Dear Litster... (continued)

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Dear Litster,

Some of your aspirations tend to be pretty unrealistic. You have a great need for other people to like and admire you. You have a great deal of unused capacity which you have not turned to your advantage. You have a tendency to be critical of yourself. At times you have serious doubts as to whether you have made the right decision or done the right thing. At times you are extroverted, affable, sociable, while at other times you are introverted, wary, reserved. You have found it unwise to be too frank in revealing yourself to others.

You can find the rest here. :D

P. T. Barnum Litster
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Ha! :D:D
 
Dear Litster,

Some of your aspirations tend to be pretty unrealistic. You have a great need for other people to like and admire you. You have a great deal of unused capacity which you have not turned to your advantage. You have a tendency to be critical of yourself. At times you have serious doubts as to whether you have made the right decision or done the right thing. At times you are extroverted, affable, sociable, while at other times you are introverted, wary, reserved. You have found it unwise to be too frank in revealing yourself to others.

You can find the rest here. :D

P. T. Barnum Litster
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I was gullible enough to go to the link. I figured it couldn't be any worse that what LittleSister would put up! ;)


Thanks for the laugh!!!
 
Dear Litster,

I miss you. I find myself back here again, because the gap where you were is bloody hard to deal with sometimes. I don't want to pine or take my frustrations out on other people. But mostly, I don't want to feel like this any more. I would once have said that I'd rather have some of you than none of you. I think I've changed my mind, and if I knew at the start when you said hi that I'd be feeling so twisted inside, I wouldn't have let our pm's go any further.

I simply don't understand why. Why pursue me so eagerly, breaking down my barriers one by one until I let you in, until I am craving you, for you to then to seem to back away, become less accessible? I hate the thought that maybe I was just a game to you.

Finding-it-difficult-to-have-the-courage-to-try-again Litster.
 
Dear Litster,

I miss you. I find myself back here again, because the gap where you were is bloody hard to deal with sometimes. I don't want to pine or take my frustrations out on other people. But mostly, I don't want to feel like this any more. I would once have said that I'd rather have some of you than none of you. I think I've changed my mind, and if I knew at the start when you said hi that I'd be feeling so twisted inside, I wouldn't have let our pm's go any further.

I simply don't understand why. Why pursue me so eagerly, breaking down my barriers one by one until I let you in, until I am craving you, for you to then to seem to back away, become less accessible? I hate the thought that maybe I was just a game to you.

Finding-it-difficult-to-have-the-courage-to-try-again Litster.

Dear litster...
Hugs..
Been there...
Done that..
Never tried on the t shirt again :(
 
Dear Litsters,

This has been a journey that opened my eyes to much about myself. And more to the world around me, sheltered at times as I have been, willfully or otherwise.

I am grateful for the people I have met here. The friendships I have made. The smiles and, at times, tears. All part of the same journey. Happiness and fulfillment can not exist without sadness...or longing...or unfulfilled desire.

But it is time for me to start a new chapter. My lurking days are done.

Those of you whom I care about, I'm still reachable. Just not here.

For the rest, I leave with this (forgive this last self-indulgence):

The Road goes ever on and on
Down from the door where it began.
Now far ahead the Road has gone,
And I must follow, if I can,
Pursuing it with eager feet,
Until it joins some larger way,
Where many paths and errands meet.


Until the Road rises up to meet us again,

A not-so-Lurking, forever-searching Litster
 
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Dear Litsters,

This has been a journey that opened my eyes to much about myself. And more to the world around me, sheltered at times as I have been, willfully or otherwise.

I am grateful for the people I have met here. The friendships I have made. The smiles and, at times, tears. All part of the same journey. Happiness and fulfillment can not exist without sadness...or longing...or unfulfilled desire.

But it is time for me to start a new chapter. My lurking days are done.

Those of you whom I care about, I'm still reachable. Just not here.

For the rest, I leave with this (forgive this last self-indulgence):

The Road goes ever on and on
Down from the door where it began.
Now far ahead the Road has gone,
And I must follow, if I can,
Pursuing it with eager feet,
Until it joins some larger way,
Where many paths and errands meet.


Until the Road rises up to meet us again,

A not-so-Lurking, forever-searching Litster

Dear lurking man,

This makes me sad. That is all. 😭

Wishing you all the happiness you deserve 💋
 
Dear Litster,

I miss you. I find myself back here again, because the gap where you were is bloody hard to deal with sometimes. I don't want to pine or take my frustrations out on other people. But mostly, I don't want to feel like this any more. I would once have said that I'd rather have some of you than none of you. I think I've changed my mind, and if I knew at the start when you said hi that I'd be feeling so twisted inside, I wouldn't have let our pm's go any further.

