Deepthroat

[Karen_SubBiFem]

Hi,

I'd really like to learn how to deep throat. I don't know why but the very idea makes me tingle. Does anyone have any advice or experience they could share?

Thanks,

Karen.

 

[allennow]

relax your throat

My wife can do it pretty good. She says that she relaxes her throat and goes down slow. get as much as you can in a little at a time. Feels great to me. Is that why you want to do it? Make the man feel good?

 

[Karen_SubBiFem]

In part yes - but to be honest the idea really turns me on. I'm very oral i suppose, even fellating a dildo gets me hot and bothered.

What can I say, I'm peverse.

 

[allennow]

sounds hot to me!

I love oral women. I too am very oral. Of course on women that is. Have you been oral with women too?

 

[ted_cinti]

type "how to deepthroat" in your search window and it will bring up several articles on how to.

 

[Sir Victor]

Practice, here are a few tips, might you be looking for an instructor?
http://www.intimateassociates.com/swingers/articles/sex_education/deep_throat_how_to_29.php

 

[pussy_liquor]

My wife deepthroats me no problem!

 

[romantic_always]

I discovered it by accident, and I found that it's incredibly empowering and a huge turn on for both of us!

While my boyfriend lies on his back, I come up to him in the 69 position, but my body's next to him, not on top. Meaning, my head is facing his penis and my legs are folded underneath me by his arms. The curve of the penis makes it easier for me to take it in deeply this way.

I then relax and breathe out while going down on him (it makes for less chance of a gag reflex, but it still happens, it's only natural). I can do it two or three times deeply before resuming oral in the standard position of my eyes meeting his.

This is how it's worked for me-I hope this hepled

 

[Karen_SubBiFem]

I discovered it by accident, and I found that it's incredibly empowering and a huge turn on for both of us!

While my boyfriend lies on his back, I come up to him in the 69 position, but my body's next to him, not on top. Meaning, my head is facing his penis and my legs are folded underneath me by his arms. The curve of the penis makes it easier for me to take it in deeply this way.

I then relax and breathe out while going down on him (it makes for less chance of a gag reflex, but it still happens, it's only natural). I can do it two or three times deeply before resuming oral in the standard position of my eyes meeting his.

This is how it's worked for me-I hope this hepled

It does definitely - thank you.

 

[literal]

did u try it

 

[SilkenSanctuary]

Little late chiming in here, but I completely agree with taking it slow, little by little and letting your throat just relax. In addition to that, and perhaps only if you have a partner you are comfortable enough to trust to go at YOUR pace and not his own, this little trick has worked well for me:

Lie on your back on your bed (or couch or table or whatever), perhaps with shoulders propped on pillows if you need to get up higher, and hang your head backwards over the edge. This kind of straightens out the line of your mouth and throat, making for one long passage. If you are able to breath and relax, it should make it easier to get past the back of your throat and your gag reflex.

Have your partner stand in front of you and slowly ease himself into your mouth. I use hands on thighs to give directions if needed. If he can respect you enough not to just pump and thrust into your throat before you're ready, this can work effectively.

Good luck!

 

[SassySally]

Take it slow and get a toy like a dildo to practice on. It's a bit tougher to do but with a condom on it it should be good enough for practice.

 

[kmb411]

Karen- first, relax and enjoy, second practice and practicesome more. You have to learn how to overcome the gag reflex, just let the cock, dildo or what ever slide into your throat.

 

[RoomTemp]

It's learnable for everyone

I'm not small, so I have learned to be very patient, and very good, at training my women (who are usually subs) to do this.
The details are mostly available in posts here, and if you do the google search, you'll find a lot of good stuff. a few pointers:

If you have any affinity for porn, then watch some. Some of those girls gag (some deliberately so), and some don't. Some do better upside down, others with their head hanging off the bed, others with the man standing up (erect, you might say. )

Go slowly, and be in charge of this at first. Make sure you suck and lick a lot, and have it well lubricated. Take a breath, and take it as deep as you can, without gagging. Focus on relaxing the mind. Back off; and breath again. Take another deep breath, take it right to the same point, and then stick your tongue out along hte underside of the shaft. Now pull your tongue back in and pull the penis in deeper with it. Don't gag, but also try not to think too much about gagging or not gagging.
Do this a few times, and you'll find you can get it all the way to the back of your mouth cavity, called the back of the throat but really where the 'throating' of deep throat begins.

