Dear Litster... (continued)

[mwmnpa]

Dear IHC,

and here I thought the place was coming around again...

 

[IhateClowns]

Dear IHC,

and here I thought the place was coming around again...

Dear mwmnpa,

It is. Just making sure people don't continue to fuck it up. They inevitably will though.

Signed,

Missing the old days.

 

[mwmnpa]

Dear IHC,

There's always "drama." Doesn't mean you have to take part. And it's the internet, so we have a whole other group of dysfunctional people now who have an outlet.

Always liked your posts, btw.

Old Days Are Gone Litster

 

[IhateClowns]

Dear IHC,

There's always "drama." Doesn't mean you have to take part. And it's the internet, so we have a whole other group of dysfunctional people now who have an outlet.

Always liked your posts, btw.

Old Days Are Gone Litster

Dear long gone,


Very much so. It just seems that the drama has been ramped up quite a bit last couple of weeks. Everyone is good at talking about everybody else behind their backs. Nobody wants to see anything about the elephant in the room, so that's what I did. I have nothing to do with it whatsoever. I just want it to stop.

 

[AbsintheFather]

People have sleep in the beds they make.

It's easy to make good friends, have fun and build lasting friendships here. If you can't do that it's your own fault. People who fuck up frequently end up burning too many bridges and leaving (with the exception of Ronster) It's their own fault and it's not unlike the Darwin awards . . .

No, the old days aren't coming back. But it doesn't mean there aren't good folks, old and new, hanging around.

 

[IhateClowns]

People have sleep in the beds they make.

It's easy to make good friends, have fun and build lasting friendships here. If you can't do that it's your own fault. People who fuck up frequently end up burning too many bridges and leaving (with the exception of Ronster) It's their own fault and it's not unlike the Darwin awards . . .

No, the old days aren't coming back. But it doesn't mean there aren't good folks, old and new, hanging around.

Yep. There are a few still. That doesn't mean that those of us who have been around a long time can't wish for the way things used to be. There has to be a common reason with the multitude of reasons that a lot of good, respectable pg'ers have left.

 

[RoyceConnors]

.....

 

[IhateClowns]

Most left because it turned into a popularity contest of some kind in every thread. The threads we used to have were all about having fun together and flirting without the drama of who's getting more attention than the other.

The ones who cause others to go are the ones who seek all the attention of the other sex, that they have to respond to every woman like she's his, or vice versa for the women.

I miss nightly cuddles in front of the fire and the games we played in some of the threads, where people openly said they weren't popular and just in for the fun. So many Brits have left now and many haven't even popped in at all, like Ox Don.

I think the wrong kind of games are being played and that's what's causing a lot of the problems. IMO

I agree to a certain extent. No matter the board, there are always going to be some that are more popular than others. It just seems like people are more threatened than they used to be. This place was more welcoming. Less tolerant. We welcomed people into threads. We weren't threatened by others. We didn't view everyone as having an alterior motive. It's too bad really.

 

[Katie_80]

So what are those of us who don't give a fuck about the stupid popularity contests supposed to do? Calling people out doesn't seem to help and just causes more drama. Idk...maybe you had the right idea in taking a break. Not sure I really belong here.

 

[barefootgirl69]

So what are those of us who don't give a fuck about the stupid popularity contests supposed to do? Calling people out doesn't seem to help and just causes more drama. Idk...maybe you had the right idea in taking a break. Not sure I really belong here.

Just ignore the contests. Make some friends, flirt on the threads, never loose sight that there are plenty of people around who feel the same way you do. Honestly, it's never occurred to me, but I hear this phrase 'popularity contest' a lot lately. I'm sure some of it is caused by the people who are the admirers, not always the one who is getting attention.

 

[TongueLust]

Just ignore the contests. Make some friends, flirt on the threads, never loose sight that there are plenty of people around who feel the same way you do. Honestly, it's never occurred to me, but I hear this phrase 'popularity contest' a lot lately. I'm sure some of it is caused by the people who are the admirers, not always the one who is getting attention.

I agree^

 

[PeteHulbert37]

Dear Hey.........

The Playground has always had drama. The GB has to, but they think they're cool and can hide it. Always going to be jealousy and popularity games on boards like this. It's nothing new. It was likely less prevelant back in the day due to volume. When 4000 people post in a night and 12 are in some sort of drama, not many notice. Yet, when 200 people post in a night and 12 people are in drama, it feels like the whole place is a shit stir.

Que sera sera.

Signed,

Ain't My First Rodeo

 

[IhateClowns]

So what are those of us who don't give a fuck about the stupid popularity contests supposed to do? Calling people out doesn't seem to help and just causes more drama. Idk...maybe you had the right idea in taking a break. Not sure I really belong here.

Everyone belongs here. There's something for everyone here. Either put the people that bug you on blast, or put them on ignore. Don't hang out in 1 or 2 threads. Bounce around. Get to know everyone. If people get jealous of the attention you're getting, it's on them, not you.

I created the Litties a few years ago. As much fun as it was, there were people Who got upset by it. There's always going to be people who are haters.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Dear Playground,

What the fuck happened to you? This used to be a place where people came to relax, unwind, and chill the fuck out. Now it seems filled with people on power trips, hell bent on getting their way or no one else is getting theirs.

I don't know the drama. I don't give a fuck about the drama, but it needs to stop. If you are causing the drama or affected by the drama, then you are on here way too fucking much and need to take a break.

Your bullshit is causing people to leave and my ignore list to grow longer and longer. I'm not fond of the GB at all, but at least their intentions are clear. They stab you in the front. They don't hire internet assassins to take you out for them.

I have been around these parts for a long time. I helped build this place to what it has become, along with many others, but you fuckers and your idiocy are doing your best to tear it down. Knock it the fuck off. We are all grown ups here. Whether you're 22 or 72 act like you have some see respect.

If you have an issue with someone there's this nifty little feature that allows you to message them directly. Fucking do it. Don't get others to do it for you. His passive aggressive bullshit is what is making all the good people disappear.

Do you really not have have something more important in your daily lives that need attending to? Something that can take your focus off off being a cunt or an asshole as not to project your own personal hatred onto others? This is the fucking playground for sake.

This isn't your personal toilet to shit in. If you have a beef with someone either message them privately or fucking block them. Better yet, grow some thicker fucking skin and tell them to fuck off and move the fuck along. How about just trying to be the bigger person and ignoring them. Your true friends on here have your back. They know who you are and if they turn on you then fuck them.

Guess what? Not everyone is going to like you on here. Get used to it. Quit fucking up my playground.

Signed,

Hey! If any of you are looking for any last-minute gift ideas for me, I have one. I'd like Frank Shirley, my boss, right here tonight. I want him brought from his happy holiday slumber over there on Melody Lane with all the other rich people and I want him brought right here, with a big ribbon on his head, and I want to look him straight in the eye and I want to tell him what a cheap, lying, no-good, rotten, four-flushing, low-life, snake-licking, dirt-eating, inbred, overstuffed, ignorant, blood-sucking, dog-kissing, brainless, dickless, hopeless, heartless, fat-ass, bug-eyed, stiff-legged, spotty-lipped, worm-headed sack of monkey shit he is! Hallelujah! Holy shit! Where's the Tylenol?

Dear Clowns,

Hmmmm. I'm gonna need specifics here. Direct me to drama. I love drama when it isn't mine.

Your Friend,

Pmann

 

[Lord Pmann]

So what are those of us who don't give a fuck about the stupid popularity contests supposed to do? Calling people out doesn't seem to help and just causes more drama. Idk...maybe you had the right idea in taking a break. Not sure I really belong here.

Please call them out. Inquiring minds and all.

 

[TongueLust]

Everyone belongs here. There's something for everyone here. Either put the people that bug you on blast, or put them on ignore. Don't hang out in 1 or 2 threads. Bounce around. Get to know everyone. If people get jealous of the attention you're getting, it's on them, not you.

I created the Litties a few years ago. As much fun as it was, there were people Who got upset by it. There's always going to be people who are haters.

True.

