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[GregThickDix]

I love the fantasy of being on a business trip away from home for a while and horny from lack of sex. Waking up with a massive hard-on, late, not realizing I forgot to put the do not disturb sign on my door and having my headphones on watching porn, naked, spread out, jerking off like a teenage boy. Caught up in my porn video, not hearing the hotel maid knock and enter the room nor noticing her standing there looking at my thick cock and full balls being stimulated by me. Finally feeling someone is present, I look up, seeing the maid rubbing her breast and eyes glued to my cock.

 

[Iwant2havefun]

I love the fantasy of being on a business trip away from home for a while and horny from lack of sex. Waking up with a massive hard-on, late, not realizing I forgot to put the do not disturb sign on my door and having my headphones on watching porn, naked, spread out, jerking off like a teenage boy. Caught up in my porn video, not hearing the hotel maid knock and enter the room nor noticing her standing there looking at my thick cock and full balls being stimulated by me. Finally feeling someone is present, I look up, seeing the maid rubbing her breast and eyes glued to my cock.

there are quite a few vids of this on Xvideos and other sites. In most of them, both "hotel guest" and "maid" are actors. There are quite a few, though, that absolutely appear real...where the hotel guest has set up a camera, headphones on, exactly as you've described, when the maid comes in. Most of the times she backs out of the room, sometimes she watches for a few seconds, and in at least one i saw, she comes over and finished him off. Very hot!

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

there are quite a few vids of this on Xvideos and other sites. In most of them, both "hotel guest" and "maid" are actors. There are quite a few, though, that absolutely appear real...where the hotel guest has set up a camera, headphones on, exactly as you've described, when the maid comes in. Most of the times she backs out of the room, sometimes she watches for a few seconds, and in at least one i saw, she comes over and finished him off. Very hot!

There is an element of non-consent about these videos that, if they are not staged, then are very disturbing and should result in punishment for the man.
Hotel guests exposing themselves to housekeepers is a major harassment issue.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I can't believe I have to post this PSA, but apparently I do.

The "fantasy" described here leaves no room for consent by the women unwittingly exposed to men like the OP behind closed doors while simply trying to perform their jobs. This actually happens frequently in real life because so many disgusting men act out on fantasies like this. It's sexual harassment and a real crime. The victims are innocent working women that are also other people's wives, mothers, and daughters.

Dismissing this behavior as a "fantasy" is no more excuse for objectifying these perverted, disgusting, and illegal acts than similarly "fantasizing" about raping someone or having sex with underage children.

I'll just leave these links here for you to ponder before this myopic thread gets locked or removed:

Panic Buttons: A Lifeline for Hotel Workers

• 49% of housekeepers have had “guest(s) expose themselves, flash them, or answer the door naked. A number of women reported that guests had masturbated in their presence.” Lewd jokes, innuendos, playing pornography, and requests for sex were also widely reported.
• 58% had been victims of sexual harassment from guests, including sexual assault.

'He Was Masturbating… I Felt Like Crying': What Housekeepers Endure To Clean Hotel Rooms

• 58 percent of hotel workers and 77 percent of casino workers said they had been sexually harassed by a guest.
• 49 percent of hotel workers said they had experienced a guest answering the door naked or otherwise exposing himself.
• 56 percent of hotel workers who’d reported harassment said they didn’t feel safe on the job afterward.
• 65 percent of casino cocktail servers said a guest had touched or tried to touch them without permission.
• Nearly 40 percent of casino workers said they’d been pressured for a date or a sexual favor.

Housekeepers’ Hellish Hotel Horrors: Could A Proposed Irvine Ordinance Protect Maids?
"The guests look at us and treat us like we’re prostitutes but we’re not prostitutes we’re only trying to fight to better the lives of our children."

I guarantee you that every single one of these abusive incidents began with men having fantasies like posted above before it eventually seemed like a good idea that they should act out on them.

Seriously guys, how would you feel if your wives, mothers, or daughters were actually treated like that? This isn't a victimless crime. The women in these fantasies, and more importantly their real-life counterparts, don't consent or opt-in to this play by any stretch of the imagination.

Promoting or encouraging this disgusting nonconsensual abuse of women, much less jerking your little dicks to thoughts of it, is not fucking cool.

