Dear Litster... (continued)

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Dear Litsters,

I feel compelled to write this after reflecting on some of the pm's I've had this past week or two. I'm grateful for the offers of friendship, and for the offers of being listened to if I want to talk about the recent problems I've alluded to experiencing.

I think I might have offended, or hurt the feelings, of a few people here by refusing this friendly support. I have tried to explain it - but maybe I don't say it well. So, let me try again...

I do not talk about my innermost feelings, or worries, or concerns, or even my life problems, easily. This isn't a reflection on you in any way. I know internalising is bad, blah blah blah, but I know me. I know my limits, and I have my coping strategies. I'm sorry if you're not one of the very, very few people I will open up to. I do have those people, but geez, typing the same lines over and over again to "talk" about them with different people is not a helpful strategy for me.

Please don't worry about me. I ride my rollercoaster of life pretty damned well. I rarely ever throw up.

I'm dubious to post or share anything "real" here on Lit if all I'm doing is ending up feeling crap because I don't explain anything beyond "it's turning into a shit week atm".

If you want to be a friend, then be here to laugh and distract me. Not make me feel bad for not telling you why it's a shit week.

Finally, this is NOT aimed at one particular person. I know you all meant well, and I thank you for that. But please, believe me when I say that I've got this.

Now, if you really want to be my friends, and know that you're making a positive impact on my life, then goddammit - send me your cocks! It's coming up Christmas so a cock tied in a nice red ribbon wouldn't go amiss! Or your balls dipped in gold glitter. A penis puppet show? Make it dance to 'White Christmas' (;))? :cool:

Sincerely,

Twitchy
 
Dear Litsters,

I feel compelled to write this after reflecting on some of the pm's I've had this past week or two. I'm grateful for the offers of friendship, and for the offers of being listened to if I want to talk about the recent problems I've alluded to experiencing.

I think I might have offended, or hurt the feelings, of a few people here by refusing this friendly support. I have tried to explain it - but maybe I don't say it well. So, let me try again...

I do not talk about my innermost feelings, or worries, or concerns, or even my life problems, easily. This isn't a reflection on you in any way. I know internalising is bad, blah blah blah, but I know me. I know my limits, and I have my coping strategies. I'm sorry if you're not one of the very, very few people I will open up to. I do have those people, but geez, typing the same lines over and over again to "talk" about them with different people is not a helpful strategy for me.

Please don't worry about me. I ride my rollercoaster of life pretty damned well. I rarely ever throw up.

I'm dubious to post or share anything "real" here on Lit if all I'm doing is ending up feeling crap because I don't explain anything beyond "it's turning into a shit week atm".

If you want to be a friend, then be here to laugh and distract me. Not make me feel bad for not telling you why it's a shit week.

Finally, this is NOT aimed at one particular person. I know you all meant well, and I thank you for that. But please, believe me when I say that I've got this.

Now, if you really want to be my friends, and know that you're making a positive impact on my life, then goddammit - send me your cocks! It's coming up Christmas so a cock tied in a nice red ribbon wouldn't go amiss! Or your balls dipped in gold glitter. A penis puppet show? Make it dance to 'White Christmas' (;))? :cool:

Sincerely,

Twitchy

Dear Litster,

:kiss:

Look at my profile picture. I've posted my cock wrapped in a red ribbon.

Signed.

Awesome.
 
Dear Litster,

:kiss:

Look at my profile picture. I've posted my cock wrapped in a red ribbon.

Signed.

Awesome.

Dear Awesome,

Not what I meant and you know it. I hate you for making me look and getting excited for a moment. :eek:

Signed

Dry
 
Dear Dry

You've seen my cock before though and threatened to chop it off if I showed it you again.

Signed

Awesome

Dear Awesome,

I never saw Christmas Cock.

Only weeping cock, hidden cock, worried cock, angry cock, drunk cock and what I think was excited cock - but that looked a lot like petrified cock, so I'm not entirely sure. I promise to keep my cleaver hidden behind my back... :rolleyes:

Signed

Dry but sharpening... uhm, for the veggies, of course...
 
Dear Awesome,

I never saw Christmas Cock.

Only weeping cock, hidden cock, worried cock, angry cock, drunk cock and what I think was excited cock - but that looked a lot like petrified cock, so I'm not entirely sure. I promise to keep my cleaver hidden behind my back... :rolleyes:

Signed

Dry but sharpening... uhm, for the veggies, of course...

Dear Dry but Sharpening.

You scare me.

Awesome 'Petrified Cock' Litster.
 
Dear intriguing Lister,

I think I made a great call when I sent you that private message out of nowhere, now I am quite fascinated and I want to know more about you :)

Signed,

Intrigued Litster
 
Dear keeping me warm litster,

Thank you for keeping me company, and helping me pass the time while I sat outside all day.

