Decreased sensitivit issues.... anyone else?

[xxromanceguy]

When I was younger, like 20 yrs ago, my cock was rather sensitive compared to today. My ex used to love 69 and could edge me forever before making me cum. Most times I could have several small orgasms by either pulling out and spurting a couple times or stopping stimulation just prior to the full orgasm. My cock head was extremely sensitive during oral and was almost uncomfortable with direct sucking to the head.
Well that was 20 or so years ago and 16 yrs since being diagnosed with MS. Now the sensitivity is so limited that only vigorous masturbation will get me to cum. This would be awesome for marathon fucking and sucking but the lack of sensitivity is a hindrance to long session intercourse... basically whiskey dick sets in after about 15 minutes. I usually bring my lady off with tongue and fI gers during foreplay so she can cum and squirt several times, but will usually have to jerk myself off to just before orgasm to be able to cum inside her.... and this is with prescription meds and a cock ring. I love to eat her afterwards which is pretty much the highlight of my own pleasure other than making her soak the bed with her ejaculations... MS fucking sucks!! Anyways, is there any other males or gales for that matter who experience decreased sensitivity? And if so, how do you deal with it??? Any suggestions and Iwould be willing to try......

 

[kypdyn82]

Have you tried prostate stimulation while engaged in sex?

Do you engage with any of the local MS support groups in your area? I've given presentations on medical management of MS to these groups and the support shown for each other in these groups is pretty staunch, albeit in a non sexually oriented forum. I don't think the subject is taboo to bring up, as it is a health and quality of life issue. There seems to be a wealth of knowledge and experience sharing amongst members of these communities in my experience

 

[xxromanceguy]

I live in a small urban city. We used to have a quite large MS group here with monly meetings but, unfortunately we have lost quite a few members in the last few years so meeting gs are scarce. We did discuss sexual dysfunctions occasionally but my issues were not that bad back then. This has really become a major issue in maybe the past 6 yrs and gradually becoming more pronounced.
As far as prostate stimilation, I tried this once years ago, before MS was a factor and although it was amazing, it was a one time thing g we tried for shots and giggles and never did it again... my be worth a try tho. Thanks for the input, wasn't sure how this thread would go in the fetish board... my copy it to the general board. It might be more appropriate there... thanks again... might have to make a purchase at the sex shop for a prostate slimulator... this may increase sensitivity, especially during intercourse with thrusting motion...hmm kinda excited to give it a shot...

 

[DogTrainer]

I agree with the prostate stimulation idea. There are also creams, usually marketed towards women, to increase sensitivity. You might want to do some research. I world recommend looking up sex doctors (actual MD's) and make an appointment or email your situation. They are sure to have some worthwhile suggestions for you while being knowledgeable about the complications of MS.

Trying a naturopathic doctor would be one of my first stops, too. They should have done supplements and procedures that can help. Things like acupuncture may be a really good step for you as it opens up nerve routes and can help improve connections in the body.

 

[xxromanceguy]

I agree with the prostate stimulation idea. There are also creams, usually marketed towards women, to increase sensitivity. You might want to do some research. I world recommend looking up sex doctors (actual MD's) and make an appointment or email your situation. They are sure to have some worthwhile suggestions for you while being knowledgeable about the complications of MS.

Trying a naturopathic doctor would be one of my first stops, too. They should have done supplements and procedures that can help. Things like acupuncture may be a really good step for you as it opens up nerve routes and can help improve connections in the body.

I've researched homeopathic stuff and most is pretty expensive... I need to talk with my neurologist about it, he knows about the ED, but never talked to him about the sensitivity issues... thanks for the input!

 

[Freya_Gin]

I don't know if you've already done this or not, but research all your other meds online to make sure that they're not exacerbating the problem. I was on Lisinopril for years (high blood pressure) and it deactivated the pleasure response of my labia and clit. I didn't even know that anything could do that! Yeah, you'd think your doctor would know about it if that were so but mine didn't. She didn't seem to have any idea that Lisinopril could cause sexual problems for a woman. So it might be a good idea to do a little research of your own, just in case. Good luck!

 

[Jeffs362]

Anti-depressants will do it too. It's best not to focus on the orgasm but just the fun. Or increase the fun, and go with it!