Dear Litster... (continued)

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Dear Litster.

I'd gladly wake up at 3 am for you. You're worth the lack of sleep. Always have been.

Signed,

Your smitten kitten
 
dear "I'm sure we used to chat and had a lot of fun on yahoo years ago when I had a different user name I can't quite remember in a year I'm unable to recall"

yeah, you must think I came down on the last fucking shower...nice try-do people really fall for that shit?:rolleyes:
 
Dear not the last shower Litster

Wags tail, wasn't me.🐲

Have a Dwagon Hug Litster :)
 
Dear Smashed Hamster Litster-
Thank you:heart:
Always Jonesing For You Joe
 
Dear Litster ...

I'm here. Not 10 minutes away. I sent you pics to prove it :). If you want me . Come and get me. I won't run 💋

Signed : loving his beach more more 🤗😍❤️

Dear Litster again :)

Thank you for so generously sharing with me :). Everything about your beach is gorgeous !! I can't wait to go back.

Signed : just some Nurse girl you met on the beach ...
 
Dear Spicy Litster,

Two weeks ago you left us for greener pastures. Will it ever get any easier?

Missing you terribly litster
 
Dear Interested Litster,

I see you got it!
(I laughed so hard)
Do you want to go first, or shall I?

Signed,
I'm Halfway There Already Litster

:devil:
 
Dear Lister,

I always try to error with caution when it comes to this subject but seeing more than one of my friends having been affected by an uneducated statement I feel that I with my personal history am going to stand up.

On a board such as this one should be leary of making comments about suicide. Especially in today's world where there is an extreme lack of mental health resources made to those who need them. And making a comment about someone being a pussy or someone being lame and possibly wanting to do harm to themself is not only in bad taste but ignorant.

Having PERSONALLY dealt with watching a family member get their stomach pumped at the age of 12, having witnessed the loss of a best friends spouse because of lack of appropriate treatment, knowing a dear friend who felt that no one could ever understand and then knowing someone who lost a child because bullying got the best of them; who are you?

Attacking others for your amusement is tacky but attacking those who may in a time if need go to the only place they know and possibly having to see an ignorant statement just makes it worse. I hope for your sake no one in your life needs help or suffers from a true default that makes them think there is no where else to turn. I hope you never suffer a dark day where light is the last thing peeking through and I sincerely hope you never lose the life of a loved one because of some idiot like you who lacks compassion and education.

Sincerely,
A litster that has dealt with this shit her whole life and is willing to speak her mind
 
Dear Lister,

I always try to error with caution when it comes to this subject but seeing more than one of my friends having been affected by an uneducated statement I feel that I with my personal history am going to stand up.

On a board such as this one should be leary of making comments about suicide. Especially in today's world where there is an extreme lack of mental health resources made to those who need them. And making a comment about someone being a pussy or someone being lame and possibly wanting to do harm to themself is not only in bad taste but ignorant.

Having PERSONALLY dealt with watching a family member get their stomach pumped at the age of 12, having witnessed the loss of a best friends spouse because of lack of appropriate treatment, knowing a dear friend who felt that no one could ever understand and then knowing someone who lost a child because bullying got the best of them; who are you?

Attacking others for your amusement is tacky but attacking those who may in a time if need go to the only place they know and possibly having to see an ignorant statement just makes it worse. I hope for your sake no one in your life needs help or suffers from a true default that makes them think there is no where else to turn. I hope you never suffer a dark day where light is the last thing peeking through and I sincerely hope you never lose the life of a loved one because of some idiot like you who lacks compassion and education.

Sincerely,
A litster that has dealt with this shit her whole life and is willing to speak her mind


Dear mind speaker,
I love you :heart:
My dad committed suicide recently, nothing about it has been easy or fun, it's been hell. I have nightmares almost nightly and am in therapy. It isn't a joke and it's something I take seriously as well. I know another Litster is dealing with someone close to her having recently passed in this way. When in doubt, be kind to people. You don't know what battles they're going through...even on a website about sex.

Keeping it real
 
Dear Lister,

I always try to error with caution when it comes to this subject but seeing more than one of my friends having been affected by an uneducated statement I feel that I with my personal history am going to stand up.

On a board such as this one should be leary of making comments about suicide. Especially in today's world where there is an extreme lack of mental health resources made to those who need them. And making a comment about someone being a pussy or someone being lame and possibly wanting to do harm to themself is not only in bad taste but ignorant.

Having PERSONALLY dealt with watching a family member get their stomach pumped at the age of 12, having witnessed the loss of a best friends spouse because of lack of appropriate treatment, knowing a dear friend who felt that no one could ever understand and then knowing someone who lost a child because bullying got the best of them; who are you?