 

[IhateClowns]

Just ignore the contests. Make some friends, flirt on the threads, never loose sight that there are plenty of people around who feel the same way you do. Honestly, it's never occurred to me, but I hear this phrase 'popularity contest' a lot lately. I'm sure some of it is caused by the people who are the admirers, not always the one who is getting attention.

Well said.

 

[AKentuckyLady]

Just ignore the contests. Make some friends, flirt on the threads, never loose sight that there are plenty of people around who feel the same way you do. Honestly, it's never occurred to me, but I hear this phrase 'popularity contest' a lot lately. I'm sure some of it is caused by the people who are the admirers, not always the one who is getting attention.

Well said, BFG

I personally stay away from the drama or just ignore it. Let the people with the high school mentality do whatever they want, just don't bring it to me. It's worked well so far.

 

[Chris_Michael]

Dear Litster,

I know you are rolling your eyes right now. You were right, and you're a butthole. Buuut I can explain!

 

[IhateClowns]

Dear Clowns,

Hmmmm. I'm gonna need specifics here. Direct me to drama. I love drama when it isn't mine.

Your Friend,

Pmann

Im not in the middle of it, but essentially people are upset because a thread was started anew (the 287th installment of it had reached 5k posts so it was closed). So the original ops had hissy fits when someone else started the new one instead of hem. I'm sure there is a ton more to it, but that's a part of it.

You know, real important shit. I wouldn't have brought this up, until my inbox was blown up with people commenting about leaving because of all the bullshit. So you know me, I just air it out and then duck when the shrapnel starts flying.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Im not in the middle of it, but essentially people are upset because a thread was started anew (the 287th installment of it had reached 5k posts so it was closed). So the original ops had hissy fits when someone else started the new one instead of hem. I'm sure there is a ton more to it, but that's a part of it.

You know, real important shit. I wouldn't have brought this up, until my inbox was blown up with people commenting about leaving because of all the bullshit. So you know me, I just air it out and then duck when the shrapnel starts flying.

That is important shit. I bet it makes you put that whole lost job thing in perspective. I mean, threads and shit. Get your priorities right.

The one thing I love about the GB, when people are being fuckwits, they get called out. By name. And that's lovely.

 

[Bookishleigh]

Im not in the middle of it, but essentially people are upset because a thread was started anew (the 287th installment of it had reached 5k posts so it was closed). So the original ops had hissy fits when someone else started the new one instead of hem. I'm sure there is a ton more to it, but that's a part of it.

You know, real important shit. I wouldn't have brought this up, until my inbox was blown up with people commenting about leaving because of all the bullshit. So you know me, I just air it out and then duck when the shrapnel starts flying.

How I feel about it all......
https://media.giphy.com/media/s5ZhA3dyzOgDK/giphy.gif

 

[IhateClowns]

That is important shit. I bet it makes you put that whole lost job thing in perspective. I mean, threads and shit. Get your priorities right.

The one thing I love about the GB, when people are being fuckwits, they get called out. By name. And that's lovely.

Lol. Exactly. I just hate when friends who have been here a long time I leaving because they're tired of reading about it. It is so easy for people to get lost into this place. Forget that they're on a porn message board. This starts to become real life to them. Thus the jealousy kicks in. The lack of self confidence starts to show. The he said she said stuff starts happening.

I agree. At least with the GB you can see them stabbing you from the front, because they're literally saying look at me as they do it.

 

[IhateClowns]

How I feel about it all......
https://media.giphy.com/media/s5ZhA3dyzOgDK/giphy.gif

I have always said that any drama or stupid people on this board I welcome with open arms. Because you make me look better and uncoils use all the help I can get

 

[IhateClowns]

Let me be clear. I'm not saying who's fault all this is. I don't really care. I just hope it ends and soon if it hasn't already. I haven't been around much, but when I sign in and have 12 messages all saying the same thing. Then I'm going to say something. Sorry if anyone gets their feelings hurt or is offended. I don't know the whole story. I don't really care to. Just know that if you're apart of the bullshit going on, you're helping tear this place down.

Ok I'm done. Well not really. Yes I am. No wait. Maybe I'm not. Hell I could be. Who knows.