Depressing...

Okay, I guess I just don't get it.

Is "picking up chicks" (of whatever ilk or gender) an issue? If people get together and it works then great.

I've met people who were into BDSM, and it didn't work. I've met people who had no experience with it, and it did work. (Vice-versa of course as well). So the why doesn't seem that important to me; rather, the actual individual connection is the important bit.

This guy thinks he has some recommendations on how to connect with "BDSM chicks". Big deal. If it improves the quality of how people contact us (no, I'm not a chick I admit) then kudos for him. The reality is, if it works, who cares? And if it doesn't work, equally, who cares?
 
Okay, I guess I just don't get it.

Is "picking up chicks" (of whatever ilk or gender) an issue? If people get together and it works then great.

I've met people who were into BDSM, and it didn't work. I've met people who had no experience with it, and it did work. (Vice-versa of course as well). So the why doesn't seem that important to me; rather, the actual individual connection is the important bit.

This guy thinks he has some recommendations on how to connect with "BDSM chicks". Big deal. If it improves the quality of how people contact us (no, I'm not a chick I admit) then kudos for him. The reality is, if it works, who cares? And if it doesn't work, equally, who cares?
I care, for one. It just makes it more difficult for people to meet up, if the recipient has to filter through all of the riff raff to get to me. There are so many methods to filter out the bad guys that the good guys get caught up in the filtering process.

I understand where you're coming from, but someone who has a significant other probably will think this is just a fact of life. Those of us who don't have a significant other and who have been through the labor intensive process when trying to get yourself noticed. I've always known there were fakers and wannabees and the various 14 year old clogging up the system with their piddle, but now I have a source.

This guy says with his tricks it's easy to connect with a woman who's looking for a Dom. He feeds his pitch to horny guys who have no interest in BDSM activities. They just want to get their nut off. They aren't looking for a relationship, they're just looking to shoot their wad at the monitor screen. The only ones who might fall for it is a newbie woman who knows nothing about fakers and wannabees. Actually, all this does is make the women even less trusting than they were, and more difficult for the honest guy.
 
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Actually, all this does is make the women even less trusting than they were, and more difficult for the honest guy.
Fair comment. On the other hand, this isn't anything new. Just read through the asshat thread if you want to see how common it is for women looking for a BDSM-oriented relationship to be contacted by guys just wanting to "get their nut off".

So the difference here is that this guy is encouraging others to be dishonest. Yeah, that does bug me. But the actual behaivour isn't anything new.

This guy says with his tricks it's easy to connect with a woman who's looking for a Dom.
There's never a shortage of idiots or braggards. I think the male of the species is programmed to brag about how well he does with women. Of course, that doesn't make it true.
 
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Fair comment. On the other hand, this isn't anything new. Just read through the asshat thread if you want to see how common it is for women looking for a BDSM-oriented relationship to be contacted by guys just wanting to "get their nut off".

So the difference here is that this guy is encouraging others to be dishonest. Yeah, that does bug me. But the actual behaivour isn't anything new.


There's never a shortage of idiots or braggards. I think the male of the species is programmed to brag about how well he does with women. Of course, that doesn't make it true.
We agree on everything. The only difference is this guy is like a source for all of the above. Something I can sink my teeth into, as it were. :D <== my teeth. :cool:
 
This guy thinks he has some recommendations on how to connect with "BDSM chicks". Big deal. If it improves the quality of how people contact us (no, I'm not a chick I admit) then kudos for him. The reality is, if it works, who cares? And if it doesn't work, equally, who cares?

He's recommending lying your ass off to get into the cyber-panties of whichever girl has your attention for that minute.

That's the problem.
 
Essene, I :heart: you.
:D

*waves*
He's recommending lying your ass off to get into the cyber-panties of whichever girl has your attention for that minute.

That's the problem.
Mmmmm baby you tell him! You tell him good!

In all honesty, the way in which he describes and suggests lying is incredibly insulting to the females of the species. He's incredibly misinformed, and did some gay bashing as well.

The worst of it is, that he insulted me by implying that I'm a whore... instead of a slut.
my memo says "more t&a needed"

oh, and "buy milk"

Hey! That's what mine says too! Well, I have "Don't forget to give Raw a BJ-extra saliva" on there too, but it's almost exactly alike! We're like memo twins! -Great minds think alike!
 
Man, I thought the originating thread WAS a parody!

You mean it wasn't?

:confused:
If it were a parody, don't you think he'd be here trying to explain all of that to us? What this vanilla guy does is take pride in saying he's got the ability to lie to women who are looking for a BDSM relationship, get their trust as if he is a Dom and then have them...um...make him happy, if you know what I mean. He even mentions that he has no interest in BDSM at all, just that he thinks BDSM women are easy pickings. And he takes even more pride giving this information out to other vanilla dudes (I use dude in a loose sense)

Obviously, this is an online relationship we're talking about. I seriously doubt he could even come close to pulling it off as a Dom in a real life situation. I don't doubt he's thought about it, though.
 
