delaying male orgasm

[tommy stone]

just for a little background info, i am currently a second year college student at a big 10 university. my sexual experience was pretty much not existant before last year when if lost my virginity (finally). i havent had too much experience with actual sex and what experience i have had has been a bit short. i was wondering if anyone out there on the board had any tips/tricks/techniques to help me from cumming too fast. thanks for any and all help.

 

[mmactionmn]

The best method that I've found is to masturbate about 12-24 hrs. beforehand. Believe it or not, this method works great. But don't do it too much, or you might go blind.

 

[Son of a Sailor]

Blindness isn't such a big issue, braille isn't too hard to read. The real danger is Repetitive Strain Injury.

 

[His Whimsicality]

relax your abdominal muscles, don´t pump blood into your cock. Oh, and try to be calm mentally *g*

 

[Juliet]

Go for the gusto....

What's wrong with this picture??? Why try to hold it off? Why not try going for number two? three?.....

I know for many men once you reach that big O it is pretty much over with but isn't this something that you can overcome with experience? So I would say please your partner, whether orally, with your fingers, by whatever means it takes then...SHOOT YOUR LOAD. relax for a few minutes then start all over again working on number two and more than likely you will be able to go on and on and on for a while before coming again.

But hey....what do I know anyway? I'm a girl.

 

[Guest]

Hold Off?

Go Juliet...

I totally agree. Make sure your partner is excited to the point of begging...slam in shoot your load and go back for seconds...and thirds. (most)Women want to cum several times not just once.

SL

 

[Guest]

Let's go visit Juliet and SexxyLady

Listen Up Tommy,

I was going to suggest that you practice developing your control, but after reading Juliet and Sexxy Lady's replies, THE HELL WITH THAT!!! If the ladies say "Let it go, and try for #2 or #3...etc." Then my friend that is what you should do. You heard the ladies. While you are recovering use your mouth , tounge, fingers, sex toys for her, or whatever it takes to get her off. You might try going down on her while you are recovering. By pleasuring her and stimulating her, you will get excited as well. When her body starts to respond to your licking, you'll be ready for #2...#3..#4. Nothing gets me hotter than faster than getting my girl off. Guys let's face it , to get us off is easy, but to get your girl off, ...Well that requires work and some special skills. I say that we go over and visit Juliet and Sexxy Lady for some "practice" sessions

 

[Mr. Bootie]

That last post was mine

Just to let you know, that last post was mine. I don't know what happened?

 

[Juliet]

Need a good teacher????

Oh Yeah.....I love to practice. Sexy Lady from the sounds of it you better get over here fast! I may have biten off more than I can chew <evil grin>....Don't worry guys I won't cause too much pain.

 

[Mr. Bootie]

NOOO!!!!! You didn't say "BITE" Did you?

Damn,...Juliet

Sweetheart, don't you know that you don't use the word "bite". Darling, even in jest, that is painful. A little pain is o.k., but " biteing" , that's not allowed. (SMILE) Yes, I could use a good teacher. I am a very READY, WILLING, and ABLE student. I love to please my teacher. I don't know what you'd do for a KLONDIKE BAR, but I'll show you what I'LL do fo an "A".

 

[Juliet]

I did say bite.....

Oh come on....where is your sense of adventure??? You've apperently never felt the awesome sensation of having a woman's teeth slide along your shaft....Who knows??? It may be that it could take you to a level never reached before

 

[Mr. Bootie]

To The Contrary!!

Actually Juliet,

I have the experienced a woman's teeth along my shaft. However, I have experience the actual biteing as well. You see my ex-girlfriend had a very high pain threshold. She actually liked to have very very rough sex. She thoroughly enjoyed to be dominated. The first time she gave me a hand job, she almost yanked it off. I was so sore. Pissing was extremely painful. The first time she gave me a blow job,....You guessed it, ...She bit. The initail nibbling can be stimulating, yes, but If you have been bitten, That's no fun. It's like a guy rubbing you down below with long ridgy fingernails. Yeah... Not fun at all. However, I have the feeling that if you do it, it might be both painful and PLEASUREABLE. Yes, the more I read about , the more I love you(OOH!! LA!! LA!!)

 

[Juliet]

Just the right preasure.....

You're right kgboot! Teeth are deinitely one of those things that have to be used in moderation. I am definitely not into giving anyone so much pain that they are sore for days afterward. Been there done that even though being reminded for days about the exctacy involved in giving you that pain can be quite stimulating...hhmmmmm But there are still plenty of ways to give such pleasures without damaging the goods.

 

[mmactionmn]

Numbers 2,3 & more

I agree with multiples for us guys, as I love to do that. But the more it happens, the longer it takes to get to the next one, damn girls.... How you gonna feel tomorrow if it takes 2-3 hours to get to number 3 or 4?

 

[Juliet]

Re: Numbers 2,3 & more

I agree with multiples for us guys, as I love to do that. But the more it happens, the longer it takes to get to the next one, damn girls.... How you gonna feel tomorrow if it takes 2-3 hours to get to number 3 or 4?

Well I'd say I'd feel pretty damn good if you take your 2..3..4.. and multiply it times the 2 or 3 that I would have with each of yours!

 

[Mr. Bootie]

Re: Numbers 2,3, & more

" Take your 2... 3...4... and multiply it by the 2 or 3 that I would have with each of yours."

So you would have ?...............................Hmmm???.................subtract the 2 and carry the one.................. Damn!!! Now I've lost count. My question is, would you be having them with or without me? And if it is without me, how are you having them? What are you doing? This inquiring mind wants to know?

 

[SexxyLady]

Re: Need a good teacher????

