Difference between visual and mental

[mistressastra]

What gets you excited more easily/quickly? Porn tapes or reading erotic literature? Seeing or imagining? I hear men are more visual and women more mental, but for me, it doesn't matter. I get excited as much by watching a porn or reading Anais Nin.

Anyone?

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Depends.. I go through phases.. sometimes vids work me faster and then the written word or pics..... depends also on the mood...

 

[AzureAngel]

They're one in the same to me. The written is more to me, because my imagination is a far greater theatre than any traditional system I've seen. Thus, I hardly look at porn now.

Granted, I'm easily excited, so... waving a stick would probably be equally effective.

 

[MechaBlade]

My imagination is far kinkier and more expansive than pictures. But the picture is just too fucking hazy. Plus, as you near orgasm, no thoughts go through my head at all.

So that's why I love the internet (porn surfing right now).

 

[sabbathstorm]

Porn videos don't work for me at all. They've never done anything for me but make me laugh. Personally, a well written story will get me more excited than anything.

 

[Tantanah]

Definitely erotic literature for me. Though I've been known to watch porn from time to time,

 

[nzwookie]

Whatever i can get my hands on at the time is the best!!!!

 

[unclej]

i have a small collection of porn tapes but i don't watch them that often...the stories here do it for me every time..

 

[Guest]

I think, for me, it's both visual and mental really. I truly love the written word when it comes to the sensualness it creates. Seeing those words come alive inside my mind, reading their meaning and watching as the scene develops in my thoughts is most powerful.

But then, there is the reflection I see from someone gazing at me. When I can see the sparkle in their eyes and the sparkle reaches out to me...I'm gone. Also, seeing the beauty of a real smile from someone I want to share something with creates such a longing inside.

I guess it just depends on the moment and the surroundings.

 

[Starblayde]

Just porn on its own tends to do it.... i'm very visual, so a good movie will get me hard quickly, but a well written story where i can imagine every single detail like a movie will get me even harder in the end...

i guess it just depends on quality of the media...

 

[KinkyKat]

Although I'm more of a visual person, I also respond well to audible stimumlation.

There's nothing like the sounds of wet sex and moaning and groaning to turn me on.

 

[xMorganx]

Well..

To be honest porn only makes me giggle. Just for the sheer fact of the cheesy story lines..I mean how many milk men can the beautiful big titted house wife fuck in one day while her overweight husband is at work.or i know, lets make a porn within a porn! plus i guess visualy it looks like he is trying to fuck her bellybutton.And i guess i am just sick of the perfect women who seem so gracefull in the act when really I would struggle just trying to get the platform heals off and fall on my face ruining the mood.

so to anwser you i guess when i can imagine the perfect sex scene in my head with whomever be it mr joe average or spiderman then i would pick the reading,