts this then just point them to this thread...or send them to the BBW groups on yahoo...granted there are some real trolls around and they like to play games...

but for the most part i find that the men who do like us, do so because they see beyond just the physical appearance...and those are the kind that are the most sincere...

but this is just my own opinion...

 

[kikmosa]

my $0.02 worth

yes men are attracted to BBW, and if anyone doubts this then just point them to this thread...or send them to the BBW groups on yahoo...granted there are some real trolls around and they like to play games...

but for the most part i find that the men who do like us, do so because they see beyond just the physical appearance...and those are the kind that are the most sincere...

but this is just my own opinion...

Thank you NA. I fully agree. In my head that is. Still working on convincing the rest, lol. Have a lot of years of put-downs to overcome but I'm getting there.