I really don't see the point in such exurtion when there are tons of pics here ready to be plucked. *shrug*
Try being on the male side of the search where it seems every word you say is suspect to the women because they have been fooled by so many of theses cheaters that they look at ALL men as scum.

Surely you've looked for someone online before. All women get hundreds of replies to their messages. I'm sure about 3% of those are actual BDSM types and the rest are fakers and wannabees like this guy, looking for a way to waste a Saturday evening with the rest of his 14 year old buddies.
 
If it were a parody, don't you think he'd be here trying to explain all of that to us? What this vanilla guy does is take pride in saying he's got the ability to lie to women who are looking for a BDSM relationship, get their trust as if he is a Dom and then have them...um...make him happy, if you know what I mean. He even mentions that he has no interest in BDSM at all, just that he thinks BDSM women are easy pickings. And he takes even more pride giving this information out to other vanilla dudes (I use dude in a loose sense)

Obviously, this is an online relationship we're talking about. I seriously doubt he could even come close to pulling it off as a Dom in a real life situation. I don't doubt he's thought about it, though.

But if you read his whole thread, instead of honing in on the one point (the bdsm personals) you realise he's a real knob jockey, and you just laugh.

Well I did.

And if you actually take it all seriously, well.. *shrugs*
 
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But if you read his whole thread, instead of honing in on the one point (the bdsm personals) you realise he's a real knob jockey, and you just laugh.

Well I did.
Sure we laugh because we know how stupid his ideas are. But he believes in them. He even boasted that he doesn't have time to do much more than answer messages from guys who tell him his ideas are great.
 
Sure we laugh because we know how stupid his ideas are. But he believes in them. He even boasted that he doesn't have time to do much more than answer messages from guys who tell him his ideas are great.

You think?

I just thinks he's a troll, and is laughing himself silly.
 
You think?

I just thinks he's a troll, and is laughing himself silly.
That's possible, too, but if that's the case, he sure went to a lot of trouble with all of his list of rules on the how to forum. Trolls don't go into such depth and detail. They are hit and run types.
 
He's recommending lying your ass off to get into the cyber-panties of whichever girl has your attention for that minute.

That's the problem.

hahaha! like no one ever does that!


You think?

I just thinks he's a troll, and is laughing himself silly.


yup. same here.
That's possible, too, but if that's the case, he sure went to a lot of trouble with all of his list of rules on the how to forum. Trolls don't go into such depth and detail. They are hit and run types.

ahhh grasshopper, you have no idea the depth some trolls will go to. just check out the ones on the GB who attempt some seriously deep research to try and discover a litsters real name.

the guy is a troll. he hasn't actually posted anything new that creeps who aren't identified as trolls do, and in essence serves as a good PSA for internet noobs.
 
hahaha! like no one ever does that!





yup. same here.


ahhh grasshopper, you have no idea the depth some trolls will go to. just check out the ones on the GB who attempt some seriously deep research to try and discover a litsters real name.

the guy is a troll. he hasn't actually posted anything new that creeps who aren't identified as trolls do, and in essence serves as a good PSA for internet noobs.
Because we outed him. He's already started another alt. But, I'll go along with you guys. He's just laughing it up. :D















:rolleyes:
 
Because we outed him. He's already started another alt. But, I'll go along with you guys. He's just laughing it up. :D






:rolleyes:

and that one will be seen through as well. like I said, his threads serve as a PSA to noobs.

and given all the info out there about online safety, anyone who actually did fall that shit, well more fool them.
 
and that one will be seen through as well. like I said, his threads serve as a PSA to noobs.

and given all the info out there about online safety, anyone who actually did fall that shit, well more fool them.
Wait a minute...wait for it...







































Yep, he just started yet another alt. :eek:

Yes, I know these things. I can sense them. Why? I'm a Dom. I have the power. :cool:
 
Wait a minute...wait for it...



Yep, he just started yet another alt. :eek:

Yes, I know these things. I can sense them. Why? I'm a Dom. I have the power. :cool:

well if s/he puts as much effort into it as this one, it's cool. I hate the lazy 10 post alt/trolls who just don't even try.
 
well if s/he puts as much effort into it as this one, it's cool. I hate the lazy 10 post alt/trolls who just don't even try.
If I get hold of a lazy woman, I start a fire under her...an electrical fire. zzzzzzzzZZZZZZZZAP! Even if she is a fake or a troll, it's still a lot of fun.
 
If I get hold of a lazy woman, I start a fire under her...an electrical fire. zzzzzzzzZZZZZZZZAP! Even if she is a fake or a troll, it's still a lot of fun.

perverted sadist!
 
That's possible, too, but if that's the case, he sure went to a lot of trouble with all of his list of rules on the how to forum. Trolls don't go into such depth and detail. They are hit and run types.

Not all of them...

~smile~

:rolleyes:
 
and that one will be seen through as well. like I said, his threads serve as a PSA to noobs.

and given all the info out there about online safety, anyone who actually did fall that shit, well more fool them.

Aye. Amen. Testify. All that jazz.
 
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