Dirty Talk

There is nothing that gets lost as fast as mattress talk when it's taken out of context.

There are certain words and phrases which I like to say and I know delight her, but it's the timing and tone of voice which provide the magic. Spoken at any other time or any other place, they sound like really bad cyber.

Hah!

I told BF he can call me anything he wants so long as he's fucking me, or planning to real soon. Being randomly called a whore gives me shivers.

i can't/won't talk during sex.

i've never had anyone try dirty talk on me. it's something i fap to but i think perhaps i something about me deters... i mean, i've had a reasonable amount of sex and not one has talked dirty to me. i feel a little sad that nobody has ever spewed forth filth as the pounded my cunt :(

Never? That's an atrocity. Wanna have phone sex, and I'll talk dirty to you?

I'm a big fan of explicit detail...I like to be told the obvious sometimes. As in "I am going to finger fuck your tight pussy, and then I'm going to turn you over on your stomach," etc. I also love to vocalize my fantasies in the middle of things and hear his as well..."I want to see you sink to your knees in front of a man..."

TMI?

Not TMI. I love explicit detail!

"fuck me like you hate me"

That is hot.

I like that.

Yes, same here. Being told what to do or what's about to happen is very hot in the moment.

A former boyfriend would always tell me "Assume the position," and I would turn over on my knees for him to enter me from behind.

It was hot the first couple of years - every time we had sex, without fail - but eventually I snapped and when he said it one day I was like "Oh Jesus, can we please deviate from the same fucking 'assume the position' every time?!?!?"

Hahaha. I love being given instructions, too. But yeah, gotta switch it up!

I am VERY much into dirty talk, its kind of funny because my husband isn't so much. We will go at it and I will try to prompt him and most of the time he is too hot and heavy to really say much, but he tries hehe

It'll get easier!

Some dirty talk in Spanish:

Do you speak/are you spanish?
 
Based on the multi-quoting, I'd say Pointless sat you down and told you how it was going to be!
 
This thread was totally going somewhere till the baby talk.
What a turn-off.

So between my first post and the 15 posts of the old dudes flirting with eachother you were getting real hot until that particular post, eh? My bad.
 
I've broken up with women who were too quiet in bed. I love and even need some good dirty talking in the sack.

Any declaration by a woman about how wet she is totally turns me on.

One of the hottest things was a this really shy woman I dated who was a kinky slut in bed. I'll never forget how turned on I was when while I was fucking her she looked at me and said "you're not going to make me lick your cock clean when you're finished, are you?"
 
I've broken up with women who were too quiet in bed. I love and even need some good dirty talking in the sack.

Any declaration by a woman about how wet she is totally turns me on.

One of the hottest things was a this really shy woman I dated who was a kinky slut in bed. I'll never forget how turned on I was when while I was fucking her she looked at me and said "you're not going to make me lick your cock clean when you're finished, are you?"

In bed with you?
 
Do you speak/are you spanish?

Yeah, I'm Peruvian but I grew up in U.S.

The band, Bomba Estereo, is Colombian.

I'm not good at dirty talk in Spanish, though. I came over when I was 8, and I've beefed up on my vocabulary a lot since then, but the slang doesn't flow like it does in English.

It's funny the different words used in different languages for coming. In Spanish coming can be used interchangeably with enjoying and flying.

Based on the multi-quoting, I'd say Pointless sat you down and told you how it was going to be!

Mmmm, hawt.
 
I've yet to find someone who will talk dirty to me as much as I want them to.
 
I've broken up with women who were too quiet in bed. I love and even need some good dirty talking in the sack.

Any declaration by a woman about how wet she is totally turns me on.

One of the hottest things was a this really shy woman I dated who was a kinky slut in bed. I'll never forget how turned on I was when while I was fucking her she looked at me and said "you're not going to make me lick your cock clean when you're finished, are you?"

That's hot.
 
I've broken up with women who were too quiet in bed. I love and even need some good dirty talking in the sack.

Any declaration by a woman about how wet she is totally turns me on.

One of the hottest things was a this really shy woman I dated who was a kinky slut in bed. I'll never forget how turned on I was when while I was fucking her she looked at me and said "you're not going to make me lick your cock clean when you're finished, are you?"

Hook me up with her!
 
I've broken up with women who were too quiet in bed. I love and even need some good dirty talking in the sack.

Any declaration by a woman about how wet she is totally turns me on.

One of the hottest things was a this really shy woman I dated who was a kinky slut in bed. I'll never forget how turned on I was when while I was fucking her she looked at me and said "you're not going to make me lick your cock clean when you're finished, are you?"

