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Were they exactly what you expected? Surprised? Disappointed?
Did your feelings change either way? What happened?
Did your feelings change either way? What happened?
Describe the first personal meeting with someone you met on the Internet (romantic)
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SweetCherry
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My only personal meeting with a Lit member wasn't a romantic one.It was nice tho. 
Ezzie
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I was very surprised and it went good. We stayed together for almost a year as a "friends with benefits" type deal. Then, sadly, he joined the Army and I haven't heard from him since. Probably a good thing, though because I would have never met my husband if not for my "friend" going away.
Temptress_1960
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I've met my lover twice. We knew each other so well, we'd talked online, on the phone, on the Web cam... it was so much better than I ever thought it would be.
Both times we spent several days together, and the second time was even better than the first.
I'm eagerly looking forward to the next time.
Both times we spent several days together, and the second time was even better than the first.
I'm eagerly looking forward to the next time.
Secret Pleasure
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I've met a few friends (male & female). All went really well. We made sure to know each other well as friends online and through calls. Meeting in person was just an extension of the friendship.
I did meet one romantically. Meeting them in person after 1 yrs 'courtship' if you want to call it that, was better than either one of us ever imagined. We clicked instantly.
I did meet one romantically. Meeting them in person after 1 yrs 'courtship' if you want to call it that, was better than either one of us ever imagined. We clicked instantly.
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Shaq said:
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It far exceeded even my wild imagination, and we're still going strong.
I don't have much time, so I'll just shorten it alot. Funny, confusing, intense, tender, very romantic, suprising, hot, exhausting, and very much an orgasm of the mind.
I don't have much time, so I'll just shorten it alot. Funny, confusing, intense, tender, very romantic, suprising, hot, exhausting, and very much an orgasm of the mind.
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Elitist said:
Do us all a favor. Give up this persona and return to your other one. You're a terrible bore.
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I picked him up at the airport. When he approached me, I was busy wrestling with a newspaper that had gotten out of control. We hugged and proceeded to walk out to the garage, where my car was parked. He grabbed my hand. On the way out, I pointed out signage that amused me.
I missed the exit for the turnpike - twice. It was near rush hour. On the two hour drive to my place, he rested. We listened to Radiohead.
Both starving, we picked up a slice in town. Some beer, too. First kiss. First fight. Setting up the futon. We stayed up all night - talking. Daylight brings more talking, Chinese food, snow.
I missed the exit for the turnpike - twice. It was near rush hour. On the two hour drive to my place, he rested. We listened to Radiohead.
Both starving, we picked up a slice in town. Some beer, too. First kiss. First fight. Setting up the futon. We stayed up all night - talking. Daylight brings more talking, Chinese food, snow.
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Other than going to two extrordinarily disapointing chat parties at a bar 6 years ago, the only other girl I met from online is sitting in the living room watching Will and Grace.
I will never forget watching her walk up to my apartment and the shy look on her face because she knew I was checking her out through the sliding glass door.
I was blown away.
When I have my head on straight...I still am.
I will never forget watching her walk up to my apartment and the shy look on her face because she knew I was checking her out through the sliding glass door.
I was blown away.
When I have my head on straight...I still am.
dragonhearted
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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....
I met four guys through the 'Net....it did n't end up as I would have liked....But then I put a profile in at this dating site...and met a guy who lives just 22 miles from me. Nice guy, handsome, sexy, but not a ladies' man...computer geek, loves D & D, has a couple kids (like me), has even written some poetry. He is also the one that shares my secret on Caly's thread back last week(?)....
Not all men ya meet online are ruffians Elite....but thanks for the concern!
I met four guys through the 'Net....it did n't end up as I would have liked....But then I put a profile in at this dating site...and met a guy who lives just 22 miles from me. Nice guy, handsome, sexy, but not a ladies' man...computer geek, loves D & D, has a couple kids (like me), has even written some poetry. He is also the one that shares my secret on Caly's thread back last week(?)....
Not all men ya meet online are ruffians Elite....but thanks for the concern!
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Re: Describe the first personal meeting with someone you met on the Internet (romantic)
He was waiting for me at the airport- I'd have known him anywhere. I think he was more nervous than I was, and he just picked at his food at lunch. It didn't take long before we were comfortable with each other though, and I have many happy memories from that trip.
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He was waiting for me at the airport- I'd have known him anywhere. I think he was more nervous than I was, and he just picked at his food at lunch. It didn't take long before we were comfortable with each other though, and I have many happy memories from that trip.
