Diapers for Brides

[SexyVita]

OK, this is probably going to seem weird to a lot of people, even here on Lit, but I saw something recently about diapers for brides so that if they needed to pee during the ceremony they would have the option. Now, neither pee nor diapers are on my normal list of fetishes, or even my abnormal list! But for some reason the idea of a bride just letting go into a diaper right in the middle of her vows, or as she's kissing the groom, or any other part of the ceremony gets me really aroused. So, I'm wondering have any of you Litsters:

1. Have worn a diaper under your wedding dress, whether you used it or not?
2. Had to pee really bad during your wedding and wished you'd had a diaper to pee into?
3. Actually peed during your ceremony with or without a diaper?

If the answer to any of these questions is yes, please provide some details, I'm doing research here!

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[IARainman]

Hoping someone has some input, even if it’s fantasy

 

[SexyVita]

My sister had to do this on her wedding day. It was just impossible for her to get in and out of the dress over the 5-6 hours she was wearing it. She eagerly changed after the ceremony, but said she was glad she went the diaper route. She had tried it out previously to make sure it’s be okay if she went in the diaper

Thank you, I'm sure it wasn't an erotic experience for her, but hearing about it... Imagining that moment when she had to choose between holding it back or just letting go... well let's just say her diaper isn't the only thing that might be wet.

 

[SexyVita]

Hoping someone has some input, even if it’s fantasy

Well, we've had one responder anyway. And thanks for the bump, there might not have been a reponse without it.

 

[SexyVita]

I've been considering why I find this such a turn on when the components (pee and diapers) individually hold almost zero appeal. I think part of it is that moment of decision when she has to decide or is forced by the circumstance to overcome her natural resistant to peeing in public. Then there is the fear that the diaper won't work or that everyone can tell what she's doing.

There is also the fact that peeing (usually) feels good. It is its own kind of release, especially if you've been fighting it, which I suspect most brides would be in that situation.

Then there is the taboo nature of a bride doing something "naughty" right in the middle of a day they've looked forward to, where they are expected to be elegant and beautiful, not doing something 'dirty' in the middle of the church.

 

[bobb_sledd]

My sister had to do this on her wedding day. It was just impossible for her to get in and out of the dress over the 5-6 hours she was wearing it. She eagerly changed after the ceremony, but said she was glad she went the diaper route. She had tried it out previously to make sure it’s be okay if she went in the diaper

I have to ask, was the groom aware (before or after) that she wore a diaper under her wedding dress?

 

[littlecordelera]

If a woman has medical issues and suffers from incontinence, then she may need a diaper. But any normal woman would not have trouble holding her pee for a marriage ceremony.

 

[jaF0]

^^^ You've never had to go .... like really HAD to go ... like clench your teeth and twist your knees had to go? Like stop the car so I can get out and go before I mess up the seats? I'm not sure I know of a human that hasn't had the urge that bad.

Then again, this product might solve the damp problem, but would it hold the odor from solids?

 

[SexyVita]

^^^ You've never had to go .... like really HAD to go ... like clench your teeth and twist your knees had to go? Like stop the car so I can get out and go before I mess up the seats? I'm not sure I know of a human that hasn't had the urge that bad.

Then again, this product might solve the damp problem, but would it hold the odor from solids?

I agree. I drink a lot of water every day, I mean A LOT. Like 2-4 times the recommended daily minimum. So I need to pee about once every 2 hours or so. So for someone like that, imagine putting on the dress, then having photos done with the wedding party, which can easily take an hour plus. Then the wait for guests to arrive and the service to start, then finally the service itself. In my case that was nearly 3 hours altogether. Now I had a dress that was easy to shimmy up and so this was not a problem, I peed once the pictures were done and again after the service before heading to the reception. But if I'd been in some big poofy dress with tons of layers? I'd probably have peed myself during the service!

As to the last point, I doubt most brides would be in their diapers long enough to soil them with solids, unless she was suffering from some sort of gastointestinal distress. I know some people are into diapers on the regular, but that isn't really what this thread is about, it's more about a bride who doesn't normally wear diapers, or have any ABDL or other diaper fetishes, wearing one just on her wedding day.

 

[Biker_Faerie]

For me I think the daiper takes away any eroticism in the situation because the bride can go when they want.

The eroticism for me would be in the way that she has to hold it until she can safely get some relief. Perhaps with a catheter or perched over a bucket in a very unladylike position.

 

[jehoram]

If a woman has medical issues and suffers from incontinence, then she may need a diaper. But any normal woman would not have trouble holding her pee for a marriage ceremony.

Unless she's pregnant, and her bladder isn't as roomy with a kid in the way. I suspect that there are many brides who are getting married while pregnant... it's the reason they're getting married.

 

[lil_jenni]

I purposely did not go with a big, floor length dress just for this reason... Well, partially for this reason. But even so, going pee was still a challenge.

Still, I don't think I would have gone the diaper route even if I had chosen a long, multi-layered dress. I wanted to get married wearing sexy lace panties. They did end up soaked, but not from pee. My Hubby looks so fucking hot in a tux that I couldn't keep myself from getting aroused when I saw him.

 

[littlecordelera]

Unless she's pregnant, and her bladder isn't as roomy with a kid in the way. I suspect that there are many brides who are getting married while pregnant... it's the reason they're getting married.

Isn't that a medical issue called "pregnancy incontinence"?

 

[SexyVita]

For me I think the daiper takes away any eroticism in the situation because the bride can go when they want.

