Dildos and ButtPlugs

[Shadowsdream]

This Mistress believes that both are vital in the training of submissives who will one day satisfy Her sexuallity when She uses Her favorite tool, the strapon. This Domme prefers Her human toys to be possible to mount and enjoy without listening to screams and safe words. She expects daily training with a butt plug, starting with one a reasonable size to endure and over time increasing the length and girth to the almost unendurable. Dildos are used for a change of pace...

Anyone care to join Me in this conversation about expectations of daily training for the pleasure of the Dominant?

 

[A Desert Rose]

This Mistress believes that both are vital in the training of submissives who will one day satisfy Her sexuallity when She uses Her favorite tool, the strapon. This Domme prefers Her human toys to be possible to mount and enjoy without listening to screams and safe words. She expects daily training with a butt plug, starting with one a reasonable size to endure and over time increasing the length and girth to the almost unendurable. Dildos are used for a change of pace...

Anyone care to join Me in this conversation about expectations of daily training for the pleasure of the Dominant?

LOL....~blushing~ I love butt plugs. I love being told to wear one all day and report back about it. Unfortunately, I don't get to do it often enough. It is a constant reminder when I do get to wear one, and I love that.

 

[Shadowsdream]

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LOL....~blushing~ I love butt plugs. I love being told to wear one all day and report back about it. Unfortunately, I don't get to do it often enough. It is a constant reminder when I do get to wear one, and I love that.

Thank you rose for your honesty. Some submissives have an addiction to them..others a love/hate relationship.
I do enjoy adding the extra humiliation of watching the submissive struggle to insert said implement. It becomes more difficult when under a watchful eye!

 

[A Desert Rose]

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Thank you rose for your honesty. Some submissives have an addiction to them..others a love/hate relationship.
I do enjoy adding the extra humiliation of watching the submissive struggle to insert said implement. It becomes more difficult when under a watchful eye!

Oh yes, is that the truth... under the watchful eye. I get pretty nervous and I admit, embarrassed by it. But once done, I do enjoy wearing it... LOL.

It is the submission of it, I think that is a turn on. And His knowing that it will be a constant reminder of Him all the time I am wearing it.... that is a real turn on for Him, I think.

I love that AV, Ma'am. ~smile~

 

[Guest]

I find it incredibly erotic when he pulls me over his lap to insert one of my anal plugs (usually a fairly large one). I squirm and kick and love every minute of it!!

(it is good prep for serious anal sex - and the submissive aspect always excites me!)

 

[Shadowsdream]

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Oh yes, is that the truth... under the watchful eye. I get pretty nervous and I admit, embarrassed by it. But once done, I do enjoy wearing it... LOL.

It is the submission of it, I think that is a turn on. And His knowing that it will be a constant reminder of Him all the time I am wearing it.... that is a real turn on for Him, I think.

I love that AV, Ma'am. ~smile~

I am pleased that you enjoy this av little one.

The nervous embarrassment certainly is a part of the turn on for Me as well.

 

[Shadowsdream]

I find it incredibly erotic when he pulls me over his lap to insert one of my anal plugs (usually a fairly large one). I squirm and kick and love every minute of it!!

(it is good prep for serious anal sex - and the submissive aspect always excites me!)

Hello sarahh and thank you for particpating in this conversation.
There is no better preparation for anal sex in My opinion than the prior insertion of a plug.
Accepting the plug submissively and knowing what it MAY lead up to would be one of the exciting aspects of this obedience.

 

[Guest]

Hello sarahh and thank you for particpating in this conversation.
There is no better preparation for anal sex in My opinion than the prior insertion of a plug.
Accepting the plug submissively and knowing what it MAY lead up to would be one of the exciting aspects of this obedience.

Yes! (now I'm blushing)

I am so aroused by his gentle admonitions at my initial whimpers of protest. Then I am completely undone, begging, and he commands me with words and restraints as he forces in that last painful bit . . . and then the spanking begins. (sigh)

 

[Ebonyfire]

Dildos

The largest dildo I have was a gife from one of my subs. I think it was a hint, cause he knows I have two strap on harnesses, and the dildo fits perfectly.