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the first guy i met off the net was about 30 years older than he was supposed to be.
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I've met three different men from online and had three different outcomes. The first guy sent me a ticket to fly a very long distance to meet him after only talking with him about a month or two. Since it was so far away, I was supposed to spend three weeks there. The first week went very well, but I decided to leave in the middle of the second week. We only spoke a couple of times after that... he was angry that I didn't feel comfortable staying for the entire time that he had originally planned.
The second man I met, I had "known" online (and many, many hours on the phone) for about 6-8 months. A wonderful mutual friend, whom I had never met offline, decided that "it was about time" that we meet and actually bought me a ticket to go see him. (A very cool present from pretty-much a complete stranger....lol) I was a nervous wreck on the short flight.... puking and brushing my teeth more than a couple times. I'd only seen one picture of him and couldn't find him in the crowd at the airport. Finally, I saw the guy with the biggest smile staring at me and knew he saw me as soon as I got off the plane. It was an awesome weekend. He drove up to see me (for weekends) six or seven times before talking me into moving in with him. I only lived with him for a few months, before moving back home. He was "different" in day to day life than he was on those great weekends or hours and hours we spent on the phone. No hard feelings tho.
The third (and probably last) guy, I had been talking to for about three years before we finally decided to meet in Vegas. There we no preconceived expectations of a "relationship" or anything like that. We felt that we were good enough friends that we needed to meet, hang out and have some awesome sex. We did all three and remained good friends afterwards.
That was a couple years ago and I think that will be the last adventure for a long time. I'm just not "into" being that brave anymore.
I've met three different men from online and had three different outcomes. The first guy sent me a ticket to fly a very long distance to meet him after only talking with him about a month or two. Since it was so far away, I was supposed to spend three weeks there. The first week went very well, but I decided to leave in the middle of the second week. We only spoke a couple of times after that... he was angry that I didn't feel comfortable staying for the entire time that he had originally planned.
The second man I met, I had "known" online (and many, many hours on the phone) for about 6-8 months. A wonderful mutual friend, whom I had never met offline, decided that "it was about time" that we meet and actually bought me a ticket to go see him. (A very cool present from pretty-much a complete stranger....lol) I was a nervous wreck on the short flight.... puking and brushing my teeth more than a couple times. I'd only seen one picture of him and couldn't find him in the crowd at the airport. Finally, I saw the guy with the biggest smile staring at me and knew he saw me as soon as I got off the plane. It was an awesome weekend. He drove up to see me (for weekends) six or seven times before talking me into moving in with him. I only lived with him for a few months, before moving back home. He was "different" in day to day life than he was on those great weekends or hours and hours we spent on the phone. No hard feelings tho.
The third (and probably last) guy, I had been talking to for about three years before we finally decided to meet in Vegas. There we no preconceived expectations of a "relationship" or anything like that. We felt that we were good enough friends that we needed to meet, hang out and have some awesome sex. We did all three and remained good friends afterwards.
That was a couple years ago and I think that will be the last adventure for a long time. I'm just not "into" being that brave anymore.
Re: Describe the first personal meeting with someone you met on the Internet (romantic)
We'd been phone-fucking for about a year. He was my first phone partner. I went to meet him for dinner and coffee afterwards... and my god, he was beautiful. He was asian, and tall (over 6 ft), and he had this voice, and these dark dark eyes that just reached into me. He was just gorgeous.
And I was rather smitten. And he gave me this kiss... it's still the best kiss I've ever had... it was deep and warm and soft... the first GOOD kiss I'd ever had.... wow, it was so hot.
And we had our dinner... and then he told me that night that he wanted more from me than I was willing to give him (at that point, I was still a virgin, and wanted to wait for marriage)... and we parted ways.. though I think of him often.
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We'd been phone-fucking for about a year. He was my first phone partner. I went to meet him for dinner and coffee afterwards... and my god, he was beautiful. He was asian, and tall (over 6 ft), and he had this voice, and these dark dark eyes that just reached into me. He was just gorgeous.
And I was rather smitten. And he gave me this kiss... it's still the best kiss I've ever had... it was deep and warm and soft... the first GOOD kiss I'd ever had.... wow, it was so hot.
And we had our dinner... and then he told me that night that he wanted more from me than I was willing to give him (at that point, I was still a virgin, and wanted to wait for marriage)... and we parted ways.. though I think of him often.