Dear Litster... (continued)

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It would probably be appropriate to tell the wife that her husband told this shameful lie about her death. I don't know, but I don't think she'd like that...

You know, if she contacts me again... I really considered it... if I had known she existed I definitely would never have sent a message after hours of radio silence! Although, I expect someone with a secret to hide to do such hiding appropriately! Geesh!

Litster,

Hopefully the alimony will kill him.

Litster

Well, he won't be a single parent anymore... if those children even really exist!

Dear Righteously annoyed,

I am so sorry this happened to you. The guy is an asshat.

I'd like to say I'm surprised but unfortunately I've seen this kind of thing all too often here.

Signed,
I wish there was a test...

Oh man, I totally wish there was a test! Let's make one!



*Thank you all for making me feel better about being angry and offering such kind words! I know there are truly great people here, it's too bad that we can't weed out the bad seeds!
 
You know, if she contacts me again... I really considered it... if I had known she existed I definitely would never have sent a message after hours of radio silence! Although, I expect someone with a secret to hide to do such hiding appropriately! Geesh!



Well, he won't be a single parent anymore... if those children even really exist!



Oh man, I totally wish there was a test! Let's make one!



*Thank you all for making me feel better about being angry and offering such kind words! I know there are truly great people here, it's too bad that we can't weed out the bad seeds!

Aside from being a sleazeball, that guy is an idiot - leaving a trail for his wife to find. I don't like cheating, and this guy, if he cheats in real life, is going to get caught for sure, and it will serve him right. Karma...
 
Despicable. I'm reading SC's post and feeling ill. That someone would make up something that horrible. People lie; I get it. On here, they can be anonymous. So what's a little white lie? You're a little taller. You weigh less. Your dick is 9 inches. Ok. But this? If you're going to lie about marital status, say you're divorced. Don't kill the mother of your children.

What's sad, aside from the fact that now his wife has seen his true colors, is that he's just ruined everything for the men here who ARE widowers. Who HAVE had such a loss, and are dealing with the aftermath. I've met several here, and now I'm thinking....hmmmmmm.... and that's not fair. To them.
 
Despicable. I'm reading SC's post and feeling ill. That someone would make up something that horrible. People lie; I get it. On here, they can be anonymous. So what's a little white lie? You're a little taller. You weigh less. Your dick is 9 inches. Ok. But this? If you're going to lie about marital status, say you're divorced. Don't kill the mother of your children.

What's sad, aside from the fact that now his wife has seen his true colors, is that he's just ruined everything for the men here who ARE widowers. Who HAVE had such a loss, and are dealing with the aftermath. I've met several here, and now I'm thinking....hmmmmmm.... and that's not fair. To them.

This.

SC, I’m sorry, and I’m sorry for his wife, too.
I’ve whittled my Lit friends down to those who can be real with me, who are there for me even “after hours”, who don’t care if they don’t see my tits. Who I can be friends with on FB, and see who they really are.
People can say anything here. People are really good liars. And it’s not fair to those men and women who are actually keeping it real.
 
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Aside from being a sleazeball, that guy is an idiot - leaving a trail for his wife to find. I don't like cheating, and this guy, if he cheats in real life, is going to get caught for sure, and it will serve him right. Karma...

I would agree 100%!

Despicable. I'm reading SC's post and feeling ill. That someone would make up something that horrible. People lie; I get it. On here, they can be anonymous. So what's a little white lie? You're a little taller. You weigh less. Your dick is 9 inches. Ok. But this? If you're going to lie about marital status, say you're divorced. Don't kill the mother of your children.

What's sad, aside from the fact that now his wife has seen his true colors, is that he's just ruined everything for the men here who ARE widowers. Who HAVE had such a loss, and are dealing with the aftermath. I've met several here, and now I'm thinking....hmmmmmm.... and that's not fair. To them.

Definitely not fair to those who really are going through this! It's really terrible to think that this is the norm for a lot of people, to lie... I totally get that some people are taller, thinner, more confident and assertive online... that's not a huge deal... we all wanna be a little different sometimes, perfect hair daily, glowing skin, I woke up like this... Sorry to all of those guys out there that seriously just want someone to chat with and those who need to chat to find some kind of sanity in the crazy emotions that come with loss!

This.

SC, I’m sorry, and I’m sorry for his wife, too.
I’ve whittled my Lit friends down to those who can be real with me, who are there for me even “after hours”, who don’t care if they don’t see my tits. Who I can be friends with on FB, and see who they really are.
People can say anything here. People are really good liars. And it’s not fair to those men and women who are actually keeping it real.

I would agree! People that can keep it real and learn to tell the truth get to know who I truly am in real life, not just the cheeky, fun, flirty personality that bounces around the threads here.. Thanks to those who do keep it real! May you all avoid the douchbaggery that seems to happen here!

Litster,

10.

Litster
Hey, no one gave me a number!
:D :D:rose:
Dear curvy,

I want a refund.

Leans left

I think she deserves that refund! Lol:kiss:
 
Dear Alt Litster

You are the epitome of all that I hate about alts.

You keep changing your name because people don't like something you've done. Unfortunately, you aren't changing the problem, which happens to be your character, something that seems to be lacking.

When I make a comnent about alts, I promise you aren't the only one I refer to, yet you're the one sending a belligerent message. You were told NOT to message me again, yet... here is another (unopened) one. Though, from all that I've seen, you're very good at bothering people that don't want your attention.

Leave my inbox alone. Take your anger issues and seek treatment. You know... you remind me of that other nutjob.

A Slightly Annoyed Princess
'Cos you aren't worth the effort of being pissed :rolleyes:

Dear Caught Up Litster,
Where does one even find the words to begin this? I'm so angry that as I tried to write this post before, it came out in a string of explicit words. That's not the person I want to be. How could you lie about such a thing? To have an elaborate back story... I'm usually an understanding person but this time I've been pushed too far.

If that truly was your wife who replied to my kik, shame on you. The fact that you have a wife wouldn't have bothered me, most people here have a SO... I was just appalled that she came back from the dead! Or maybe it's more plausible that she never was dead! That poor woman, I feel for her. I'm just flabbergasted that when she 'died' it was to a very life destroying disease that holds a close meaning to me. Cancer is not something to be joked about! That's my fault for not digging deeper into those facts but, yours for being the asshole who made up the story!

To portray yourself as a single parent, that's just as bad. I almost feel mocked. I poured my heart into each and every conversation and this is what becomes of it? I considered you a close friend. Obviously I was misinformed.

Tell your lovely wife that we here on Lit say hello and please stay away from my kik!

Thanks,
Fatalistic and annoyed Litster

Jezuz tapdancing Christ! Can you assholes please not fuck this up for the rest of us? Or are you such miserable shit stains IRL that you have to spread your pestilence in here too? I'll be generous, and say that 99% of the people here are decent (kinky and perverted, but decent) people, but that 1% that are the scum of the earth just have to ruin it for everyone. And some of you fuckers just keep doing it; a new name, a new profile, and yet the same shitty douchy behavior. Please, for the love of all that's kinky, STOP! Go the fuck away, or at least go bother the a-holes on the GB. And for gods sake, leave these ladies alone, they certainly don't deserve the amount of bullshit you are slinging! :mad::mad:

Rant over; I need an Excedrine...
 
Dear SC, everyone else said it better.
:\ What to say? Sorry you encountered that. Unbelievable.


This.

People can say anything here. People are really good liars. And it’s not fair to those men and women who are actually keeping it real.


Part of this sticks with me, People can say anything here... which means they can themselves. They can share things here that they wouldn't share elsewhere, in a pretty judgement free zone. Why not just be who you ARE? The idea of being able to just be myself is one of the attractions here.

Hope the rest of your time here is free of that kind of douchebaggery.

~Just Tink with all her own flaws
 
Dear Anyone Who Gives a Hoot,

I've always hated alts, too. Then again, I've only experienced them when someone was trying to deceive others. When their purpose was to use or to hurt. I've learned that's not always the case.

I'm an alt. I have been here a long time as VT. That name hasn't suited me in years. At this point, it's also associated with much that I can't or dont want to deal with. Forgive me for using a public space to out myself, but trying to tell people one on one is tiresome and feels sneaky. I'm not hiding. I'm not trying to be tricky. I'm also not a vicious tease. I'm just starting over and leaving the BS behind.

Signed,
Figured a discussion on asshat alts was a good time to out myself Litster
 
Dear Anyone Who Gives a Hoot,

I've always hated alts, too. Then again, I've only experienced them when someone was trying to deceive others. When their purpose was to use or to hurt. I've learned that's not always the case.

I'm an alt. I have been here a long time as VT. That name hasn't suited me in years. At this point, it's also associated with much that I can't or dont want to deal with. Forgive me for using a public space to out myself, but trying to tell people one on one is tiresome and feels sneaky. I'm not hiding. I'm not trying to be tricky. I'm also not a vicious tease. I'm just starting over and leaving the BS behind.

Signed,
Figured a discussion on asshat alts was a good time to out myself Litster

(((Hugs))) I, for one, am thrilled to see you.

It's not the alts starting over, I understand that.
It's the one's using both alts, and it's to deceive. To get more ladies to write you, etc. We won't even talk about guys pretending to be ladies. :rose:
 
Dear Anyone Who Gives a Hoot,

I've always hated alts, too. Then again, I've only experienced them when someone was trying to deceive others. When their purpose was to use or to hurt. I've learned that's not always the case.

I'm an alt. I have been here a long time as VT. That name hasn't suited me in years. At this point, it's also associated with much that I can't or dont want to deal with. Forgive me for using a public space to out myself, but trying to tell people one on one is tiresome and feels sneaky. I'm not hiding. I'm not trying to be tricky. I'm also not a vicious tease. I'm just starting over and leaving the BS behind.

Signed,
Figured a discussion on asshat alts was a good time to out myself Litster

:) Hi. I love your AV better than the other one.
 
Dear Anyone Who Gives a Hoot,

I've always hated alts, too. Then again, I've only experienced them when someone was trying to deceive others. When their purpose was to use or to hurt. I've learned that's not always the case.

I'm an alt. I have been here a long time as VT. That name hasn't suited me in years. At this point, it's also associated with much that I can't or dont want to deal with. Forgive me for using a public space to out myself, but trying to tell people one on one is tiresome and feels sneaky. I'm not hiding. I'm not trying to be tricky. I'm also not a vicious tease. I'm just starting over and leaving the BS behind.

Signed,
Figured a discussion on asshat alts was a good time to out myself Litster

Welcome back :):rose:

Signed,
Woodsy Owl
 
Dear Anyone Who Gives a Hoot,

I've always hated alts, too. Then again, I've only experienced them when someone was trying to deceive others. When their purpose was to use or to hurt. I've learned that's not always the case.

I'm an alt. I have been here a long time as VT. That name hasn't suited me in years. At this point, it's also associated with much that I can't or dont want to deal with. Forgive me for using a public space to out myself, but trying to tell people one on one is tiresome and feels sneaky. I'm not hiding. I'm not trying to be tricky. I'm also not a vicious tease. I'm just starting over and leaving the BS behind.

Signed,
Figured a discussion on asshat alts was a good time to out myself Litster

((((Hugs)))) so happy to see you!
I agree with Tink, I like this AV better too.
But also this....:p
LoL :rose:
 
Dear Folks,

Thank you. Thank you for reminding me the reason I stick around and the reason why I like hanging out on here.
Thank you for thinking what I was when i read these things and feeling the anger that began t quell until others stepped up and said what I wanted to say. There are many decent kind people on here and sometimes they get overshadowed by the asshats and deceivers and shit-stirrers who make more noise.

You made me smile early on my Saturday morning and for that I am grateful. :)

Smiling Blue One.
 
Dear Anyone Who Gives a Hoot,

I've always hated alts, too. Then again, I've only experienced them when someone was trying to deceive others. When their purpose was to use or to hurt. I've learned that's not always the case.

I'm an alt. I have been here a long time as VT. That name hasn't suited me in years. At this point, it's also associated with much that I can't or dont want to deal with. Forgive me for using a public space to out myself, but trying to tell people one on one is tiresome and feels sneaky. I'm not hiding. I'm not trying to be tricky. I'm also not a vicious tease. I'm just starting over and leaving the BS behind.

Signed,
Figured a discussion on asshat alts was a good time to out myself Litster

*hugs*
Everyone deserves to be happy.
Missed you.
 
Sorry...

Im just kind over the Alt talk...Someone hiccups and they are accused of having an alt...A very kind Litster was hassled for years of having multiple alts...I never believed it despite the bandwagon of naysayers...and Im so glad I was right...I actually saw live 2 of the particilar alts...and they were NOT the same persons...SMH...

Maybe Im sensitive to this topic because Ive been accused of having alts too...which I dont have...it used to bother me but I can honestly now say...I JUST DONT GIVE A FUCK...

:heart::heart::heart:
 
Dear Anyone Who Gives a Hoot,

I've always hated alts, too. Then again, I've only experienced them when someone was trying to deceive others. When their purpose was to use or to hurt. I've learned that's not always the case.

I'm an alt. I have been here a long time as VT. That name hasn't suited me in years. At this point, it's also associated with much that I can't or dont want to deal with. Forgive me for using a public space to out myself, but trying to tell people one on one is tiresome and feels sneaky. I'm not hiding. I'm not trying to be tricky. I'm also not a vicious tease. I'm just starting over and leaving the BS behind.

Signed,
Figured a discussion on asshat alts was a good time to out myself Litster


Like the others, so so happy to know that you're here, and that you're ok. :rose:
 
Dear Anyone Who Gives a Hoot,

I've always hated alts, too. Then again, I've only experienced them when someone was trying to deceive others. When their purpose was to use or to hurt. I've learned that's not always the case.

I'm an alt. I have been here a long time as VT. That name hasn't suited me in years. At this point, it's also associated with much that I can't or dont want to deal with. Forgive me for using a public space to out myself, but trying to tell people one on one is tiresome and feels sneaky. I'm not hiding. I'm not trying to be tricky. I'm also not a vicious tease. I'm just starting over and leaving the BS behind.

Signed,
Figured a discussion on asshat alts was a good time to out myself Litster

Sick of the internet police who think they can randomly tell others how they are supposed to act. You want to leave the BS behind and feel a new ID represents you better, knock your socks off. Would rather you be around than gone. :rose:
 
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