He is the only sub who can take the whole thing. I enjoy the look in his eyes when I take it out of the toy bag.

Eb

 

[Angelofsex]

I just was at a adult toy store I go to, and just got a butt plug. In the looking of it, he show me all the diff. ones. Oh my god, never knew there was so many and sizes, one even had a big handle on it. He told me you could even use the handle as one. I started small, then I will work up.

 

[Ebonyfire]

I just was at a adult toy store I go to, and just got a butt plug. In the looking of it, he show me all the diff. ones. Oh my god, never knew there was so many and sizes, one even had a big handle on it. He told me you could even use the handle as one. I started small, then I will work up.

Yes, some of them have unusual shapes. The best ones are curved like the anal canal.

 

[JeanMarc31M]

I must say that this thread has really heated me up.

Shadowsdream, you have painted a very exciting picture. I love the thought of being told to use a plug and working myself over to take progressively thicker and longer toys.

While I haven't given it much thought as a Dom/sub scenario, submitting to a woman's desires in this way is a very exciting thought. Often I'm so dripping with juices that by the time I have finally taken a thick dildo deep inside my tigh ass, my cock is well lubed snd I can bring myself over the edge with a smooth sliding motion as opposed to a hurried "jerk".

It is also very exciting to imagine how the lady calling the shots will want me to take my cum. It can go straight into my mouth if my knees are over my head. An idea that I have considered and hope to try one day is to have it poured back into me after the thickest toy has been removed. Then there is also the very slutty thought of cumming onto a plate and being made to lick it up as I receive a good strap-on fuck.

. . .Like I said, this thread has really heated me up.

Pelase check out my picks and write if you like.

 

[Shadowsdream]

Yes! (now I'm blushing)

I am so aroused by his gentle admonitions at my initial whimpers of protest. Then I am completely undone, begging, and he commands me with words and restraints as he forces in that last painful bit . . . and then the spanking begins. (sigh)

Do you find that the clenching caused by the spanking is enough to bring you to orgasm?
Waiting for another ~blush

 

[Shadowsdream]

I just was at a adult toy store I go to, and just got a butt plug. In the looking of it, he show me all the diff. ones. Oh my god, never knew there was so many and sizes, one even had a big handle on it. He told me you could even use the handle as one. I started small, then I will work up.

Welcome Angel...
Did he by chance show you the butt plug that screws in? It is the next one on My list..I already have 2 drawers full of varying sizes and shapes but for some reason this one has caught My imagination.

 

[Shadowsdream]

I must say that this thread has really heated me up.

Shadowsdream, you have painted a very exciting picture. I love the thought of being told to use a plug and working myself over to take progressively thicker and longer toys.

While I haven't given it much thought as a Dom/sub scenario, submitting to a woman's desires in this way is a very exciting thought. Often I'm so dripping with juices that by the time I have finally taken a thick dildo deep inside my tigh ass, my cock is well lubed snd I can bring myself over the edge with a smooth sliding motion as opposed to a hurried "jerk".

It is also very exciting to imagine how the lady calling the shots will want me to take my cum. It can go straight into my mouth if my knees are over my head. An idea that I have considered and hope to try one day is to have it poured back into me after the thickest toy has been removed. Then there is also the very slutty thought of cumming onto a plate and being made to lick it up as I receive a good strap-on fuck.

. . .Like I said, this thread has really heated me up.

Pelase check out my picks and write if you like.

You will find the yoga plow position perfect for mouth shots!
Male orgasms, forced while plugged, are generally so intense it is difficult for them to hold back the screams of half pleasure half agony.
I have yet to have a sub complain about that dual experience though.

 

[Guest]

Do you find that the clenching caused by the spanking is enough to bring you to orgasm?
Waiting for another ~blush

Oh my!

Yes - you know all about it, don't you? I often orgasm from spanking when I am plugged and restrained and over his knee.

