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lavender said:I thrive upon dissent, discussion and debate. This desire for this type of communication is not because I seek controversy, it's not because I wish to be aggressive, it's not because there is anger in me that needs to be vented. My love for diversity, my longing for debate, and the love of dissent has more to do with my feelings about how we learn, how we as individuals and society evolve.
Desdemona said:However, I come here for fun. I get all the debate, dissent and diversity one woman could ever ask for 5 days a week; every single week. I think you have every right to get your quota of debate, dissent and diversity here. I may read these types of threads from time to time but will rarely participate. That would make me very one dimensional, considering how I spend my time at work.
So... I'm asserting my right to come relax, be silly or flirt most of the time. Please, don't put anybody down for having a good time. It really doesn't make us less intelligent or valuable to the community. We just have diverse needs.
lavender said:More thoughts on the quote?
"In a free society, diversity is not disorder. Debate is not strife. And dissent is not revolution."
lavender said:More thoughts on the quote?
"In a free society, diversity is not disorder. Debate is not strife. And dissent is not revolution."
InternationalFunboy said:There are alot of reasons why I don't debate or argue with people online.
1)Squaring off with a person that you are wholly unfamiliar with (values, morals, state of mind) can just be a waste of time. Even the best laid argument may not sway a person who will stand their ground out of hard headed pride or just confuse with fickleness. So why bother? I'd sooner argue with the wall of my bedroom which has my vintage Cheryl Tiegs poster, one of those wrinkled old lady laughing machines with the tongue that wags in and out and an exact mold of lavender's uterus and vagina, from which I was birthed two weeks ago today, cast in foam rubber.
2) I think that alot of people speak from the heart when they debate online but my experience has been that most would be debaters try to impress with diction and their ability to form a written argument complete with clever references and snippy little barbs at other debaters rather than the heart of the matter. It turns into a one-up contest with the ease of info-gathering on the web making one-upping easy as pie.
3) I suck at it. Even in real life.....I hardly do it here either. I was alot more active in debate as a teen but I realized that any question that spawns endless debate has no right answer - nobody ever wins and it got boring hearing the same arguments again and again and again.
In my posts I try to create a new reality....one in which everyone can be funny and attractive, creative and open and silly and accepted. Nobody's feeling are hurt, nobody's temper flairs. A place that is timeless.
Plus the only real debates here seem to be about politics, which i could honestly give two shits and a fuck about.
lavender said:More thoughts on the quote?
"In a free society, diversity is not disorder. Debate is not strife. And dissent is not revolution."
lavender said:"In a free society, diversity is not disorder. Debate is not strife. And dissent is not revolution."
lavender said:But, in many instances it is the people who express dissatisfaction, who challenge the system, who hold the system accountable for its flaws and failures, that are the true patriots.
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness. That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed. That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness.
Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed.