Omenainen
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I was thinking about this "who does it hurt" and "what does it matter" mentality. I was thinking about things like respect, and reputation, and honor, and integrity. I don't like how these conversations always wind up in "well nobody is making money off of this," as if making money is some kind of absolute divider. I think that in life in general, and especially in anonymous places like this, all we have is our name. You are what you bring forth in this community, and the stories you post, and I hold that in great value. And some of that prestige is irrevocably lost by the time when you have to say "oops, I'm sorry, I'll take it down."
For example, if someone got caught copying whole scenes of others' work, I would never read their stories again, because I'd always be thinking "oh, cool line, I wonder if this is theirs or if they stole it," and that would take me out of the story. No matter how profusely that person apologized. (Not that he has. And not that I read his stories before, but anyway.)
Or if someone asked me and AwkwardMD for a review, and then asked another review under another penname and didn't bother pointing out they're the same person asking for more of our time, it would lower my opinion of them from the basic level of respect I have for others to a kind of "oh here's this sneaky bastard again" level. Saying "sorry" is not some kind of magic undo button. It doesn't erase what has been done.
Obviously, some people don't care. They don't hold integrity to be as important as I do. In a place like this, I have nothing I can use against them. Even if I posted in my profile asking not to use my stuff without my permission, why would people like that honor my wish? If all that it boils down to is "will I get caught/will there be real, monetary consequences for me," then that is a pretty low bar indeed. It kind of disgusts me that people think like that. Since I still want to publish my stories, I have no other consolation but to hope that assholes don't happen to read my stories or don't find them worth stealing.
Times change and morals shift. Here in Finland we have this politician (and here I assume it's okay to talk Finnish politics here because none of y'all is interested in any of that) who, back when he was a prime minister, blatantly lied to the parliament about data concerning something they were voting on. Now, back in the olden days you would be forever shunned from politics for this kind of a stunt, but all he felt was needed was to say "oh, sorry 'bout dat!" And now, a few years later, he's running for president. So maybe I'm just old fashioned and getting obsolete. I'll soon be in a rocking chair muttering about the youth these days. O tempora, o mores.
From @Marvin2017 I'd like to ask why do you think it is so important for you to post this story? I get that you're obsessed with the story, but so what? Why can't you obsess over it in private like you've done for the past 13 years? You say you contacted the author in 2006, and they have published in 2010. They had years to continue that story, and if they chose not to, what makes you think you're righter than the original author? Who do you think cares how you think his story should end? If you're a writer, why don't you write your own story to make the point you want to make? If you're like "oh no, I'm not a writer, I was just so carried away by this one story," then why are you so hellbent in publishing this one story? You've written the conclusion you want, why do you want to "inflict it on the world"? How do you think his readers would ever hear that you have written this thing? I just really don't understand why you feel so entitled to someone else's story.
For example, if someone got caught copying whole scenes of others' work, I would never read their stories again, because I'd always be thinking "oh, cool line, I wonder if this is theirs or if they stole it," and that would take me out of the story. No matter how profusely that person apologized. (Not that he has. And not that I read his stories before, but anyway.)
Or if someone asked me and AwkwardMD for a review, and then asked another review under another penname and didn't bother pointing out they're the same person asking for more of our time, it would lower my opinion of them from the basic level of respect I have for others to a kind of "oh here's this sneaky bastard again" level. Saying "sorry" is not some kind of magic undo button. It doesn't erase what has been done.
Obviously, some people don't care. They don't hold integrity to be as important as I do. In a place like this, I have nothing I can use against them. Even if I posted in my profile asking not to use my stuff without my permission, why would people like that honor my wish? If all that it boils down to is "will I get caught/will there be real, monetary consequences for me," then that is a pretty low bar indeed. It kind of disgusts me that people think like that. Since I still want to publish my stories, I have no other consolation but to hope that assholes don't happen to read my stories or don't find them worth stealing.
Times change and morals shift. Here in Finland we have this politician (and here I assume it's okay to talk Finnish politics here because none of y'all is interested in any of that) who, back when he was a prime minister, blatantly lied to the parliament about data concerning something they were voting on. Now, back in the olden days you would be forever shunned from politics for this kind of a stunt, but all he felt was needed was to say "oh, sorry 'bout dat!" And now, a few years later, he's running for president. So maybe I'm just old fashioned and getting obsolete. I'll soon be in a rocking chair muttering about the youth these days. O tempora, o mores.
From @Marvin2017 I'd like to ask why do you think it is so important for you to post this story? I get that you're obsessed with the story, but so what? Why can't you obsess over it in private like you've done for the past 13 years? You say you contacted the author in 2006, and they have published in 2010. They had years to continue that story, and if they chose not to, what makes you think you're righter than the original author? Who do you think cares how you think his story should end? If you're a writer, why don't you write your own story to make the point you want to make? If you're like "oh no, I'm not a writer, I was just so carried away by this one story," then why are you so hellbent in publishing this one story? You've written the conclusion you want, why do you want to "inflict it on the world"? How do you think his readers would ever hear that you have written this thing? I just really don't understand why you feel so entitled to someone else's story.
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