Desperate

[Stella_Omega]

What happens at these car clubs, etc.? When she hits on some guy, what does she say? She doesn't really need a pickup line because if the guy is interested and available, just a smile and a friendly greeting is enough to start things going. You know as well as I do that if she lives in SoCal, being sexually vanilla is a big negative.

She might move about three or four hundred miles north to the San Jose area. Because of Silicon Valley, there are thousands of unattached men there, generally educated and reasonably well off. The weather is not much different from that in L. A.

She knows about smiles and friendly greetings.

She is not going to change her sexual orientation, any more than you would.

I edited before, to say that after a while, women sound to themselves like Blanche DuBois. It's degrading and dispiriting. And after six years, depressing in the clinical sense.

She's thought about it San Jose, actually.

Bus tour from San Jose? You might need TWO busses going back, to bring back the women...

 

[Boxlicker101]

I was trying to explain you, politely, love. I never said you were a crusader or an inquisitioner But love you are wrong, There are many more women than men in this silly world. And what, women say they are WHAT? LOL

According to the census, there are a few more women than men in the USA. However, that is not the question. I say that almost every unattached straight man is looking for women, for reasons that range from noncommital sex to marriage. Many, many unattached straight women have little or no interest in men, sometimes for good reason, but sometimes from simple indifference. That is what I mean when I say there are more men available than women.

The indifferent women might say they are looking but their "looking" is like Sleeping Beauty looking for Prince Charming. If the right guy came along, they would be interested, but they do no more than sit and wait.

 

[CharleyH]

She knows about smiles and friendly greetings.

She is not going to change her sexual orientation, any more than you would.

I edited before, to say that after a while, women sound to themselves like Blanche DuBois. It's degrading and dispiriting. And after six years, depressing in the clinical sense.

She's thought about it San Jose, actually.

Bus tour from San Jose? You might need TWO busses going back, to bring back the women...

STELLLLLLAAA! is very much a man beg. Women beg? San Jose, though - WAY COOL, a litle dry, but you have lube no?

 

[Stella_Omega]

STELLLLLLAAA! is very much a man beg. Women beg? San Jose, though - WAY COOL, a litle dry, but you have lube no?

of course I have, darlin, what flavor would you like?

 

[Stella_Omega]

According to the census, there are a few more women than men in the USA. However, that is not the question. I say that almost every unattached straight man is looking for women, for reasons that range from noncommital sex to marriage. Many, many unattached straight women have little or no interest in men, sometimes for good reason, but sometimes from simple indifference. That is what I mean when I say there are more men available than women.

The indifferent women might say they are looking but their "looking" is like Sleeping Beauty looking for Prince Charming. If the right guy came along, they would be interested, but they do no more than sit and wait.

Well, you should come down here and explain it all to her, then.

 

[Just-Legal]

Begging your pardon Stella, but horseshit.

Women have their own set of unrealistic expectations.

None, I repeat, none of them will go out with a guy poorer than them. They will not forgive his lack of sartorial understanding. They won't understand lack of education nor improper haircuts.

Maybe things are different in So Cal. But that's the way it is here in Toronto.

Sorry RG but THAT is horseshit.

As I said many times, I earnt more than my ex partner throughout our relationship. He understood me better than anyone, and he only has a school education (I'm at University). His hair was none of my concern. We broke up because we felt we didn't love each other enough any more and we'd be better off as friends.

I still love and adore him, but that's another thread.

 

[rgraham666]

I beg your pardon, people.

Sometimes my bitterness gets the better of me.

 

[CharleyH]

of course I have, darlin, what flavor would you like?

Yours, of course.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I beg your pardon, people.

Sometimes my bitterness gets the better of me.

As it does us all, once in a while.

If you could keep your bitterness under control- and my sister could do the same with her identical feelings...
Perhaps there would be a meeting in the middle.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Yours, of course.

Be still my heart!
(Now this is multitasking with a vengeance- debating Rgraham and boxlicker on one hand, flirting with Charley on the other )

 

[CharleyH]

of course I have, darlin, what flavor would you like?

Well, I enjoy spicy hit me in the throat cum, or a wash of wine, or if possible a YUM drench from a woman. Seriousy do not mind Box, he is like a cute ol' vanilla that needs a desperate fuck.

 

[yui]

Sad shmad.
She's not selling herself. I mean hell, since she's screening the buyers... it's just a marriage-minded personal ad with media impact.

Agreed. Reads like personal ad to me, too.