Now back to your regularly scheduled Lit programming...

I did not respond as harshly to the OP because, in his fantasy, it was completely inadvertent. I think that having fantasies, even offensive ones, is a long way from acting them out. Obviously, I agree that it is important to warn men who have this fantasy that acting on it is gross and disgusting and warrants punishment.

But, as long as it remains a fantasy, and he knows the difference, I don’t think it is harmful. It is not uncommon for women to have fantasies about being taken against their will. This does not mean they want to be raped. But it is okay to fantasize about if it is arousing.

 

[wetsawdust]

It's a super hot fantasy. And yes, if it's just that, I don't really see it any more offensive than the other NC vids/stories.
I'd love to rail a hot latina maid, but I ain't gonna attempt it by having her walk in and see my goofy ass pounding it in front of her. Rude!

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Wow. I can't believe you just referenced women fantasizing about being raped to justify men fantasizing about, and acting out on, the sexual harassment and/or assaulting of female hotel employees behind closed doors.

My point, and you are smart enough to understand it, is that there is a difference between fantasizing and acting on the fantasy.
I am trying to say that the OP sounds like he is someone who recognizes that difference.
He should not be made to feel guilty for having a fantasy.
There is a difference between fantasy and action.
And I think that this is an important difference that should be recognized.
Obviously, there have been posters on this thread who do not recognize the distinction.

I am offering a justification for "fantasizing about," not "acting on."

If you don't understand this distinction
well
Let talk about your fantasies.

 

[Britva415]

I'm pretty sure that the thousands of hotel maids and housekeeping cleaners that have suffered sexual harassment from guests would disagree with that.

How would they even know, though, if it weren't acted out?

 

[cypressknee]

my trophy wife was riding me at couples tower isle in Jamaica when the maid walked in

 

[eric_erosfan]

Last time I was on vacation I had to come back to the room for something we forgot. Our cute, young maid was already in the room making up the beds. Instead of pulling out my cock and stroking it while coming up behind her to fuck her from behind I just thanked her for cleaning our room and left her a tip in her gratuity envelope.

 

[GregThickDix]

I can't believe I have to post this PSA, but apparently I do.

The "fantasy" described here leaves no room for consent by the women unwittingly exposed to men like the OP behind closed doors while simply trying to perform their jobs. This actually happens frequently in real life because so many disgusting men act out on fantasies like this. It's sexual harassment and a real crime. The victims are innocent working women that are also other people's wives, mothers, and daughters.

Dismissing this behavior as a "fantasy" is no more excuse for objectifying these perverted, disgusting, and illegal acts than similarly "fantasizing" about raping someone or having sex with underage children.

I'll just leave these links here for you to ponder before this myopic thread gets locked or removed:

Panic Buttons: A Lifeline for Hotel Workers

• 49% of housekeepers have had “guest(s) expose themselves, flash them, or answer the door naked. A number of women reported that guests had masturbated in their presence.” Lewd jokes, innuendos, playing pornography, and requests for sex were also widely reported.
• 58% had been victims of sexual harassment from guests, including sexual assault.

'He Was Masturbating… I Felt Like Crying': What Housekeepers Endure To Clean Hotel Rooms

• 58 percent of hotel workers and 77 percent of casino workers said they had been sexually harassed by a guest.
• 49 percent of hotel workers said they had experienced a guest answering the door naked or otherwise exposing himself.
• 56 percent of hotel workers who’d reported harassment said they didn’t feel safe on the job afterward.
• 65 percent of casino cocktail servers said a guest had touched or tried to touch them without permission.
• Nearly 40 percent of casino workers said they’d been pressured for a date or a sexual favor.

Housekeepers’ Hellish Hotel Horrors: Could A Proposed Irvine Ordinance Protect Maids?
"The guests look at us and treat us like we’re prostitutes but we’re not prostitutes we’re only trying to fight to better the lives of our children."

I guarantee you that every single one of these abusive incidents began with men having fantasies like posted above before it eventually seemed like a good idea that they should act out on them.

Seriously guys, how would you feel if your wives, mothers, or daughters were actually treated like that? This isn't a victimless crime. The women in these fantasies, and more importantly their real-life counterparts, don't consent or opt-in to this play by any stretch of the imagination.

