Didn't know where else to turn and ran face first into this site.. I'm seeing someone that I don't get to see as often as I'd like, and when we are apart I want to keep his attentions on me... But I have no idea where to begin with the sexting or dirty talk... Advice anyone
Desperately needing advice on dirty talk :/
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theManThing
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Be open and let them know how desired they are by you.
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find out if he likes it, and if he does - what's his kink?
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Oooh, I'm a big fan of dirty talk, in the right situation. When I'm feeling a little shy, I have a cocktail and just describe what I wish we would be doing, if we were in a position to do anything.
Like, "if you were here right now, I would press my hands on your jeans, just to start off" and then describe something about yourself, like "my nipples are getting hard just thinking about it." Hopefully he will respond and you can take your cues from him.
Like, "if you were here right now, I would press my hands on your jeans, just to start off" and then describe something about yourself, like "my nipples are getting hard just thinking about it." Hopefully he will respond and you can take your cues from him.
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Use the right tone, hushed and sexy, throw in a few soft moans, sigh's and mmmm's and you could prolly get by with reading him the ingredients in your shampoo.
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YES!!!
Send him a copy of your profile pic
Haha thank you!
got it sorted ?...ready to give it a go?
Trial run?!
probably a good idea...
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It all depends on what type of guy he is
If he's quiet and insecure he may feel awkward, if he's not then I'm pretty sure he will be more than happy
If he's quiet and insecure he may feel awkward, if he's not then I'm pretty sure he will be more than happy
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It all depends on what type of guy he is
If he's quiet and insecure he may feel awkward, if he's not then I'm pretty sure he will be more than happy
Looking like the Op does, her guy had better not be insecure or he's gonna worry himself to death.
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Well if he's a confident guy you should have no problems
Just say something really dirty to throw him off, see what he comes back with and then you'll know where it's going
beingtrue2me
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It was a compliment. If your man was the insecure type (which you said he is not) I meant that he would go crazy worrying about all the guys trying to get your attention. Some guys are like that yanno.
Thanks sugar!
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This.
If its your first time, you could go slow with something like, "I wish we were together right now, just feeling your body against mine, your fingers trailing over my skin..." Or something like, "I really, really wish I could feel your fingers in me right now." Depends on how lovey-dovey/rough you are with him, I guess. And don't forget the voice, the moans, the ragged, heavy breathing... Project, girl.
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Dirty Talk
There was a time when I wondered what one should say, with regards to Dirty Things while chatting, or with a girl. I started reading some of the stories from this and other sites. Now I have a strong sexual vocabulary. If you want to know more give me a buzz
There was a time when I wondered what one should say, with regards to Dirty Things while chatting, or with a girl. I started reading some of the stories from this and other sites. Now I have a strong sexual vocabulary. If you want to know more give me a buzz
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Well it depends on what he likes. You do have one advantage....you know he likes you. =)
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Be honest and specific
Most of the other posters recommended going with what you know he likes. I get turned on when my lady lets me know what she would like right now. All of the warm up comments work to set the mood. I miss you, my arms long to hold you and feel your warmth. I want to feel you press yourself into my body. Then go into telling him how you are feeling, warm, wet, etc. I wish I could feel your mouth on my breasts right now. How you would love him to kiss you all over and then do the same for him. Let the conversation have a natural flow. I know I prefer to be seduced slowly by words and imagery.
Most of the other posters recommended going with what you know he likes. I get turned on when my lady lets me know what she would like right now. All of the warm up comments work to set the mood. I miss you, my arms long to hold you and feel your warmth. I want to feel you press yourself into my body. Then go into telling him how you are feeling, warm, wet, etc. I wish I could feel your mouth on my breasts right now. How you would love him to kiss you all over and then do the same for him. Let the conversation have a natural flow. I know I prefer to be seduced slowly by words and imagery.
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