I simply don't understand why. Why pursue me so eagerly, breaking down my barriers one by one until I let you in, until I am craving you, for you to then to seem to back away, become less accessible? I hate the thought that maybe I was just a game to you.

Finding-it-difficult-to-have-the-courage-to-try-again Litster.

This happens all so often. The chase. The game. There's always a winner and a loser.

This too shall pass and you will trust again. Just a lil less. Your heart will mend bit a small tear will never grow back.

The road we follow has many twists and turns. I wish I could have made a different turn myself. But damn it if I made it this far I'll find a better road and so will you.
 
Dear Random Thought(ful) Litster,

I know I already said so in my response but thank you for thinking about me during the memorial day weekend. It was a nice surprise to come back to such a sweet message from you and knowing you were thinking about me. You're a Prince. :heart:

Signed, Smiling Litster. :cattail:
 
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This happens all so often. The chase. The game. There's always a winner and a loser.

This too shall pass and you will trust again. Just a lil less. Your heart will mend bit a small tear will never grow back.

The road we follow has many twists and turns. I wish I could have made a different turn myself. But damn it if I made it this far I'll find a better road and so will you.

I don't think you get winners and losers, we all learn from relationships and they shape us and make us what we are, unfortunately nothing comes for free, so as long as we come away wiser and stronger we have won too.
 
I don't think you get winners and losers, we all learn from relationships and they shape us and make us what we are, unfortunately nothing comes for free, so as long as we come away wiser and stronger we have won too.

You are so right. Nothing comes for free.

If we get wisdom from our pain... well, that'll be something. :rose:
 
Dear Litsters,

For those lurking, stop and join in on the fun. For those that stick to your 5 people you talk to every day, stop and get to know others. For those that stick to only certain threads, post in others so people get the opportunity to see you in a different light.

I am not sure why everyone else comes to this place, but what keeps bringing ,e back is getting to know people. What makes me start silly threads like the ones I do is to promote banter.

There are a lot of people on here that I have never spoken to or posted with, especially since my hiatus. Unfortunately some of the same reasons why I left still ring true.

Not everyone is going to like everyone. Hopefully though we can see this place for what it is, don't take it so seriously and just have fun.

I challenge each of you to post something to someone you have never posted with before. Just say hi and see where it goes from there.

Tonight I posted with Eva, someone I hardly know at all. Now I have a better sense of what type of person she is. We all have our close friends and confidants, but there are a lot of good people that are around this place. Just step out of your comfort zone and try to get to know them.

Signed,

Miss the good ole' days where everyone sort of knew everyone
 
Dear Litsters,

For those lurking, stop and join in on the fun. For those that stick to your 5 people you talk to every day, stop and get to know others. For those that stick to only certain threads, post in others so people get the opportunity to see you in a different light.

I am not sure why everyone else comes to this place, but what keeps bringing ,e back is getting to know people. What makes me start silly threads like the ones I do is to promote banter.

There are a lot of people on here that I have never spoken to or posted with, especially since my hiatus. Unfortunately some of the same reasons why I left still ring true.

Not everyone is going to like everyone. Hopefully though we can see this place for what it is, don't take it so seriously and just have fun.

I challenge each of you to post something to someone you have never posted with before. Just say hi and see where it goes from there.

Tonight I posted with Eva, someone I hardly know at all. Now I have a better sense of what type of person she is. We all have our close friends and confidants, but there are a lot of good people that are around this place. Just step out of your comfort zone and try to get to know them.

Signed,

Miss the good ole' days where everyone sort of knew everyone

I declare immunity from this on the grounds that I am alive and have actually exchanged at least six posts with Corbal. :)
 
Dear Thoughtful Litster,

The way you care about me is awesome and is reciprocated xx

Grateful Litster
 
Dear amazing BCC Litster...

Our friendship is a new gift I will always treasure...not many people get me...or genuinely love me "as is"...

Ty for that...loving me...warts and all...very rare and few love thru those warts...

Cherish you...enjoy your Lit break...love u:heart:
 
Dear Litster Who Was Once Feeling Something But Probably Isn't Right At This Moment-

How was your trip? You never call, you never write. I see you have new friends.

