Dirty Talk

[Phantomphan]

I want to hear my wife talk while fooling around. How do I tell her this? I want to hear her say things like.....

"mmmm lick my pussy" "yes baby fuck me"

She has said thinghs in the past like "pinch my nipples" so I know she is not shy about saying things.

Also, is this wierd?

 

[Rambling Rose]

do you talk to her? it's a good place to start...and no, you're not weird!

 

[curvacious]

it's not weird.

Maybe when she does say something, say something encouraging in return (ie---mmmmm--that's what i want to hear).

 

[MissTaken]

Yes. My bf had to help me learn to talk dirty for him. Actually, I knew HOW, it was simply encouragement and comfort that was needed. Positive feedback from him certainly encourages me to keep talking nastier.

Reassure her and even afterwards you could simply tell her. "That was great! I love when you talk to me like that."

 

[Guest]

You might try gettin a few stories from this site and reading to each other. Somehow it is easier to talk dirty when the words aren't yours but someone elses in the story.

I have done this both online and in RL and it is incredible. Besides, the stories will get her excited and she may start using her own words instead of the story.

Once you are past that initially shock of saying it to each other, you'd be surprised all the doors it opens.

Reading can be so exciting...especially when the non-reader is playing with the reader's body. I bet you don't make it through the whole story.

 

[*Lazer*]

Just watch Sex in the City. They have a great episode about theis very topic and might be the ticket to ease into the conversation.

 

[WillowWhip]

naughty stories

Reading the stories to each other might work. I can't do it though because too often I find myself laughing over the language used.

Talking naughty to each other is a wonderful turn on.
Sometimes I just whisper sexy things and other times
I tell him the nastiest stories I can come up with.

We both know that most are just fantasies and will probably not come true, but then again, are they and will they? LOL

He "reacts" more to the stories that I know make him uncomfortable in real life and it is fun to tease him about it.

The idea is to keep him guessing. Act on a few of the things you tell him and you might be amazed at the results.

But guys, it is a two way street, we like to hear you tell us your fantasies too.

Suspend reality for a night. It might feel silly the first time but it can be a great turn-on.

 

[Natalie Nessus]

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[Julian]

Quoting Poison..."Talk Dirty To Me"

In talking dirty to a woman/lover, you have to establish a bounary, such as, "I want to touch you slowly, softly", versus "Suck the jism out of my cock bitch!" The pair of you will find out by groping around with words, timings, expressions, chatter and levels of explicit vulagrity.

You could also begin with tone: (stripping her clothing off before removing your own clothes, saying "Do you like this babe? Is this what you'd want?"

As you say all the above paragraph, you're caressing your lover, touching her, stroking her skin, showing absolute appreciation and love. The the words and ton create the passion and the heights.

Some women will adore it in the height of utter abandon, whereas others would love it as much as any foreplay. If you are hoping to get her to give you commands, "lick my snatch", "suck my nipples daddy", then again, time and levels of desire will be your guide.

Good luck!


Julian

 

[SexCrazedQT4U]

From a womans point of view, that was wonderful sound advice Julian. Maybe you could talk to my boyfriend? Truly kidding of course.