Definite loving

[Gmarxe]

My gf likes it a little rough. That's just fine with me but I also like to indulge in foreplay for a while. How can I introduce and keep that slightly physical and rough side to our foreplay? What she calls definite loving - where we are more physical and definite than gentle romantic enjoyment. Where I can keep her guessing as to what might happen next and leave her in no doubt that I am calling the shots. Any helpful tips are gratefully received.

 

[hylas_]

Have you tried blindfolds? Simple, but works wonders.

 

[yukonnights]

Sounds like you two might find an interest in BDSM. There's a lot of varieties from gentle to rough, so it's not all leather and whips Take a peek at the two BDSM Forums and see if anything sounds interesting. (with the right activities you can edge out the foreplay for a long time)

 

[Miles Long]

See if she'd be willing to explore bondage. If you strap her down you can tease her as roughly or as gently as you want - and even go back and forth between the two. Exquisite torture is aptly named.