Attacking others for your amusement is tacky but attacking those who may in a time if need go to the only place they know and possibly having to see an ignorant statement just makes it worse. I hope for your sake no one in your life needs help or suffers from a true default that makes them think there is no where else to turn. I hope you never suffer a dark day where light is the last thing peeking through and I sincerely hope you never lose the life of a loved one because of some idiot like you who lacks compassion and education.

Sincerely,
A litster that has dealt with this shit her whole life and is willing to speak her mind

Dear mind speaker,
I love you :heart:
My dad committed suicide recently, nothing about it has been easy or fun, it's been hell. I have nightmares almost nightly and am in therapy. It isn't a joke and it's something I take seriously as well. I know another Litster is dealing with someone close to her having recently passed in this way. When in doubt, be kind to people. You don't know what battles they're going through...even on a website about sex.

Keeping it real

DL
Kudos to both of you. W/O going into detail I've had more experience in dealing with people attempting suicide and their families then I care to discuss. It leaves a toll which is nothing in comparison to what the survivors face and are forced to learn to cope with. I was reminded of all of this again by a recent experience in a very public place and a later conversation with another lister who happens to also be a survivor. The pain family members deal with is beyond belief. For both of the above ladies, a big pat on the back and smile, they've retained their humanity.
 
DL
Kudos to both of you. W/O going into detail I've had more experience in dealing with people attempting suicide and their families then I care to discuss. It leaves a toll which is nothing in comparison to what the survivors face and are forced to learn to cope with. I was reminded of all of this again by a recent experience in a very public place and a later conversation with another lister who happens to also be a survivor. The pain family members deal with is beyond belief. For both of the above ladies, a big pat on the back and smile, they've retained their humanity.


Thank you sir :kiss::kiss:
 
Dear Lister,

I always try to error with caution when it comes to this subject but seeing more than one of my friends having been affected by an uneducated statement I feel that I with my personal history am going to stand up.

On a board such as this one should be leary of making comments about suicide. Especially in today's world where there is an extreme lack of mental health resources made to those who need them. And making a comment about someone being a pussy or someone being lame and possibly wanting to do harm to themself is not only in bad taste but ignorant.

Having PERSONALLY dealt with watching a family member get their stomach pumped at the age of 12, having witnessed the loss of a best friends spouse because of lack of appropriate treatment, knowing a dear friend who felt that no one could ever understand and then knowing someone who lost a child because bullying got the best of them; who are you?

Attacking others for your amusement is tacky but attacking those who may in a time if need go to the only place they know and possibly having to see an ignorant statement just makes it worse. I hope for your sake no one in your life needs help or suffers from a true default that makes them think there is no where else to turn. I hope you never suffer a dark day where light is the last thing peeking through and I sincerely hope you never lose the life of a loved one because of some idiot like you who lacks compassion and education.

Sincerely,
A litster that has dealt with this shit her whole life and is willing to speak her mind


Dear Litster who possesses a very beautiful heart and intelligent mind,

Your eloquent post is very touching and so very true...

Suicide is something that should never be taken lightly or joked about.
If someone makes a statement that he or she is even contemplating it, it is a red flag for help...sadly, too many needless suicides have taken place as a result of lack of education and compassion from others...

Unfortunately, taking one's life can happen to anyone...it can happen to a child who is bullied at school, a college student who just can't cope with the demands of trying to please their family, a Veteran returning home from serving in a war, a new mom suffering from postpartum depression, a provider of the family who has overwhelming stress trying to make ends meet, a broken relationship and left with no self esteem, the elderly who are depressed with their aging and deteriorating bodies, the mentally challenged who are afflicted with disorders such as Bipolar Disorder, Schizophrenia, etc...the list of reasons WHY a suicide occurs is endless...it is shocking and so very sad...

My brother is mentally challenged...and when he is enduring a depressive mood episode , it is always in the back of my mind that he might decide to end his life..thankfully, he does have a very strong , secure , and loving support system....my parents and myself would do anything for him...but that doesn't guarantee it won't ever happen...but the people who don't have anyone at all, the thought is frightening....for it breaks my heart to think that a suicide could have been prevented, if he/she was surrounded by people or even just one person who cared genuinely and who valued their life enough to offer assistance to prevent it.

I do not know why Gator Gurl posted her thoughts, I did not go back and read the threads...all I know is that her post compelled me to put my two cents in...and to implore all individuals to educate themselves on suicide prevention, and also to say to anyone who has even the tiniest thoughts about taking their own life...please, seek support...one step in the right direction it to simply make a call to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800 273 8255 they will connect you to a local crisis center in your area.
 
Dear Litster,

Thank you for reminding me that it's okay to be me. I appreciate the hell out of it.
 
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