Delay Products

[BackwoodsMama]

Hey there. I’m looking for suggestions of Delay products. Ever now and then I’d like some extended hard and fast fucking. While my partner has good control over his orgasms, I usually prefer this after a good bit of playtime, which puts him on edge. Anyone have a delay product they like? Preferred without lidocaine, as that is ineffective for my partner regardless of where in his body it is used.

Thanks in advance.

 

[Wriggle]

Right this will be of no help, but it's my tale of using some.

I got hold of a tiny bottle of something herbal in Hong Kong. It wasn't even full liquidised. It was yellow and brown.

Anyway, I put some on my bellend before setting off driving to a hotel for a night of passions. After about 10 minutes it began tingling; 15 minutes starting to burn. I was stuck on a motorway with no services. It burned so much, I considered going to A&E.

I meditated on the burning sensation and breathed deep. I managed to get to the hotel and my knob end was stained brown with the stuff - it's usually purple.

I couldn't come all weekend.

The second time I applied it it didn't burn or work at all, almost as though it had expired immediately after opening.

 

[BackwoodsMama]

Right this will be of no help, but it's my tale of using some.

I got hold of a tiny bottle of something herbal in Hong Kong. It wasn't even full liquidised. It was yellow and brown.

Anyway, I put some on my bellend before setting off driving to a hotel for a night of passions. After about 10 minutes it began tingling; 15 minutes starting to burn. I was stuck on a motorway with no services. It burned so much, I considered going to A&E.

I meditated on the burning sensation and breathed deep. I managed to get to the hotel and my knob end was stained brown with the stuff - it's usually purple.

I couldn't come all weekend.

The second time I applied it it didn't burn or work at all, almost as though it had expired immediately after opening.

Wow. Brave (or stupid) of you to try again.

You’re right. Not helpful in the context of my question, other than I’ll be looking for something other than a tiny bottle of something from Hong Kong.

 

[FortuneFaded]

Hey there. I’m looking for suggestions of Delay products. Ever now and then I’d like some extended hard and fast fucking. While my partner has good control over his orgasms, I usually prefer this after a good bit of playtime, which puts him on edge. Anyone have a delay product they like? Preferred without lidocaine, as that is ineffective for my partner regardless of where in his body it is used.

Thanks in advance.

Any issue with physical products like cock rings? The pressure can mechanically delay orgasm, though it can also be uncomfortable to have constriction on the scrotum and testicles. The knock on effect is that you can achieve harder erections for long periods as well since you are trapping blood in the penis which would flow away as arousal ebbs.

Personal experience, I will use a cock ring for my partner, but don't enjoy using it for myself (edging is fun and I don't need the pressure to delay myself). The level of constriction definitely matters and you may have try a few different styles out since "size" isn't really a standard thing. The type that fit around the testicles are supposedly better for the delayed orgasm feature.

 

[BackwoodsMama]

I’ll have to ask him. We have used cock rings in the past, but haven’t lately. Do you think just a basic cock ring or one that incorporates the scrotum would be best?

On a daily basis it isn’t really an issue. He can control his orgasm enough due to experience edging, changing positions and slowing things down as needed. My interest in creating more of a delay is so that occasionally has more staying power through intense sexual contact in which I think would take away the ability to control since it would be a lot of fast and hard stimulation.

 

[FortuneFaded]

I’ll have to ask him. We have used cock rings in the past, but haven’t lately. Do you think just a basic cock ring or one that incorporates the scrotum would be best?

On a daily basis it isn’t really an issue. He can control his orgasm enough due to experience edging, changing positions and slowing things down as needed. My interest in creating more of a delay is so that occasionally has more staying power through intense sexual contact in which I think would take away the ability to control since it would be a lot of fast and hard stimulation.

Yeah, I find that edging helps control the urge through removing stimulation, it doesn't train withholding orgasm through INTENSE stimulation. The cock ring is like training wheels for intense stimulation. I used to work on kegels and would just deathgrip my cock to create numbness and that would assist in staying power, but unless you have hours to devote and a willingness to basically rub yourself raw, sensitivity will return pretty quickly. At least it did for me.

I would say start with a basic cock ring, the kind that just sits on the base of the cock. No fancy "clit stimulators" or "vibrator inserts" which, in my opinion, just get in the way and add to discomfort. if that doesn't help, find one with a sling for the testicles and try that.

Sorry I can't be more help with topical or applied products, I've only ever used lidocaine based ones. Sildenafil citrate can also assist in staying power (for me it gave me horrible stuffy nose, but helped with both more rounds and longer intensity), but that's prescription. I was once more wild than I am now, I don't think I would bother with it anymore, but it's a thought.

 

[Cardinal]

Hey there. I’m looking for suggestions of Delay products. Ever now and then I’d like some extended hard and fast fucking. While my partner has good control over his orgasms, I usually prefer this after a good bit of playtime, which puts him on edge. Anyone have a delay product they like? Preferred without lidocaine, as that is ineffective for my partner regardless of where in his body it is used.

Thanks in advance.

Eh just wait a few years you’ll be about to go all night

 

[BackwoodsMama]

Eh just wait a few years you’ll be about to go all night

Tomorrow isn’t guaranteed. I think I’ll keep trying to go after what I want now.

 

[la_ruche]

Used Bathmate Control with great results. Needs some planning as it should be applied an hour before action.