The eroticism for me would be in the way that she has to hold it until she can safely get some relief. Perhaps with a catheter or perched over a bucket in a very unladylike position.

I definately get what you're saying, but I think for me the excitement is that the diaper lets her pee at some totally inappropriate time, like during the sermon or while kissing the groom. I do imagine her trying to hold it as long as possible, but at the same time getting aroused by the idea of peeing right there with everyone watching, possibly getting embarrassed wondering if they'll be able to tell what she's doing. Then she finally gives in when she can't hold it any longer and feels the sweet release that comes from peeing when you're desperate.

 

[SexyVita]

I purposely did not go with a big, floor length dress just for this reason... Well, partially for this reason. But even so, going pee was still a challenge.

Still, I don't think I would have gone the diaper route even if I had chosen a long, multi-layered dress. I wanted to get married wearing sexy lace panties. They did end up soaked, but not from pee. My Hubby looks so fucking hot in a tux that I couldn't keep myself from getting aroused when I saw him.

I think that's one of the other things that I like about this fantasy, the trope is that the bride is dressed in sexy lingerie under her dress, and the idea that she is wearing a diaper instead is a delightful subversion of that. Unless you are into diapers, it's hard to imagine less sexy underwear.

 

[Jeb56]

I think that's one of the other things that I like about this fantasy, the trope is that the bride is dressed in sexy lingerie under her dress, and the idea that she is wearing a diaper instead is a delightful subversion of that. Unless you are into diapers, it's hard to imagine less sexy underwear.

To take it another arousing step, the bride could be wearing clit jewelry, a butt plug or ben wa balls during the ceremony.

 

[SexyVita]

To take it another arousing step, the bride could be wearing clit jewelry, a butt plug or ben wa balls during the ceremony.

I actually thought about that, but as arousing as that idea might be in another bridal fantasy (I have many), I think it actually detracts here, at least for me. Using a butt plug or other toys suggests to me that either she's been coerced into doing it, or she expects the situation to be arousing. For me, this is more about doing something that maybe only her closest friends know about (some or all the bridesmaids) and not expecting the experience to be erotic, but finding it so anyway.

 

[Adrian69702006]

I suspect more brides than a few are actually diapered up. Not everyone can hold for hours on end, and even some of the ones who can probably don't want to take risks on a big day.

 

[NancyPan]

Absolutely nothing erotic about this. If a bride does it to prevent getting out of and then back into a complicated dress, so be it. Very, very few people experience their wedding ceremonies as sexual events, nor even the wedding night these days as few couples have not been lovers long before legally marrying. To me, this issue is a big “yawn.”

 

[SexyVita]

I suspect more brides than a few are actually diapered up. Not everyone can hold for hours on end, and even some of the ones who can probably don't want to take risks on a big day.

I don't know. I started this thread thinking I might hear from at least a few people who had done this, or who knew a bride who had, but I've only had one response so far as to anyone that has actually done it. I think it probably goes too against the grain for most brides. Even the references I've seen to it online seem to be in doubt as to whether it is actually something some brides are doing, or if it is more in the vein of an urban ledgend.

 

[SexyVita]

Absolutely nothing erotic about this. If a bride does it to prevent getting out of and then back into a complicated dress, so be it. Very, very few people experience their wedding ceremonies as sexual events, nor even the wedding night these days as few couples have not been lovers long before legally marrying. To me, this issue is a big “yawn.”

Obviously you are entitled to your opinion, and I'm sure there are a lot of people that would not find this erotic. I'm also pretty sure that brides who do wear diapers during the ceremony generally do not find it erotic. I mean heck, I started the thread, and I doubt I would find it erotic in reality, but that isn't really the point. Lit is all about fantasy, and often people find things erotic in fantasy that they would not for real. Still, there should be no shame, especially here, whether you do or don't like a particular kink.

 

[Adrian69702006]

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I don't know. I started this thread thinking I might hear from at least a few people who had done this, or who knew a bride who had, but I've only had one response so far as to anyone that has actually done it. I think it probably goes too against the grain for most brides. Even the references I've seen to it online seem to be in doubt as to whether it is actually something some brides are doing, or if it is more in the vein of an urban ledgend.

I suspect the truth is we will never know. My hunch is that rather more brides wear protection than admit to it.

 

[FantasySharer1]

I love pee and play and have done plenty of it over the years.

Would love it if bride simply can't find a time to go to the bathroom during the ceremony and instead end up somehow getting a glass from the bar and pees directly into it. She doesn't know what to do with it and hands it to her new husband and whispers: "I couldn't go to the bathroom so this just came out of me."

He smiles, and sips it and slowly drinks every drop down as her pussy gets wet when she sees how DEEPLY he accepts her body.

 

[Becky_Sapphire]

I really love this idea! Definitely the thought of the woman, at her most glamorous and the centre of attention, secretly peeing in a diaper throughout the day. Think the fact she's doing it out of necessity (rather than due to a fetish or some blackmail scenario) makes it even hotter.

For those who like a bit of humiliation, perhaps after a few drinks at the reception with her diaper increasingly becoming more soggy and saggy, it eventually overflows and wets her dress. Or maybe she manages to get a bridesmaid, or even her new mother-in-law, to help her change it before that happens.

 

[Samantha47]

^^^ You've never had to go .... like really HAD to go ... like clench your teeth and twist your knees had to go? Like stop the car so I can get out and go before I mess up the seats? I'm not sure I know of a human that hasn't had the urge that bad.

Then again, this product might solve the damp problem, but would it hold the odor from solids?

I've been like that too