Deep Throating

Sami78

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This is a skill I've been trying to master for awhile, and haven't got it quite down yet (no pun intended) ... are there any tips that will help me succeed in deep throating my man?

Occasionally I can get his entire cock into my mouth and throat, but not often. I want him to be able to cum down my throat.

Help!!

Thanks :)

Luv Sami78
 
Sami...

The best thing to do is RELAX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Perhaps, buy a penis shaped dildo and practice giving it head until you get the hang of it.
 
I can only deep throat successfully when I am facing the oposite direction to my man and my head is not bent over him.
It is also important to relax all your throat muscles. Dont put pressure n yourself to do this. Just go a little deeper each time until you feel comfortable with it. Beofre long you will be a natural at it.

Felicity
 
Sami78 said:
This is a skill I've been trying to master for awhile, and haven't got it quite down yet (no pun intended) ... are there any tips that will help me succeed in deep throating my man?

Occasionally I can get his entire cock into my mouth and throat, but not often. I want him to be able to cum down my throat.





Man, he's an incredibly lucky guy!!!
 
I managed to do this once, with my ex-husband. I had to lay with my head hanging over the edge of the mattress, and he stood facing me. I've tried it since with my bf, and we can almost make it work, but not quite. He's much taller than my ex, so the angle might be wrong. Also he's longer, so there's no way it's *all* going down my throat! :p

Lili
 
Thanks everyone!

My man is more than willing to be selfless and let me practice on him when ever I have the urge. LOL.

I never thought of using a dildo for practice, but somehow I don't think it'll be quite the same. Perhaps, tho, I'll give it a try!!

Sami78
 
yeah, try it laying down with ur head at the edge fo the bead. When you do this it pulls ur toungue away from the back of ur mouth and opens up your throat. good luck
 
Why worry about it? It's basically a circus trick, anyway.
 
This is something I do every time my husband and I have sex. The best thing I can suggest would be the desensetizing gel they have out now. You rub it on your partners penis and it numbs your throat. Try using that to start out with until you can do it on your own. Good Luck!!
 
Amfig said:
Why worry about it? It's basically a circus trick, anyway.

The deepthroating my girlfriend gave me a few years ago was no circus trick! Deepthroating is to a blowjob as intercourse is to dry-humping. It's a whole other level!
 
ShyQuietGal said:
This is something I do every time my husband and I have sex. The best thing I can suggest would be the desensetizing gel they have out now. You rub it on your partners penis and it numbs your throat. Try using that to start out with until you can do it on your own. Good Luck!!

I don't think desensitizing would help me. My problem is that I can't hold my breath long enough, and I can't breath through my nose with something that thick jammed down my throat. :p

Lili

(Who's really glad he doesn't insist on this.) ;)
 
ShyQuietGal said:
This is something I do every time my husband and I have sex. The best thing I can suggest would be the desensetizing gel they have out now. You rub it on your partners penis and it numbs your throat. Try using that to start out with until you can do it on your own. Good Luck!!

I agree with ShyQuietGal!!! The gel works great and it also desensetizes the man so it last longer lol :p Wooo Hoooo!!!!!
 
When I deepthroat hubby, I prefer to sit in front of him with my mouth at cock level. I can control my breathing much better. It also helps to time your breathing on his outstroke. I also take short breaths for a minute or two while he is fucking in and out and then releasing them in rhythm of his fucking my mouth. I don't know if this makes sense or not,but I have found this to be the easiest. As someone else said earlier,practice,practice,practice! PS Hubby said he will volunteer to be a practice dummy!
 
want a extra secret ?

if u want try sucking on some bradasol losenges before it numbs ur throat so u can take it alll down ,
There is also a surgical procedure tthat cuts the muscle at back of throat so even extra large is accomidated .

There is a egyptian throat stretcher that i have seen used a few times ,
but a bitch harness is easiest to get used to
 
Re: want a extra secret ?

penman_sandy said:
but a bitch harness is easiest to get used to [/B]


A what?? What is a 'bitch harness'.
(Sly grin....I thought that was what a strap on was called)
 
PinkOrchid said:
So you LIKE to have your throat and mouth numbed while you deepthroat?

If your tongue is numb how can you tell what it's doing?

I dunno, seems like it would take a lot of the pleasure out of it for both of us...

First off it only numbs it for a short time. Second, believe me I know what to do with my tongue.

Third, trust me it doesnt take any pleasure out of it at all. It makes him last alot longer then normal. But like the poster said she is having the problem of breathing when she is deepthroating.
 
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Most people here are right, you need to relax, take the phone off the hook, use lots of candles, take a bath together, set the mood, let him know that what you plan to do, is to take you time, so let him know, you mean business, and you want to take all day learning to deep throat him. Next, whatever you do, do not use anything that will numb your throat, or anything that will not allow you to be in control. Next... Just as your about to take him into your mouth... exhale all of your air, as you take his cock in. Next be relax and focussed as you can be. Has you come up from his cock, start to take a breath back in. Don't force his cock down your throat, just take your sweet time. Explore his length, enjoy his length, enjoy his scent, notice your reactions to taking him down your throat. Be patient. You might not achieve this in one night, but you certainly can have a whole lots of fun trying.
 
From what my partners have told me, position is VERY important......each of us guys "points" at a different angle and might "twist" or tilt to one side or the other when we're hard. So, a position that works for one of us might not work for others. My last 2 long-term partners were both only able to deep-throat me while in a 69 position, both becuase the angle allowed them to accomdate me (and I'm FAR from huge) and becuase I distracted them enough that they were able to "forget" about their gag reflex until it ceased to be a concern. Plus, them being on top allowed them the control to pull back any time they needed to breathe without worrying about me thrusting forward or pressing down on them. Good luck, and you have alucky guy :D
 
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