Dilation

[heterotic]

How does one accomplish it? I'm not tremendously oversized or anything, only about 5 inches around; but the last few times I had sex she was in pain and I had to stop early, even though there was plenty of natural lubrication there. I've heard something about another factor in the process called dilation, but can someone tell me more about it? What is it, and what can I do to improve it?

 

[sweetlittleass]

Well.......

I must say... dilation is a phrase I have only heard while pregnant. So I'm not sure if this is what you are looking for. The woman's cervix dialates when having a baby.

Is your cock on the longer side? Maybe you are bumping her cervix - and if you bump it long enough, it will start to open up (wow... that's an amazing feeling! Had a b/f like that once, god I miss him!)...

If you are longer and bumping into her cervix, that is what is causing the pain probably - if I remember right, it took me a number of sessions to get used to his length - and it definately hurt those first times, but once I got used to it, and my cervix got used to it... WHOA! some of the best orgasms of my life...

Hope this helps...

Baby

 

[Romanticstone]

Dyspareunia

...this is the medical term for what it sounds like your girlfiend is having. I am an RN myself, and had a girlfiend years ago with similar problems. The problem may be physiological or psychological/emotional. Here is a website which covers the topic rather well

http://www.sexwithoutpain.com/

Hope this helps.

 

[SweetBrat73]

First off...if your girl is in pain while having sex she should go see here OB/GYN. There maybe something wrong. After she's checked out and if everything is ok with her...I would suggest visiting the BDSM board. Wonderful ppl over there that are alot of help when it comes to things like this.

Hope all goes well!!!


Brat

 

[heterotic]

Thanks, that first is probably it. I know she'd been diagnosed with some kind of cervical irregularity; and I know I hit it, so that's probably it.

 

[Luvinit]

heterotic, is that you in the picture? You have lovely shoulders. Yum.

 

[DopeyAngel]

RomanticStone - thanks for putting the link to this website up, I found it very helpful.