Desire for wife to get pregnant while swinging

[midwestcoupleforfun]

Hi everyone!

Thankfully after many years of work, separation and marriage counseling, my wife is ready to swing.

However, I have a fantasy like many other men, that she play bareback without birth control. So far, she's willing to use condoms while ovulating but that's as risky as she wants to go.

Has this happened to anyone else here? Is this really common for men to want their wives bred? What was the result of the pregnancy? My wife only plans to swing within her race so there's no explaining to do with our families if she does get impregnated by her swinging partner(s).

She's off prescription BC and will be fertile in November and we're currently looking for men right now to join us. Thanks for the info. I will add our story once she meets her first guy for sex.

 

[twister947]

Babies are not fetishes...have you lost your mind?

 

[screwher]

my wife

My wife is "fixed". I certainly want her and another man to get as much practice in as possible though.

 

[Palamino19]

I'm not sure one should use work, separation, and marriage counseling for these purposes...

 

[lynn-23]

Hi everyone!

Thankfully after many years of work, separation and marriage counseling, my wife is ready to swing.

However, I have a fantasy like many other men, that she play bareback without birth control. So far, she's willing to use condoms while ovulating but that's as risky as she wants to go.

Has this happened to anyone else here? Is this really common for men to want their wives bred? What was the result of the pregnancy? My wife only plans to swing within her race so there's no explaining to do with our families if she does get impregnated by her swinging partner(s).

She's off prescription BC and will be fertile in November and we're currently looking for men right now to join us. Thanks for the info. I will add our story once she meets her first guy for sex.

Feel free to PM me to discuss.

 

[Harold_Hill]

Left web site due to censored messages by chargergirl

 

[seamus221]

So you want to raise another mans baby or have her get all emo and leave you for the baby daddy?

Fantasy is wonderful but these things always end up on the evening news with dead bodies,guns,knifes and shocked neighbours.

Gonna recommend a big fat Reality Check!

 

[SCcouple1990]

I see no problems there at all. No issues when the fantasy becomes a reality, no potential issues of insecurity/anger/regret, no potential child support issues, no issues when the child finds out their biological father is not the person raising them.

I think it's a fantastic idea, a fetish is much more important than a human life.

 

[CindyCD478]

We only did anal when swinging until after our kids were born and we both got fixed.

 

[Aphro]

Hi everyone!

Thankfully after many years of work, separation and marriage counseling, my wife is ready to swing.

What the ever loving fuck? Good luck with that.

You must have rocks in your noodle. Seriously.

Swinging is an activity for those in a super solid relationship. If you are just back on stable ground with your marriage, swinging isn't a great idea.

I'm not even going to touch the getting knocked up by a strange dude.

 

[Hans101]

Fantasy is one thing, reality is another.

Feel free to enjoy the former as long as you don't confuse it with the latter.

 

[seamus221]

I see no problems there at all. No issues when the fantasy becomes a reality, no potential issues of insecurity/anger/regret, no potential child support issues, no issues when the child finds out their biological father is not the person raising them.

I think it's a fantastic idea, a fetish is much more important than a human life.

We are so going to have to not agree on that last statement.
Because a life is priceless and a fetish is not!

This devauling of human life is sick thinking and you better hope some day some body doesn't get a fetish to take your life ,because under your thinking it would be ok or did you not think out your belief system as to how it might effect you?

 

[Harold_Hill]

Left web site due to censored messages by chargergirl

 

[Learin]

Just when I think I've seen all the weird threads that can be....

 

[MissCautious]

Would have been a great job for the therapist!!

 

[SCcouple1990]

We are so going to have to not agree on that last statement.
Because a life is priceless and a fetish is not!

This devauling of human life is sick thinking and you better hope some day some body doesn't get a fetish to take your life ,because under your thinking it would be ok or did you not think out your belief system as to how it might effect you?

Sorry your reading comprehension skills prevent you from understanding sarcasm. The first paragraph should have been a big clue the last sentence, like the previous paragraph was sarcasm.

 

[SCcouple1990]

I think SCcouple was being sarcastic.

Thanks for getting the sarcasm.

 

[Eilan]

We are so going to have to not agree on that last statement.
Because a life is priceless and a fetish is not!

This devauling of human life is sick thinking and you better hope some day some body doesn't get a fetish to take your life ,because under your thinking it would be ok or did you not think out your belief system as to how it might effect you?

Oh, honey. . .

 

[sexlover66]

Ive never seen a thread jumped on so negatively iny few years of being on here...but i have to jump on this wagon with the others....

1...You cant seriously want to raise another mans baby from a swing encounter...if you wanna raise someobe elses child...adopt a child...there are thousands of them out there.

2..Your wife has said swinging ok WITH A CONDOM..dont push your luck...she may change her mind....then you are losing the fantasy completely...does she know you are planning this little adventure??

3..If your marriage has bern rocky anyway...why swing?? Heal it..let it grow...dont add someone else into a mix that isnt strong anyway...

Just my two cents...take it for what its worth.....

 

[BareBackRider2]

After reading another thread about a family enjoying eating each others excrement, I found myself thinking "time to leave lit"

Thank God I found this thread full of people actually taking sense.

Freedom of expression goes both ways imho and that includes the freedom to express when you disagree with someone else.

I applaud the direction this thread went.

 

[goldenpalomino]

Wonderful fantasy for me, both to watch or to be the breeder.

 

[nephewjerry]

I got a vasectomy while married to my first wife due to health reasons for her. When I married my much younger wife we'd discussed having children and I went to have it reversed. It didn't work, so we did IVF, very expensive, very humiliating for a woman. We had a wonderful little boy, we wanted another so I went to a highly recommended Urologist and tried the reversal again, it worked for the most part, however my swimmers get tired and stop swimming after a while. So we decided we'd try and pick and choose an acceptable male to swing with in the hopes we could get her pregnant. We've been trying for several months and are presently waiting to see if our last try has worked. Now many are saying why would you want to do this? IVF is very expensive and most insurance doesn't cover it, so mostly it's a cost thing, $17,000 or a night of fun and pleasure? In our books its an easy choice.

 

[goldenpalomino]

I got a vasectomy while married to my first wife due to health reasons for her. When I married my much younger wife we'd discussed having children and I went to have it reversed. It didn't work, so we did IVF, very expensive, very humiliating for a woman. We had a wonderful little boy, we wanted another so I went to a highly recommended Urologist and tried the reversal again, it worked for the most part, however my swimmers get tired and stop swimming after a while. So we decided we'd try and pick and choose an acceptable male to swing with in the hopes we could get her pregnant. We've been trying for several months and are presently waiting to see if our last try has worked. Now many are saying why would you want to do this? IVF is very expensive and most insurance doesn't cover it, so mostly it's a cost thing, $17,000 or a night of fun and pleasure? In our books its an easy choice.

It is good in my book too. Best wishes to you, your wife and family!

 

[nephewjerry]

It is good in my book too. Best wishes to you, your wife and family!

Thanks

 

[goldenpalomino]

Thanks

Where did you find your guy?!