Oh Yeah.....I love to practice. Sexy Lady from the sounds of it you better get over here fast! I may have biten off more than I can chew <evil grin>....Don't worry guys I won't cause too much pain.

Sorry, to leave you alone Juliet. Damn thing never emailed me to tell me there was any action over here.... Oh well sounds to me like your enjoying your self all by your lonesome over here with these very horny guys.

I do love a horny guy though, and I just wanted to let you know I totally agree that if 2,3,and 4 take longer and longer, I'm happier and happier cuz i'm counting my 3, 4 or 5 per his 1.

SL

 

[Juliet]

Re: Re: Numbers 2,3, & more

" Take your 2... 3...4... and multiply it by the 2 or 3 that I would have with each of yours."

So you would have ?...............................Hmmm???.................subtract the 2 and carry the one.................. Damn!!! Now I've lost count. My question is, would you be having them with or without me? And if it is without me, how are you having them? What are you doing? This inquiring mind wants to know?

Sorry to leave you puzzled kgboot! What? Do you think I am crazy or what? If I had a nice horny guy why in the world would I be having them alone???? Of course when I can't find a willing and able guy then one of my favorites toys is certain to do the job!

 

[Mr. Bootie]

Juliet You Have Found Your Romeo

Do I think you're crazy?... Hell No!!! I think you are a hot , horny, girl who needs some good lovin'. DAMN!! Am I in the wrong state or what? I guarantee if i were in Georgia, I'd be dialing your number. You and I could satisfy each others appetites. Or better yet, we could scratch each others itch. I'll be your toy, I don't need batteries. You've already wound me up, Now lets play!!!

 

[Maria]

Taking Credit Where Credit Is Due

Allright, Allright.......Not to be boastful, but Juliet has not always known how pleasurable teeth can be. With a few lessons and alot of practice, she is quickly becoming MY best student. During a friendly game of truth or dare, her lover was asked who sucked cock better or what was different. Her lover tried to explain as best he could that perhaps not better (well maybe a little) but very different. He then when on to try and explain what was so different. Finally it dawned on him what the answer was. It was the feeling of my teeth on his cock that felt so different and so WONDERFUL.

Now I am not talking about biting. Leave the biting and nibbling for other parts and erogenous zones. (My personal fav: his nipples) Just drag your teeth along the shaft and even around the head, alternating of course with your tongue and lips and you will for sure drive your man insane. As for numbers 2, 3, and 4; Teeth are an excellent source of rejuvination.

I would also like to pass on information from a very reliable source. Cumming once is great. Going on to 2, 3 and 4, they become more and more intense. What could be better than the intensity of number 4, or 5 or 6 for that matter. One of these days remind me to tell you about an amazing weekend, when my lover came 30 times in a 36 hour period.......talk about intense..... WOW!!!!!

 

[Mr. Bootie]

With My Apology

Maria...Maria,

Please accept my humble apology. I do believe in giving credit where credit is due. HMMMM. I have a thought. Since Juliet is still your student, that means that she is still in class. If she is still in class, can I be her homework assignment? I mean, if she is still "practicing" her teeth technique she needs to practice, practice, practice. I could also practice on her? Then you can grade us both. How does that sound? And teacher can I stay after class and clean YOUR chalk boards?

 

[ericred50]

Some interesting comments, here is my 2 penniesworth. It is all about control, giving and receiving pleasure, making your partner experience several organisms. Do not thinking about your self, a woman can come several times in half an hour, a man about twice if he is lucky. I have to relax for 10 minutes after coming before I get hard again, during that 10 minutes I give my lover some oral satisfaction. all over her body from head to toe.

 

[Juliet]

Re: Taking Credit Where Credit Is Due

Allright, Allright.......Not to be boastful, but Juliet has not always known how pleasurable teeth can be. With a few lessons and alot of practice, she is quickly becoming MY best student. During a friendly game of truth or dare, her lover was asked who sucked cock better or what was different. Her lover tried to explain as best he could that perhaps not better (well maybe a little) but very different. He then when on to try and explain what was so different. Finally it dawned on him what the answer was. It was the feeling of my teeth on his cock that felt so different and so WONDERFUL.

Yes, I too believe in giving credit where it is due. Maria is correct in saying that it was none other than her that put me on the right path of adding teeth to the perfect blow job. What she failed to mention that it was during that same game of truth or dare that HER lover admitted that I sucked his cock better. So I feel that it is not who is better than who....but having someone different sucking your cock after so many years of the same. So for many months now we have both learned quite a bit from each other....but I feel certain there is still a whole world of things to learn yet and I am sure there will be tons of "O's" to look forward to also.

 

[Maria]

Truth Or Dare?

Was my face red.....though Juliet is correct in saying that an innocent childhood game revealed not who was better, but how it was different. What the game did not reveal, and I am reminded of this after reading what Juliet has written, that blow jobs are extremely new to me. Many years of the wrong upbringing brought me to the conclusion that perhaps what I knew was not all there was. As I began exploring and experienceing my lover of 24 years (We met at 14 and are still together) was the sole recipient of those explorations. At the point when this game took place not enough exploration in the "blow job" department had taken place, though I can assure you that since then things have vastly improved. As Juliet mentioned, we have and we DO have much more to explore and experience, and I am sure from what I have already learned that the coming years will not only be educational, but sensational.

So relax Tommy Stone, the only thing better than "college" sex is that which comes with age and experience. You will learn whether you want to delay your orgasm or just let it fly knowing that there are more where that one came from. It may take you quite a few women also, there are those selfish enough to want for themselves, and there are those who enjoy taking their time and want it ALL NIGHT LONG, and know how to get it. They are the ones that you should eventually hook up with, for then and only then, will you know that delaying cumming versus cumming 5 times or more in a session is truly the ultimate.