Deep throating

[pussyg]

Erm, i'm sure someone must have asked before, but trying a search nearly wrote off my computer - it seems there are just too many threads for it to cope with, lol.

Anyway, my question is about swallowing cock, essentially. Can anyone give me any tips on relaxing the gag reflex, sometimes it seems easier than others, but it seems to be very haphazard, and i haven't really figured out what i do differently. Also i've read about 'swallowing' the cock, and the sensations this gives. i can't seem to do anything except concentrate on breathing, not throwing up, and maybe swirling my tongue once in a while. Any suggestions??

 

[SweetErika]

Try this thread from The Blank Manual sticky.

 

[pussyg]

Thank you, that was really helpful. I knew it would be here somewhere!!

 

[Ezeerider]

Going to pot

I've seen on a couple of different threads here that pot will help reduce or even eliminate the gag reflex during those critical moments.
While I can't speak to that particular phenomenon, I will say that I've found that pot provides a most incredible enhancement to all aspects of sex, especially the intensity and duration of orgasm.
Mother knows best!

 

[abitnottie]

They make a lube for it, helps for both deep throat and swallowing. Pretty much at any adult store.

 

[BlueyeGuy51]

Try a little Chloraseptic spray in your throat first, it's for numbing sore throats.

 

[bone251]

After he cums try swallowing. Being a little soft and well lubed from the orgasm will help you get used to it. I am on the large side and a past girlfriend did that to get me all the way down.

 

[pullmyhair3717]

Try this thread from The Blank Manual sticky.

very helpful thank you

 

[framster]

In case no one else has pointed this out already:

Deep throat is a stunt that may look hot in porn, but really isn't all that exciting to receive, unless you're doing it to a guy with a yen for dominance. If it's arousal you're after, you're much better off concentrating on the head and upper part of the cock, which is where all the nerve endings are.

That said, what a lucky man that you take so much effort to please him!

 

[rthnck]

To each his own

In case no one else has pointed this out already:

Deep throat is a stunt that may look hot in porn, but really isn't all that exciting to receive...

I respectfully disagree. It's damn exciting.

 

[NippleMuncher]

I respectfully disagree. It's damn exciting.

A most emphatic X2!!

Deep throat is a stunt that may look hot in porn, but really isn't all that exciting to receive, unless you're doing it to a guy with a yen for dominance. If it's arousal you're after, you're much better off concentrating on the head and upper part of the cock, which is where all the nerve endings are.

If you believe this, then it stands to reason that when you're having sex, you only need to stick the tip in for maximum pleasure, rather than burying your penis to the hilt.

While the majority of nerve endings may be in the head of the penis, the shaft is far from being numb. Couple that with the definition of great sex being in the eye of the receiver and you couldn't be more wrong with your assessment. Enjoying deep throating has nothing to do with dominance or anything else, it's about what feels good to the receiver, which is why we always redirect "how to give a BJ" questions to the asker's partner rather than to a forum of strangers.

I thoroughly enjoy being DT'd and commend anyone wanting to learn the technique for their lover, you are a special individual indeed.