I hope to return the favor, however I hope you don't spend eight and a half hours outside just to do it.

🤗🤗🤗 thinking about you

Frozen and scared of the dark litster
 
Dear keeping me warm litster,

Thank you for keeping me company, and helping me pass the time while I sat outside all day.

I hope to return the favor, however I hope you don't spend eight and a half hours outside just to do it.

🤗🤗🤗 thinking about you

Frozen and scared of the dark litster

*hugs*
I wasn't who this referred to, but I am still here. *hugs a bit tighter*
 
You make my cheeks hurt

Dear handsome litster,

You made me smile today, thank you for that. Our conversations are precious to me, may they never cease❤️

Chilly Michigan Litster
 
Dear Lister,

Thank you for making me laugh
Thank you for being my friend
You always think of me
I'll think of you, 'til the end
 
Dear Sleepy Litster,

I love that you can see me
in my words
in my work

means the world to me.

Another sleepy litster. :heart:
 
Dear chauvinistic Litster,

Amongst the first words you said to me was the term ‘slut’, in a manner that no person should ever be subjected to.

I need you to know something.

If by ‘slut’ you mean that I embrace my sexuality as a woman, then yes I am. And I wear that title proudly. Because my sexuality is part of who I am. And I would never deny it, as I would any other aspect of myself. And in doing so, I harbour a feminine strength that I doubt you’d ever be able to comprehend, let alone handle. For you see, in a world dominated by people who think like you, the term ‘slut’ has been misconstrued to mean something that is weak, dirty, and wrong. And it takes a truly beautiful, courageous, and determined person to live a truth that defies such a socially accepted view. What more, it takes a truly remarkable man to understand this, to see this, to live this, and to have this.

I need you to know that you and your point of view have no bearing on who I am and how I express my sexuality. I need you to know that your attempt to ‘dominate’ me or belittle me failed miserably. And I need you to know that your words and actions only proved your own weakness, and not your perceived one of my own being.

- A Litster Who Embraces Her Sexuality
 
Dear chauvinistic Litster,

Amongst the first words you said to me was the term ‘slut’, in a manner that no person should ever be subjected to.

I need you to know something.

If by ‘slut’ you mean that I embrace my sexuality as a woman, then yes I am. And I wear that title proudly. Because my sexuality is part of who I am. And I would never deny it, as I would any other aspect of myself. And in doing so, I harbour a feminine strength that I doubt you’d ever be able to comprehend, let alone handle. For you see, in a world dominated by people who think like you, the term ‘slut’ has been misconstrued to mean something that is weak, dirty, and wrong. And it takes a truly beautiful, courageous, and determined person to live a truth that defies such a socially accepted view. What more, it takes a truly remarkable man to understand this, to see this, to live this, and to have this.

I need you to know that you and your point of view have no bearing on who I am and how I express my sexuality. I need you to know that your attempt to ‘dominate’ me or belittle me failed miserably. And I need you to know that your words and actions only proved your own weakness, and not your perceived one of my own being.

- A Litster Who Embraces Her Sexuality

To the lister who called her a slut.


https://logicalpoint.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/douchebag.jpeg
 
Dear All My Litster friends.

And holy shit there's a lot of you apparently. I got a ton of PM's that "last day" back in August. It's gonna take a while to dig through them and reply, but I will.

I appreciate it. You're all the best and it has always meant a lot to me.

I'm back! Did ya miss me?
I brought my pencil...gimme somethin' to write on!

Signed,
It's been a busy fall.

(“If I ever go looking for my heart's desire again, I won't look any further than my own back yard. Because if it isn't there, I never really lost it to begin with.”)
 
Dear All My Litster friends.

And holy shit there's a lot of you apparently. I got a ton of PM's that "last day" back in August. It's gonna take a while to dig through them and reply, but I will.

I appreciate it. You're all the best and it has always meant a lot to me.

I'm back! Did ya miss me?
I brought my pencil...gimme somethin' to write on!

Signed,
It's been a busy fall.

(“If I ever go looking for my heart's desire again, I won't look any further than my own back yard. Because if it isn't there, I never really lost it to begin with.”)

*hugs* good to see you!! :kiss:
 
Dear Special Litsters,

Thank you for the messages, everyone of them means a lot. Yesterday was a hell of a day but I managed to salvage moments of happiness from the closing stages of it so it wasn't all bad.

Hungover and Sleepy Litster.
 
Dear Lister

Don't be afraid to be yourself
Post where you want to
Reply when you need to
PM when you have to
 
Dear Productive Litster,
This being responsible stuff is for the birds.
Wish we were on a treasure hunt somewhere.

~Lil bit overscheduled Litster
 
Dear Litster in the mirror,
You've been focusing to much on the negative. There are jerks on here but there are a lot more who are pretty awesome. Keep your eyes on them.
 
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