Oh, you changed your AV? It suits you. I'm sorry/happy you posted you were sad/happy/heartbroken/excited/trepidacious/confident, you deserve to/shouldn't be.

Hopefully things get better/keep being awesome, and you get what you want/jettison the shit.

I miss our long talks/long periods of silence. Hope you are well/not well.

Yes, this is for you.

J-
 
Dear amazing BCC Litster...

Our friendship is a new gift I will always treasure...not many people get me...or genuinely love me "as is"...

Ty for that...loving me...warts and all...very rare and few love thru those warts...

Cherish you...enjoy your Lit break...love u:heart:

Dear amazing litster,

You are perfect the way you are, don't change for anyone. 💜💜

Sincerely,

Loves your warts litster
 
Dear Listers,

I have some questions and some statements and they may be entertwined. So where are the bathrooms at this joint? Who selected the alcohol list and why the poor selection of vodka and tequila? You know I like both, usually in the same glass. I rarely wear underwear and when I do it's something unusual. People don't have toga parties nearly often enough. In fact, the next dinner party I host will have togas as the required attire. Who are the unofficial king and Queen of Lit? What is 2.5 times 2.5, no calculators are allowed. The word whilst should be a part of our English in the US and not limited to the UK. Our forefathers really missed the boat on that one. When I think about how cold it is in northern North Dakota, I remind myself that it's still south of Canada. And lastly, 95% of everything I post is not serious. Maybe 98%. If you ever catch me being serious please smack me back into my place.

Sincerely,
HWW

PS I am serious in PMs, YIM, emails and other various IMs. Those of you who know me should have realized that already. I can't think of a time where I said "fuck me baby" and I wasn't being serious.
 
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Dear Listers,

I have some questions and some statements and they may be entertwined. So where are the bathrooms at this joint? Who selected the alcohol list and why the poor selection of vodka and tequila? You know I like both, usually in the same glass. I rarely wear underwear and when I do it's something unusual. People don't have toga parties nearly often enough. In fact, the next dinner party I host will have togas as the required attire. Who are the unofficial king and Queen of Lit? What is 2.5 times 2.5, no calculators are allowed. The word whilst should be a part of our English in the US and not limited to the UK. Our forefathers really missed the boat on that one. When I think about how cold it is in northern North Dakota, I remind myself that it's still south of Canada. And lastly, 95% of everything I post is not serious. Maybe 98%. If you ever catch me being serious please smack me back into my place.

Sincerely,
HWW

PS I am serious in PMs, YIM, emails and other various IMs. Those of you who know me should have realized that already. I can't think of a time where I said "fuck me baby" and I wasn't being serious.

Dear Weiner Litster,

I read your missive whilst having tea in the garden and found it amusing.

I'm not sure I have all the answers for you but I can try to help clear up a few things. First of all, all the bathrooms were moved to the General Board because everyone on the Playground knows they need it more than we do. That's a nice way of saying they're full of.... information. :rolleyes:

The alcohol list was provided by a former user by the name of "Anonymous". His profile said there were ten steps to drinking and, if we could make it through the list and still desire a drink, to see a guy called "HairoftheDog86". If I recall correctly, the list included Night Train and Everclear mixed with orange Kool-Aid.

There are no kings and queens here... well, maybe queens... because not everyone likes everyone else and .. well, it just is.

Sincerely,
Not a big help after all
 
Dear Weiner Litster,

I read your missive whilst having tea in the garden and found it amusing.

I'm not sure I have all the answers for you but I can try to help clear up a few things. First of all, all the bathrooms were moved to the General Board because everyone on the Playground knows they need it more than we do. That's a nice way of saying they're full of.... information. :rolleyes:

The alcohol list was provided by a former user by the name of "Anonymous". His profile said there were ten steps to drinking and, if we could make it through the list and still desire a drink, to see a guy called "HairoftheDog86". If I recall correctly, the list included Night Train and Everclear mixed with orange Kool-Aid.

There are no kings and queens here... well, maybe queens... because not everyone likes everyone else and .. well, it just is.

Sincerely,
Not a big help after all

Thank you BFG. You have been most helpful. Perhaps I should send you a pm so we can get to know each other better. You seem to know a lot about this place.
 
Thank you BFG. You have been most helpful. Perhaps I should send you a pm so we can get to know each other better. You seem to know a lot about this place.

I think I know where they keep the better vodka and tequila. It's usually on the top shelf...but, I wouldn't know. I'm too short to even see the dust on the refrigerator. ;)
 
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