Desensitizing lotion for femdom

[mjones908]

Hi all-

Just wondering if any of you had experience using a desensitizing cream as part of a femdom punishment. As in the guy can't get off because his cock is numb but remains hard so his Mistress can have her way with him.

What type of creams/lotions have this effect? Did it work on the sub. Etc.

 

[Lady_In_Black]

Oh, I think I like you! (I am not hitting on you.)

I've been wondering this as well, so I'll second mjones908's request, please!

The other thought I had was just put a few condoms on them, or a penis sheath. The issue with the latter being that half of them are extenders, and I don't want an extended penis, most of them are too long as is! You do get an extra way to humiliate them in saying that "This rubber feels better then you do, whimpering sex minion!"

If anyone is wondering where to buy the desensitising for men, I've seen it in the "sexual performance" categories in a lot of adult stores, as it's supposed to make them 'last longer'.

Or I suppose one could smear heating cream/capsicum on them, put a condom and cock ring on and have fun that way. ^_^

 

[mjones908]

Or I suppose one could smear heating cream/capsicum on them, put a condom and cock ring on and have fun that way. ^_^

That is so evil! I have had some experience with icy hot, and I assure you it is pure torture, I can't imagine a condom filled and locked in place with a cock ring..... Agony comes to mind.... Exquisit agony....

 

[DVS]

Hi all-

Just wondering if any of you had experience using a desensitizing cream as part of a femdom punishment. As in the guy can't get off because his cock is numb but remains hard so his Mistress can have her way with him.

What type of creams/lotions have this effect? Did it work on the sub. Etc.

Back in the olden days (60s and 70s) there was a common practice among the more sexual couples to use a dab of cocaine right at the opening of the penis. A solution of cocaine and water dabbed at the tip of the urethra numbed the penis from ejaculation, but didn't harm the erection or other related sensations. Just the urge to ejaculate was quelled. This wasn't a Dom/sub thing, but just a way to allow the male to keep an erection longer.

Of course, this was a different time, back when pure and uncut drugs were more in the social mainstream and also when there was no issue with AIDS. Free love was the norm. Communal sex, even in the vanilla world, was common.

If you don't know much about the effects of cocaine, the numbness is short lived...maybe 15 minutes or so, if that long. So after some great sex with his partner, the male was able to cum, usually after the woman had cum several times. It was also not uncommon to dab more cocaine, when feeling was coming back, if they wanted the sexual fun to continue.

I don't know how a desensitizing cream would work in this case, so experimentation would be necessary to see if it would in fact work and how long it would last. I'd also be cautious about putting just any chemical solution near the urethra. That tissue is sensitive to burns and possible damage if the cream isn't intended for sensitive tissue. For sure, I'd use it sparingly. Long term use could result in infections. A very small amount of cocaine went a long way. Who knows about a desensitizing cream?

And while a cock ring would probably do the same thing, keeping the erection and not allowing ejaculation, using a cock ring for too long can be dangerous to the blood vessels of the penis.

 

[Mads]

In the past we've used those condoms with the desensitising cream/lotion in them... if you can scoop that out, it'd do the trick... for about 30 minutes or so it prevented me from quite 'getting there', but not by a lot, making it much more frustrating

 

[JackVettriano]

Call me old fashioned

When I was about 14, All I had to do was look at my girls pussy and i wanted to blow my bolt! I would just have a crafty 'one of the wrist' before she came round to see me and that calmed me down.

If I am getting teased for hours and dont get my rocks off it starts to hurnt in the pit of my stomach. I do love getting teased, but it can go on to long. So what I do is get my girl to give me a boaring hand job, if there is such a thing. Once I have cleaned the pipes. She will start teasing me proper, using all of her body and toys! I last longer and feel better.

I hope this helps girls, your guys are so lucky! I havent had any for a week now and my hand just aint enough!

 

[mslv4Her]

Oh, I think I like you! (I am not hitting on you.)

I've been wondering this as well, so I'll second mjones908's request, please!

^_^

Oh, how I like a Lady who likes this kind thing!