Dirty Talk???

[trvllady]

Question for those of you out there? Why do some men want women to talk dirty during sex? If you are a moaner you probably can't string the words together (I know I can't). Just curious - hubby wants me to tell him what I want him to do but if he is doing good things I can't think enough to tell him. Does that happen to anyone else out there?

 

[vibes]

Question for those of you out there? Why do some men want women to talk dirty during sex? If you are a moaner you probably can't string the words together (I know I can't). Just curious - hubby wants me to tell him what I want him to do but if he is doing good things I can't think enough to tell him. Does that happen to anyone else out there?

I can enjoy that too and I know it works both ways

 

[Dogwalker]

Question for those of you out there? Why do some men want women to talk dirty during sex? If you are a moaner you probably can't string the words together (I know I can't). Just curious - hubby wants me to tell him what I want him to do but if he is doing good things I can't think enough to tell him. Does that happen to anyone else out there?

Beats talking about the weather I supose?

 

[Merric]

Dirty talk

Can be fun both ways, but I agree, hard to do when one is in absolute bliss. More interesting as part of a long slow build up to a real raunchy ride....

Toronto here too, travelling for a few days, but would like to find some way to connect when I am back....for some sexy chat....

Merric

 

[Kain__Thornn]

Nothing spurs it on like when she tells her man "Fuck my cunt hard like a real man you fucking little worm"

 

[aymanmosstfa]

i dont do that but i think its make some men horny and thay like that
if he do what you like in sex why you dont do what he want but if he dont acre about your need thats another thing and you can tell him fuck you

 

[virgin_not]

oh my case..can't talk dirty..cause Im busy moaningggg and not just moan..can be loud moan that one time he had to shush me cause kids were still up!

 

[TwilightEmbrace]

I like to talk dirty in places other than the bedroom. Words creating scenes in his mind that will lead us both to the bedroom....During sex dirty talk is good but so much more control out of the bedroom....

 

[lik_m_ade]

It may be a couple of things- first he may simply be a person who is more stimulated by words than by sight or touch. I know with me, it is not so much dirty talk, but asking how the other person is feeling and her asking me the same thing-even though we can tell from sounds and sight and touch, it makes it that much hotter for me to ask and be asked-something about words said in passion.

Second, there may be a connection of sex and naughtiness for him and using "dirty" words may enhance that. So perhaps if you "talk" more in the early stages while you are able, you can get him to that same state of wordless excitement.

Good luck!

 

[Kain__Thornn]

I like to talk dirty in places other than the bedroom. Words creating scenes in his mind that will lead us both to the bedroom....During sex dirty talk is good but so much more control out of the bedroom....

*sweating*

 

[lancewannabe]

Question for those of you out there? Why do some men want women to talk dirty during sex? If you are a moaner you probably can't string the words together (I know I can't). Just curious - hubby wants me to tell him what I want him to do but if he is doing good things I can't think enough to tell him. Does that happen to anyone else out there?

I like a woman that is vocal. Moaning when I hit the right spot(s) is very helpful.
I like dirty talk during foreplay. My ex didn't say anything at all. Not even moaning. That was a TOTAL turn off for me. She wouldn't even say pussy. It was always "my cat." (now you know why she's my EX!)

LOL

 

[Tinypaws]

I talk dirty sometimes, but only cos I like it and love seeing his reactions.
Your hubby needs a slap sexy! not to expect things from you.

*cuddles you*

 

[mrjdoedevil]

I'm more of a fan of the moaning....if youre that deeply (no pun intended) involved in the experience no need to talk dirty....thats all the feedback I need

 

[Sassyfrass]

I like to talk dirty in places other than the bedroom. Words creating scenes in his mind that will lead us both to the bedroom....During sex dirty talk is good but so much more control out of the bedroom....

I agree....I do this as well....call him at work...make sexual innuendoes....
send him pics of me (in a series of undress) to his work E mail.......by the time he gets home it's all over but the moaning.........

 

[whogonnawin1]

I agree....I do this as well....call him at work...make sexual innuendoes....
send him pics of me (in a series of undress) to his work E mail.......by the time he gets home it's all over but the moaning.........

I agree. It's est for the dirty talk to start before. I'm down with it happening during as well, but you the build up is certainly a great start and where it is most effective.

 

[Bearlythere]

I think women are just not vocal enough about what they want and they keep this reserve back ( in some cases ) to not admit that they have an inner slut. My lady will not say much during sex except a few things, but she wont really swear and get nasty. She however LOVES it when I make up a fantasy scenario of me letting the mail man in to entertain her while I watch....

 

[koalabear]

A Lady in public, a whore in the bedroom. That about covers it. A touch here, a pat there, lil grope now and then does make the end of the day better.

 

[sincere_guy]

Don't get me wrong, hearing a woman whimper and moan is very much of a turn on, but like many men it drives me wild when she really lets loose and talks dirty too.

Not sure exactly what it does but it seems to trigger something on a primal level inside of my brain that translates into me being better than normal, more intense, lasting longer, and enjoying the experience even more.

That said I also realize that some women don't feel comfortable letting it all out, and saying exactly what they are thinking and feeling. They fear that there partner will not understand them being so verbal about what they want and need, or feel threatened by it in some manner. It's up to us men to find a way to unlock that door and provide the comfort and safety that some women need in order to fully express themselves, even if it's only once in a while. It may even improve the overall experience for both partners.