When you can get it back there consistently, you need to assess just how thick your partner's head is. Mine is pretty thick and doesn't injure anyone, but there are horror stories out there of real tuna cans causing a friction cut (tear) at this point.

When you are ready...and have him VERY WELL lubricated, take him to this point, and have him take hold of your head and push the rest of the way in...as he slides around the 'corner' and down into your throat, he will 'pop' into your throat suddenly. Be ready for a strange feeling, but a very rewarding one.
Make sure he knows to give a gentle push, and then if he doesn't go in to back off. His shaft will either pop around the corner or start to flex/bend in the middle. IN the latter case, back, adjust the angle-to include things like hanging your head off a couch, etc-and try again.

Good luck, and enjoy!

 

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[structure]

Rosco has posted some videos on here somewhere...a girl named Heather (I think)...she's amazing.

Amazing? Yeah, that pretty much sums it up!!

 

[bunnylicker]

i've never found it all that difficult.
the main thing is overcoming your gag reflex..
just relax, and as you're sucking it, try going a little farther down each time. it feels pretty hot to have it slide against the back of your throat after you overcome the gag.

goodluck!

 

[rbone04]

I was in a novelty shop a few months ago with my girlfriend and we got into a conversation with one of the clerks and somehow our discussion turned towards anal sex. I know, I know... I'm getting there. There was a tube of Anal-Eze (red box) desensitizing lube on the counter, and she talked about how she would never recommend this for anal sex because recognizing pain is an important part of safe anal-play BUT...

What she highly recommended it for was to numb the back of your throat if you are having trouble/learning how to deepthroat. She emphasized, don't overdo it; but take a q-tip and apply a small dab in the back of the throat where your gag-reflex kicks in and wait about 5 to 10 min. If you use just enough, she says it will wear off mid-session, and will ease you right into it (pun intended). I was a bit apprehensive, but she made a good point... if it's safe enough to go in your ass, it's gotta be safe enough to go in your mouth. Besides, the stuff in the red box is cherry flavored and supposedly isn't half bad. Be very conservative with the stuff though, or you won't be able to taste anything or swallow very easily for a while.

 

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[subxboi]

Personally, my gag reflex doesn't work so I have no problem. <3

However, I recommend getting used to having things back where your gag reflex is (in most people); Your finger, or even a long fruit, etc. Something soft and smooth so as not to damage anything, but to get used to keeping your tongue depressed and your throat open without gagging. You can make a learned skill of it by taming that reflex and swallowing slowly, and progressively further and further until you achieve your goal. <3

Also, it helps if you start small and gradually increase the girth/length of the object you're trying to keep partially swallowed until it's up to par with the sort of meat you'll be working with.

Also, invest in some good throat losenges. You're gonna' be sore afterward in the beginning. =P

 

[infinity706]

One question, and this was raised in another thread, by another member....if it numbs the throat, won't it numb his cock??

The idea is that you let it absorb into the skin of your throat first or else use a condom.

 

[sterculius]

Hi,

I'd really like to learn how to deep throat. I don't know why but the very idea makes me tingle. Does anyone have any advice or experience they could share?

Thanks,

Karen.

Hi Karen, I Know how you feel. Ever since I used to blow my best friend in high school, I have loved the feeling of a thick cock in my throat. As said, the trick is to be able to relax your throat and allow it to go past the bend at the back of your mouth. Try to keep your mouth open as wide as you can as the cock enters your throat. It does take practice. Try to practice with one of those dildos made of soft skinlike silicone material like UR3

 

[sterculius]

In part yes - but to be honest the idea really turns me on. I'm very oral i suppose, even fellating a dildo gets me hot and bothered.

What can I say, I'm peverse.

The world can use more perverts like you

 

[astnbutterfly]

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