Not sure where to put this. I have had a master. I now play with a couple at times. I am starting to think I should search for a mistress instead. The master did not always seem to get what would arouse and make me work to please. A few times when I have played with this couple, they had a friend visit, a woman. She made me do things gladly, she made me feel excited and good, and I did all she ordered and I want more of that, but she lives too far away and I can't move yet. I think I need to try to find some dommes and see if they will let me play a time or 2 and see if I feel the same, or if it's just this particular woman.