 

[pumperguy191]

Hey there. I’m looking for suggestions of Delay products. Ever now and then I’d like some extended hard and fast fucking. While my partner has good control over his orgasms, I usually prefer this after a good bit of playtime, which puts him on edge. Anyone have a delay product they like? Preferred without lidocaine, as that is ineffective for my partner regardless of where in his body it is used.

Thanks in advance.

I've heard that slathering a numbing cream on his cock, then double condoms would do the trick. Unfortunately, I believe they all contain Lidocaine. This may be a mite post but thought I'd throw it out there.

 

[jehoram]

I'll second the good old-fashioned condoms. Particularly the thicker ones. They've done a good job with extending my "up" time.

And, as a benefit, you can get ribbed ones that might enhance her pleasure while prolonging his.

 

[BackwoodsMama]

I'll second the good old-fashioned condoms. Particularly the thicker ones. They've done a good job with extending my "up" time.

And, as a benefit, you can get ribbed ones that might enhance her pleasure while prolonging his.

Thanks for the suggestion. I’ll have to weigh out if my cum obsession is more important than my wanting to be fucked hard and fast.

 

[SloBlo69]

Right this will be of no help, but it's my tale of using some.

I got hold of a tiny bottle of something herbal in Hong Kong. It wasn't even full liquidised. It was yellow and brown.

Anyway, I put some on my bellend before setting off driving to a hotel for a night of passions. After about 10 minutes it began tingling; 15 minutes starting to burn. I was stuck on a motorway with no services. It burned so much, I considered going to A&E.

I meditated on the burning sensation and breathed deep. I managed to get to the hotel and my knob end was stained brown with the stuff - it's usually purple.

I couldn't come all weekend.

The second time I applied it it didn't burn or work at all, almost as though it had expired immediately after opening.

OMF

 

[cartepostalelondon]

I've heard that slathering a numbing cream on his cock, then double condoms would do the trick. Unfortunately, I believe they all contain Lidocaine. This may be a mite post but thought I'd throw it out there.

Doubling up on condoms can cause them rub against each other and split.

 

[jehoram]

Doubling up on condoms can cause them rub against each other and split.

Good to know. But I think the lubricated ones wouldn't have that problem. Research is required...

 

[Unblemished]

Some medications delay this; SSRIs and similar things, for example. It’s also possible to train through intense masturbation, stop-starting, squeezing to prevent ejaculation etc until it takes longer and longer. Some people swear by rings but it depends on the person.

Worst case there’s always straps. Plastic doesn’t stop unless you snap it.

 

[Bigspurt]

I have been using a cock ring for years. They help you get hard and stay hard. They don’t really prolong the activity. My experience is that stopping will prolong as long as you stop soon enough. Over the edge is just that, over and done.

 

[Britva415]

Doubling up on condoms can cause them rub against each other and split.

If they're already not using condoms, I don't know if it's a problem if that happens.

 

[Lucien_Al]

Hey there. I’m looking for suggestions of Delay products. Ever now and then I’d like some extended hard and fast fucking. While my partner has good control over his orgasms, I usually prefer this after a good bit of playtime, which puts him on edge. Anyone have a delay product they like? Preferred without lidocaine, as that is ineffective for my partner regardless of where in his body it is used.

Thanks in advance.

I have tried a few and was not happy with the results. Either they made no difference at all or they made me so numb that I had not feeling whatsoever. In the case of the one that numbed me completely it took over an hour before feeling started to return.

I have worked hard on resolving this without delay products and happy with the results as is my partner.

 

[DemimondeDenizen]

The ky gel or spray (slightly better) desensitized does the trick for me. I could usually last 3-4 minutes without worrying,

But a drop or spritz on the underside of the glans gives me the power to go to pound town for 10 minutes or more. It doesn’t dull the physical enjoyment that much as it just takes off that rapid peak..and certainly the slight reduction in sensation is worth the feeling of control and the power to let go in fully.

Best thing about the desensitizer is that it’s not a fixed dosage of medication like a pill. So you can adjust how much you use and where you place it to match your needs and physiology.

Finding the right dose will take a little fun experimentation.

 

[twister947]

To State the obvious, anything applied topically to the cock will end up eventually in the vagina. I have no empirical observations to make on this however.

 

[DemimondeDenizen]

As per instructions, apply the desensitizer 5 minutes ahead. This gives it time to act AND to get absorbed by your skin, so it won’t transfer someplace you want full sensitivity.

Bonus tip: if you spread the gel with your finger, use your ring finger and wipe it clean so your primary fingertips are still fully sensitive for fingering, button play etc.

No complaints about sensitivity from my willing victim. Just a lots of good vocalizations during extended pounding sessions. Hehe

 

[Bbl87]

Not being a smartass, but I found out the other day that getting Bourbon drunk works for me. I definitely didn't have whiskey dick as getting and staying hard wasn't an issue, but my sensation was so dulled I realized very quickly I wasn't cumming any time soon, ha.

 

[emme8]

I have tried the KY desensitization spray on my man. It worked great on him.

However, even using a condom it seemed to transfer on to me. ( The package even says not to use condoms with it. )

A much more reliable method.

Ruin his first orgasm. And maybe his second and third also. It's easy to do. Just edge him to the point of no return. Go one stroke further, then laugh at him as his pathetic cock oozes cum. He has the release, without the pleasure, so he's still horny, still hard and can last.

 

[Lucien_Al]

If I do use a delay cream I put it on and then after an hour shower and wash it all off. So far it has not transferred to her.

My most reliable is 2 stiff Gin and Tonics and I have the performance of a pornstar.