Why can’t you get tested? My girlfriend and I got tested and we have been with each other ever since. We both love it bareback.I have a friend that will soon be a FWB. He has agreed to take my anal cherry. I trust him but I don’t know enough about him to have absolute trust. This would be a chance for my first time to be bareback which would be extra special. The smarter choice is to have him wear a condom. Every time I decide on safe sex my mind plays a dirty trick on me and thinks about his sweet load dripping out of my butt. It shouldn’t be this difficult