Promoting or encouraging this disgusting nonconsensual abuse of women, much less jerking your little dicks to thoughts of it, is not fucking cool.

Now back to your regularly scheduled Lit programming...

As posted, I said this is a fantasy and no I would never do this for the exact reasons you have listed. It's a different caught type fantasy and that is all.

 

[cypressknee]

My wife and I were caught by the maid on the balcony at a Jamaican resort..she didn’t mind watching

 

[Mason9653]

I stepped out of the shower, didn't know the maid was in the room. When I walked out naked and erect she calmly said she could leave the room while I took care of "that".

I said alright or you could stay, and proceeded to masturbate, taking kind of a long time to cum.

At first she kept working, then she just stopped and watchet. She didn't say a word, just finished her job and left.

 

[womaneater58]

Years ago I would stay naked and hope the cleaning lady would happen to come in. These days, I'd be afraid of the negative repercussions.

 

[HoldYouDown]

I can't believe I have to post this PSA, but apparently I do.

You don't. Lots of taboo fantasies are discussed on Lit.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Years ago I would stay naked and hope the cleaning lady would happen to come in. These days, I'd be afraid of the negative repercussions.

You should afraid of the legitimate, deserved repercussions.

 

[magicalmoments]

There is an element of non-consent about these videos that, if they are not staged, then are very disturbing and should result in punishment for the man.
Hotel guests exposing themselves to housekeepers is a major harassment issue.

While the truth of what you say is undeniable and you are perfectly entitled to express your opinion, it is a case of stating the bleeding obvious. I can't help feeling annoyed that you feel the need to rain on the parade. There are many fantasies/activities that share the harassment stigma, in fact, probably all of them do. The ones that stand out are exhibitionism, Voyeurism and BDSM. All of these and their myriad permutations that move out of the fantasy realm and are depicted or told in a not staged scenario are disturbing. In fact if they are staged extremely well they are disturbing. So what? it's an adult website, we are all here voluntarily, 90% of the content is fantasy, 9% is staged by mutual consent of the participants and probably only the remaining 1% fits the "at risk" area and the moderators do a good job of keeping that under control. Even the "swinging", cuckold, hot wife, and their permutations all potentially fit your problem area. How do we know that the wife/husband really consents to what is talked about or shown on here. How can we be sure that they are not consenting from an abused standpoint? The answer is we don't. So why even bother raising it?

For the record, the surprised housemaid/hotel guest scenario is one of my favourites.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

While the truth of what you say is undeniable and you are perfectly entitled to express your opinion, it is a case of stating the bleeding obvious. I can't help feeling annoyed that you feel the need to rain on the parade. There are many fantasies/activities that share the harassment stigma, in fact, probably all of them do. The ones that stand out are exhibitionism, Voyeurism and BDSM. All of these and their myriad permutations that move out of the fantasy realm and are depicted or told in a not staged scenario are disturbing. In fact if they are staged extremely well they are disturbing. So what? it's an adult website, we are all here voluntarily, 90% of the content is fantasy, 9% is staged by mutual consent of the participants and probably only the remaining 1% fits the "at risk" area and the moderators do a good job of keeping that under control. Even the "swinging", cuckold, hot wife, and their permutations all potentially fit your problem area. How do we know that the wife/husband really consents to what is talked about or shown on here. How can we be sure that they are not consenting from an abused standpoint? The answer is we don't. So why even bother raising it?

For the record, the surprised housemaid/hotel guest scenario is one of my favourites.

If you go back and reread, I said that the videos are disturbing if they were NOT staged. I have no problem with staged performances where the “maid” consents.
My concern is with men thinking it’s of to expose themselves without her permission, irl. Fantasy is fine

 

[magicalmoments]

If you go back and reread, I said that the videos are disturbing if they were NOT staged. I have no problem with staged performances where the “maid” consents.
My concern is with men thinking it’s of to expose themselves without her permission, irl. Fantasy is fine

And if you go back and reread what I said you'll see we are in agreement on NOT staged videos.

 

[CEOescape]

So many fantasies and memories fills my mind,, Most included me pleasing someone orally, masturbating with open doors but as i got older, leaving the hotel blinds open