Deep throating help.....

cosmo69

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This has probably been discussed before but I can't find anything so......

Does anyone have any advice on how to deep throat a guy with a BIG cock without gagging?
Cos of the situation, beds and bending over backwards is out of the question, its has to be me on knees in front of him,

Its been great so far, but last time he started getting carried away and I nearly threw up, I really want to carry on so any suggestions on how to retrain my gag reflex or tips on how to take him all would be really greatfully appreciated,

ta all!
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Can you glug down beer? Pour it into the back of your throat and suck it down to your stomach?
Best I can suggest I'm afraid is to practice with a warm non-alcoholic liquid and be prepared for some vomiting during the early attempts.
Ask a student to show you how to do that.
Then you move on to the hard stuff. Once you learn and are confident with the technique, take your hands off his hips and trust him to do you right.:cool:
 
Practise

Go slow. Swallow while you take him while you push your tongue forward and relax in your throat. If you start to gag, keep him there for a while and then start over. slowly your throat will start to allow him in. it takes time and practise, but have fun while doing it.
 
Someone once told me that if you make a fist, with your thumb tucked in, it will almost completely suppress the gag reflex. Weird I know, and I've never tried it with a penis, but it works with my finger!
 
Use your hands to give him the illusion of more depth. My guy also knows that if I'm taking him deep in my mouth, he needs to lay off the thrusting because I need to be in control at that point if it's going to continue.
 
Relaxing the throat and lots of practice is key. When I gag I take some deep breaths through my nose. I accept the reflex, relax more, and keep going. Some guys (mine included) like it when I gag, for whatever reason.
Really, truly enjoying the art of fellatio makes all the difference in the world!

Oooh this!! I agree here! I love having a swollen cock deep down my throat! Yikes, even dentists have commented on my lack of gag reflex! :D

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Can you glug down beer? Pour it into the back of your throat and suck it down to your stomach?
Best I can suggest I'm afraid is to practice with a warm non-alcoholic liquid and be prepared for some vomiting during the early attempts.
Ask a student to show you how to do that.
Then you move on to the hard stuff. Once you learn and are confident with the technique, take your hands off his hips and trust him to do you right.:cool:


i laughed out loud. ask a student to show you how to chug beer. Perfect.

And yeah that seems like a good technique. I learned how to do it without gagging, but I just had to concentrate the first few times and learn how to relax my throat. As soon as I think about the dick in my throat, I start to gag.
 
As a guy, I can't guarantee I'll be a ton of help, but I dated a girl once who really wanted to deep-throat me and had trouble with it at first (in fact, she actually got sick the first time she tried). I pretty much left her completely in control, didn't grab her head at all so that she could take as little or as much as she could until she started getting the hang of it. It seems like a good part of it is confidence and how relaxed you are. If you think he's going to impale you on it, you're going to be tense and nervous.

Hopefully that helps at least a little bit?
 
I am sort of an expert on the receiving end. Seems to me that the girls that can deep throat seem to swallow as they take it in. They tend to go at it like it is food. I had one friend that liked to lay on her back off the edge of the bed and have me shove it in. I really was afraid of that. I am a shrek sized guy and just do not like to be aggressive in the bedroom. It is a gentle giant thing for me. But for her she really liked the gag feel when it went in. So maybe the gag thing is something that happens when something is tooo big.That brings me to the other thing. Anatomy. Big things do not always fit in small places. So maybe DT is not an option. My current fuck buddy does DT easily but unless she does a swallow thing all the sensitive spots are missing the tongue and lips. Seems she now holds her hand in front of her mouth and the sensations are much more exciting. She says she can also read me better for getting me on the edge for tease and denial. So a girl that can DT does me better with just a little DT.
So maybe do a swallow or two to take in what you can when YOU want and then go back to your bag of tricks on the sensitive end.
For a big guy like me that would make me smile.
:rose:
 
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