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LYNN, Massachusetts (AP) -- Adrian Exley was wrapped tightly in heavy plastic, then bound with duct tape. A leather hood was put over his head with a thin plastic straw inserted so that he could breathe, and he was shut up in a closet.
That, apparently, was the way Exley liked it. But the way it ended -- with Exley suffocating -- was not what he had in mind when he traveled from Britain for a bondage session with a man he had met through a sadomasochism Web site.
Exley's body was discovered in the woods last year, two months after he was bound up in the bondage "playroom" Gary LeBlanc had built in the basement of his suburban Boston home.
LeBlanc, a 48-year-old Gulf Oil sales executive, detailed his responsibility in the fatal bondage session in a five-page suicide note, just before he put a gun to his head and killed himself.
Now the question is: Since Exley consented to the sex play, can LeBlanc be held responsible for his death?
Exley's family is suing LeBlanc's estate for unspecified damages, claiming wrongful death. Many bondage enthusiasts are watching the case closely, seeing it as a lesson in where to draw the line of responsibility on consensual but dangerous sex.
"There's definitely the whole spectrum of thought on what really happened -- whether it was a consent issue, or negligence or misunderstanding," said Vivienne Kramer, a board member of the New England Leather Alliance. "Everybody has their own ideas on what should have happened."
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It's good to see that the speaker for the NE Leather Alliance is spineless. Yeah, everyone has their own ideas on what should have happened -- and everyone agrees Adrian should be alive right now. The idea that consent has anything to do with this is utter bullshit, since when is consenting to bondage the same as consenting to being suffocated to death and having your naked body tossed into the woods?
Given that LeBlanc has already killed himself, I'm not certain what Adrian's mother wants with his estate. Maybe she wants to piss on his house and torch it to the ground. As no surviving family is named, I say give it to her, and I hope LeBlanc enjoys a brief stint in hell.