Nice.

I can see how that would be totally hot.

I had a bf who would say stuff he wanted me to do to him that way all the time, like "no, whatever you do, don't tie me up and suck my cock" or "please don't lick my nipple, I don't think I could stand it." It really annoyed me and I had to find a way to tell him without being too negative.

I felt like saying, fine, don't worry about it, I won't, hahaha.
 
Yeah, I'm Peruvian but I grew up in U.S.

The band, Bomba Estereo, is Colombian.

I'm not good at dirty talk in Spanish, though. I came over when I was 8, and I've beefed up on my vocabulary a lot since then, but the slang doesn't flow like it does in English.

It's funny the different words used in different languages for coming. In Spanish coming can be used interchangeably with enjoying and flying.

Mmmm, hawt.

I wouldn't have guessed that! I know what you mean about the slang though.

A guy once told me he wanted me to talk dirty to him in my native language. I didn't really understand why since it wasn't like he could understand the words, but he said it would just sound really hot. I couldn't do it, we don't even have proper words for cocks or cunts, let alone any real dirty elements. It's all flowery analogies like "butterfly" or "bird" for pussy. In any case, I probably could have just gotten away with telling him how to paint the house since he wouldn't have had any idea what I was saying.

I've yet to find someone who will talk dirty to me as much as I want them to.

There just aren't enough good dirty talkers in the world.
 
I wouldn't have guessed that! I know what you mean about the slang though.

A guy once told me he wanted me to talk dirty to him in my native language. I didn't really understand why since it wasn't like he could understand the words, but he said it would just sound really hot. I couldn't do it, we don't even have proper words for cocks or cunts, let alone any real dirty elements. It's all flowery analogies like "butterfly" or "bird" for pussy. In any case, I probably could have just gotten away with telling him how to paint the house since he wouldn't have had any idea what I was saying.

Yup, Spanish is nowhere near as dirty as English either.

Only guys who don't speak Spanish have asked me to talk dirty in Spanish and it was a challenge.
 
Nice.

I can see how that would be totally hot.

I had a bf who would say stuff he wanted me to do to him that way all the time, like "no, whatever you do, don't tie me up and suck my cock" or "please don't lick my nipple, I don't think I could stand it." It really annoyed me and I had to find a way to tell him without being too negative.

I felt like saying, fine, don't worry about it, I won't, hahaha.

I think it comes across differently depending on the gender of the person who says it. We had a dom/sub relationship and while normally that would be topping from the bottom, it was still so fucking hot I couldn't tell her to stop.

There was another time that she did that and said "you're not going to come in my ass and make me lay here afterwards and feel it dripping out of my ass." I came so hard I couldn't believe it.
 
Nice.

I can see how that would be totally hot.

I had a bf who would say stuff he wanted me to do to him that way all the time, like "no, whatever you do, don't tie me up and suck my cock" or "please don't lick my nipple, I don't think I could stand it." It really annoyed me and I had to find a way to tell him without being too negative.

I felt like saying, fine, don't worry about it, I won't, hahaha.

I actually really like doing the false protestations - but only when we're already in the pseudo-rape mode of fucking.

He tells me what he's going to do to me and I beg him not to, he does it anyway. Forces me to take it, tells me I love it. And I do.
 
I think it comes across differently depending on the gender of the person who says it. We had a dom/sub relationship and while normally that would be topping from the bottom, it was still so fucking hot I couldn't tell her to stop.

There was another time that she did that and said "you're not going to come in my ass and make me lay here afterwards and feel it dripping out of my ass." I came so hard I couldn't believe it.

That's super hot, too.

What was her tone of voice like? Was she pleading and whining or just matter-of-fact?

I actually really like doing the false protestations - but only when we're already in the pseudo-rape mode of fucking.

He tells me what he's going to do to me and I beg him not to, he does it anyway. Forces me to take it, tells me I love it. And I do.

That would be really hot. I think the problem in my case was that I don't like playing the role of the domme. I want him to take charge. Once in a while I do like to take control, but I want it to me my call not his, otherwise it's not a turn on for me.
 
So between my first post and the 15 posts of the old dudes flirting with eachother you were getting real hot until that particular post, eh? My bad.

I vividly recall one bf I had, on the night we finally had sex, he started with the baby-talk.
Dried me right up.
Dumped him the next day.
 
i have mixed feelings on the dirty talk. i don't like dirty talk for the sake of dirty talk. shove a sock in it. when it's guttural, it turns me on.
 
Back
Top