dieing to tell someone

[NCShin]

Yeah, so my LD girlfriend is in town this past week.

I really want to sit down with someone and just tell them the great time we're having. Am I in the minority to just want to ramble out all of the great things that we've been doing?

Some people might tell of how they went to this site seeing spot, to that museum, saw this, saw that. I can't do that lol. We really haven't gone anywhere or done anything outside of the apartment. (not that there is anything to see around here anyway)

How much is telling too much even for a message board? I feel like I'm bursting here...

 

[catalina_francisco]

LOL, I figure you are the one to decide how much is too much for you to let out. Discussion is how we learn, and at times is just plain therapy.....if anyone doesn't want to know, they don't have to read it. Don't think you would find too many here who can't take it though.

Catalina

 

[kitty4ever]

Catalina is exactly right. Disclose as much as you are comfortable with. I've been incredibly open about my breakup, recovery and new romance, using my thread almost like a journal. There are others who go as far as to include pictures in their sharing.

Make whatever decision you're comfortable with, and know that we'll accept it.

 

[AvaAdore]

hmmm...i would also consider whether she is the type of person who wouldnt mind having that sort of thing posted on the net...but then, it's not like anyone here will know her in real life and stuff.

my ex didnt like me posting intimate things that we did on messageboards to complete strangers *shrugs*

 

[shy slave]

The first 'proper' r/l scene I was in(not with my Master), I wanted to shout it from the rooftops, I was so amazed/happy/estastic

I shared it here as I knew the person I was with did not read this site.

The Master does check what I have posted on the site on occasion and questions me about my responses to issues ~ "why did i say....or what did I think about.....?"

Avadore is right to suggest you make sure she is ok with you posting, but of course we do not know who she is, so there is a level of privacy attached to your posts.

Personally I found it liberating to tell people on the site about when Master and I got together, everyone here is supportive and so pleased for each other when things go well; and you can't always share your happiness in this area with other friends or family

So if she's ok about it, then please tell us how damn wonderful it is and how much fun you have both had.

As Catalina said those who don't wish to know won't read it!

 

[shy slave]

*Sits on floor crossed legged and waits for NCShin to begin*

 

[WriterDom]

send pics

 

[zeva]

kitty4ever said it well, i think, "Make whatever decision you're comfortable with."

share whatever you want to share, it would be appreicated, i'm sure.

 

[NCShin]

I am feeling a lot better about not being able to talk about it to anyone today for whatever reason.

We did take some pictures, but they came out fairly poor since the flash wasn't working. She'd also freak if I posted them

 

[shelleb4]

i for one would enjoy reading others adventures. what i do find funny is that, when ive read some, its all so fluid, graceful, nothing goes wrong, no one gets the giggles, they are strangers yet experts immediately. Perhaps im the only one who falls off the bed, gets cramps, moans about being cold, too hot, slips in the shower etc.
So post away with anomyninity

 

[Phoenix Stone]

If you get there urge again, you can always post it as a hypothetical. Or I was considering starting a thread, if there isn't one, for people's favorite times/scenes/whatevers that they felt like sharing, and what they liked so much about the one they shared, so you could share some way like that.

(My husband doesn't like my writing about personal stuff but understands and tolerates as long as I don't publish pics of self or flirt too much. (Just got permission to flirt a little. What a relief. Holding back was keeping my bratmuscle working overtime.))

 

[catalina_francisco]

Or I was considering starting a thread, if there isn't one, for people's favorite times/scenes/whatevers that they felt like sharing, and what they liked so much about the one they shared, so you could share some way like that.

This might be a good one...though people seem shy.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=196448

Catalina

 

[Phoenix Stone]

This might be a good one...though people seem shy.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=196448

Catalina

Thanks, Catalina. I like your thread idea but wonder if maybe I tried a different tack this time? (Wondering if people on this forum might be more shy about occasions described in terms that sound spiritual or elevated than about achieving heights of lust and such?) Not mention sublime bliss but instead something more like getting nasty, or down-and-dirty fun times, or something? Sort of getting to the same place but from a different direction?

 

[AngelicAssassin]

I really want to sit down with someone and just tell them the great time we're having. Am I in the minority to just want to ramble out all of the great things that we've been doing?

No, i don't think you're in the minority. Sounds like you found exactly what you wanted, and feel like you'll burst at the seams. i've seen kittycat come across the same way talking about Francisco and vice versa. How could anyone bear to keep that much happiness buried inside?

... what i do find funny is that, when ive read some, its all so fluid, graceful, nothing goes wrong, no one gets the giggles, they are strangers yet experts immediately. Perhaps im the only one who falls off the bed, gets cramps, moans about being cold, too hot, slips in the shower etc.

Actually, i think MissTaken said something about scening with the giggles not too long ago. As for other posters, i think they pass along the highlights, and of course they seem fluid and perfect. They were highlights, how could they be anything else? i find falling off the bed, slipping in the shower (short of going to the hospital, or impinging on further fun), and "got a cramp!" usually reduces the intimates to gales of laughter. Those are the moments no one else would understand, the ones i hold most dear, and the ones that the intimates will remember fondly and warmly further down the road.

 

[Betticus]

(Just got permission to flirt a little. What a relief. Holding back was keeping my bratmuscle working overtime.))

How YOU doin?

 

[Phoenix Stone]

How YOU doin?

I'm inciting insurrection among the underlings, riots in the streets.... No, wait -- that was occupation pre-permission! Bratmuscle is getting a wee bit less of a work out, and I'm stretching rusty flirtmuscles a bit. Check out the Cafe....

Nice of you to ask.


(hey, gotta start working out a bit more regularly, no?)

 

[catalina_francisco]

i for one would enjoy reading others adventures. what i do find funny is that, when ive read some, its all so fluid, graceful, nothing goes wrong, no one gets the giggles, they are strangers yet experts immediately. Perhaps im the only one who falls off the bed, gets cramps, moans about being cold, too hot, slips in the shower etc.
So post away with anomyninity

LOL, you must have missed my posts about my form of subspace...well we suspect that is what it must be substituting for. Is quite the dilemma when your D puts so much effort into giving you pain most would scream and cry about only to have your slave double up in laughter...and it is not working to try and supress it, just gets worse. And I continually whine about being cold...yuk, sounds so bad.

Catalina