Do I look fat?
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Dillinger said:
*blush*
There are enough pics of me floating around on this board already that I wouldn't care to contribute to the chaos it already created in the past... for better or worse.
However, should I ever decide to change my mind on that particular matter... you shall be amongst my first selections alright?
I NEVER tell anyone they are fat. I change the subject. I tell them that their clothes/smile/make up looks great...whatever is true. I have seen too many anorexic teens and adults to psychologically put someone on that road. The person asking the question knows the answer anyway.
Now - if they ask, "Does this dress make me LOOK fat?" - that's a whole different matter. Can't have people walking around looking like sartorial versions of an earthquake. LOL.
[Edited by CRaZy on 03-09-2001 at 07:55 PM]
Now - if they ask, "Does this dress make me LOOK fat?" - that's a whole different matter. Can't have people walking around looking like sartorial versions of an earthquake. LOL.
[Edited by CRaZy on 03-09-2001 at 07:55 PM]
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ROFL about the Earthquake crack
And yeah eating disorders arent a minor matter...considering I too suffered from one when I was 14-16
I brought myself out of it, but there are still things I cant eat, and it takes a long time to get everything back on track after that.
And yeah eating disorders arent a minor matter...considering I too suffered from one when I was 14-16
I brought myself out of it, but there are still things I cant eat, and it takes a long time to get everything back on track after that.
Baffles me too. I spend my life buying clothes that cover every single imperfection - I wear hooded, long-sleeved caftans - LOL. Panadolboy however, works in a "hippie" type town where all the females wear short shorts and boob tubes whether they are nine or ninety, size 6 or size 36, eight months pregnant....whatever. He LOVES it. So, I guess the answer is - some men like to see as much flesh as possible, even if for some of us there is wayyyyyyy to much to be seen. LOL.
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Jade said:
When it's in the right places. I talked to a girl this evening who was certainly 15-20 pounds overweight. But goddamn... A picnic blanket on a bed of grass with those extra pounds would elicit no complaint from me.
Her breast were nice, but not excessively large. She seemed to have some flab on her arms. Her tummy had a fecund roundness, and she had an ass that reminded me of an 18 ounce sirloin steak. All of this on a 5' 9" or so frame.
If she asked me, do I look fat, I would say: no, baby, you look just fine... just fine, I like you just the way you are.
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I suppose if I answer....
"No, but please dont wear anything with stripes", I'll get my butt kicked???
Or
"No you dont, and that striped dress really make you stand out......."
On second thought I think I'll just run out of here, like a bat out of hell
"No, but please dont wear anything with stripes", I'll get my butt kicked???
Or
"No you dont, and that striped dress really make you stand out......."
On second thought I think I'll just run out of here, like a bat out of hell
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I'm not always one to spare feelings when it comes to the "how do I look" concept. I'm not an excercise guru, but if you look like you need some toning, I'm going to tell you! If you really think that you might be overweight, I'd suggest a dietician, or nutritionalist and plan an exercise regimen at your local YMCA, it's cheap, and it's not like you're really out of place because there's always people there who ineveitably look worse than you. Ah! Jeez... gotta control that wicked tongue of mine. I'm not going to lie to anyone and say "no, you look fine" when it's obvious that they need to tone up or drop a few pounds. But I can be a real bitch when you catch me at the wrong time.
This goes hand in hand with the "real age" thread... check it out if you haven't already and you'll see what I mean. IF it makes anyone feel better, I'm trying to lose 15 pounds...
This goes hand in hand with the "real age" thread... check it out if you haven't already and you'll see what I mean. IF it makes anyone feel better, I'm trying to lose 15 pounds...
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Typically I say -
"Yes, but for a fat lady you don't sweat much ..."
"Yes, but for a fat lady you don't sweat much ..."
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It continues to amaze me
how these questions are NEVER asked by men. C'mon, the percentage of men in the US who are overweight has to be close to the percentage of women, yet do they obsess? Do they worry about those extra 10-20 lbs.?
No.. and y'know why? Because women see beyond the physical.. alright. ok, most women see beyond the physical to the person and don't obssess about a man's physical fitness.
And, all of it ultimately has to do with attitude and how you feel about yourself, carry yourself and present yourself. Fuck all the rest. ;-)
how these questions are NEVER asked by men. C'mon, the percentage of men in the US who are overweight has to be close to the percentage of women, yet do they obsess? Do they worry about those extra 10-20 lbs.?
No.. and y'know why? Because women see beyond the physical.. alright. ok, most women see beyond the physical to the person and don't obssess about a man's physical fitness.
And, all of it ultimately has to do with attitude and how you feel about yourself, carry yourself and present yourself. Fuck all the rest. ;-)
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Re: It continues to amaze me
Us men have that gift too Vixen - why do you think we always reply to this question like this -
"Oh no honey, you look just like you did the day we met."
And if I am one of all the rest, yes, yes, fuck me too.
TN_Vixen said:
Us men have that gift too Vixen - why do you think we always reply to this question like this -
"Oh no honey, you look just like you did the day we met."
And if I am one of all the rest, yes, yes, fuck me too.
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