My least favorite implement is a large hairbrush - it stings incredibly - and he has been using it a great deal lately despite my protests (perhaps because of my protests).

Something about being forced - I am trembling.

 

[Hexiegirl]

Wow! All this talk is making me wet This is the type of thing that turns me on in erotica. Haven't had a whole lot of experience with it in real life, although I thoroughly enjoy anal sex. I haven't had the need to use a butt plug to stretch me out or ready my ass as of yet~

 

[Shadowsdream]

Oh my!

Yes - you know all about it, don't you? I often orgasm from spanking when I am plugged and restrained and over his knee.

My least favorite implement is a large hairbrush - it stings incredibly - and he has been using it a great deal lately despite my protests (perhaps because of my protests).

Something about being forced - I am trembling.

I take the subject quite seriously as apparently your Master does as well.
I would suggest you learn to enjoy the sweetness of the hairbrush as a very thin hardwood wooden spoon makes the hairbrush feel like a feather.
Perhaps this is not a thread to share ~~grin~~
Thank you for continuing this conversation sarahh

 

[Shadowsdream]

Wow! All this talk is making me wet This is the type of thing that turns me on in erotica. Haven't had a whole lot of experience with it in real life, although I thoroughly enjoy anal sex. I haven't had the need to use a butt plug to stretch me out or ready my ass as of yet~

I see no good reason not to begin this training in preparation for the day you will be expected to endure much more. you could think of it as a pregift ~~grin~~ to the one whos feet you will kneel at.

 

[Guest]

I take the subject quite seriously as apparently your Master does as well.
I would suggest you learn to enjoy the sweetness of the hairbrush as a very thin hardwood wooden spoon makes the hairbrush feel like a feather.
Perhaps this is not a thread to share ~~grin~~
Thank you for continuing this conversation sarahh

Perhaps I won't share this with him! LOL

The next morning, after a more serious "punishment" - when my cheeks are so tender, still warm, throbbing - I often have to go to work. I find myself in constant arousal the entire day. (I can't wait to get home and start all over again!)

 

[Shadowsdream]

Perhaps I won't share this with him! LOL

The next morning, after a more serious "punishment" - when my cheeks are so tender, still warm, throbbing - I often have to go to work. I find myself in constant arousal the entire day. (I can't wait to get home and start all over again!)

Do you often find yourself bending and twisting to get a better view in the mirror of your humiliation...proud and aroused..already thinking of next time?
Silly Me..of course you do!
I often insist My slave views his training marks as I enjoy his enthusiasm and pride in what he has endured for My pleasure.

 

[SierraMoon]

Shadows, i haven't yet had the pleasure of feeling a plug, but i am told that i will soon!! i can't wait!!

 

[cellis]

This is often part of our play... either with a plug or a vibrating egg.

He will often order me to wear a vibrating egg when we are going somewhere. He requires that I have the controller readily available for Him at all times. He loves playing with me in a group of people who have no idea what is going on except they often think I have trouble speaking.

~smiling at the thought~

 

[Hexiegirl]

I see no good reason not to begin this training in preparation for the day you will be expected to endure much more. you could think of it as a pregift ~~grin~~ to the one whos feet you will kneel at.

::sigh:: but I don't know when that day will come. I had someone's feet to kneel at for a little while, but it doesn't seem so anymore~

 

[Guest]

Do you often find yourself bending and twisting to get a better view in the mirror of your humiliation...proud and aroused..already thinking of next time?
Silly Me..of course you do!
I often insist My slave views his training marks as I enjoy his enthusiasm and pride in what he has endured for My pleasure.

We have a full-length mirror in the bathroom so I can immediately see the marks on me. My hair is a tousled mess as I turn to try to see my ass.

After a hard spanking my cheeks are always so red, so warm to the touch. He has taken pictures of me after - loves me this way - for His amusement. Added to that is the thrill of knowing it isn't yet over for the evening - that when I return to the bedroom more punishment and pleasure await me.

I just read this entire thread again and am indeed blushing, but with arousal.