daughter??

[Cath!]

Why do all of your questions sound so serious and in-depth? Why do they give me the feeling that you are doing research of some kind?

Personally, I don't mind if that is what you are doing...but just be upfront about it. I really don't know how anyone else feels. But I DO know, that after you bit of my hand in your first question thread...I won't be answering any more of them.

And smile once in awhile!

 

[u2slow13]

ummm, she appears to a very articulate woman which I guess is not becoming of you. And I'm sure that no matter what name you used, you wouldn't be missed.

 

[daughter]

So I am dry

I haven't criticized the type of threads here. Why is serious and in-depth topics suspect? Are they unwelcomed here? You'll have to tell us why you think I'm doing research. If someone isn't yucking it up, she's a reseacher? I cam here for adult conversation. I'm not looking to flirt nor get laid so I won't post those kinds of threads. I don't post jokes. So maybe, I am dry. I am also honest and candid.

Unless you are using another name, I don't recall responding to you. If I were harsh, it was not intentional. If I had known you were offended, I would have apologized.

I am serious. I'm also sensitive. How would you like someone questioning your presence and disposition? I try not to do that to folks.

Peace,

daughter

 

[YogiBare]

daughter

I'm serious too. I love your posts and thread topics and think that you're a great new voice to the Lit boards.

I also really like that you end your posts with "peace".

 

[StondTmplPilot]

ummm, she appears to a very articulate woman which I guess is not becoming of you. And I'm sure that no matter what name you used, you wouldn't be missed.

If you mean Cath! here, I would miss her. Daughter does seem to be very serious, and there is nothing wrong with that. But us guys, we just loooove to flirt, and many women do too, I guess it kinda throws us a little when someone comes in with something to actually say right away.

 

[u2slow13]

first time I've agreed with yogi, if I had a hat I'd tip it too you.

 

[mig]

Daughter

I think that, given the sort of threads you post and that very
imposing av,you overawe people somewhat.

Just a little lightness to redress the balance would not go amiss.

If not,I'll still continue to read your posts with great interest.

 

[perks]

daughter....rock on sugah.

I know where to go when I need to work my mind a bit...and always appreciate it when I do. If I want to fuck around and play a bit...or alot...I know where to go too. It takes all kinds...if everyone were exactly the same.....god I'd be bored ta shit. Don't fuckin' worry about it....and fuck em if they can't take a ....lol.....you thought I was gonna say joke...but in this case...fuck em if they cant' be serious once in awhile. believe me, there is plenty of space in the deep end of the pool.

hey here's a thought.....let everyone post what they want........oh wait....that was the rule.....fuck,
perky

 

[Summery]

I don't mind serious or flirtatious threads. It's nice to have a mix of both. I tend to stay away from the more serious ones....that is my choice.
I like to flirt here and at times can be blunt with my comments. And the ones that have taken time to get to know me, know it is all in fun for me. I'm not looking to get laid! I can do that in my RL.
I feel the need I guess to defend both ends of the spectrum and think both should be respected for what they represent.
If I don't like certain threads, I don't post to them. If I don't have any input for a certain thread, I don't post to them either.
I'm not here to stand in judgement of anyone else.
Does this make sense to anyone else?

*Edited* I welcome daughter's threads....just as much as I enjoy posting to a lot of Cath!'s old personas threads.

 

[daughter]

please read

Folks--

I just got here. Not my style to come in yuckin' it up, but I do.

Stond, hope you won't feel too uncomfortable too long. My s/o think I'm a wuss. I'm serious, but I don't bite.

Flirtin' is cool, but since I'm just stupid over my guy, and the fact he reads here, sista won't be flirtin'. Wanna seen me get mean? Let a brotha cut off the nookie cause daughter was chattin' awfully friendly with a fella.

Here's a slice of me when I'm silly:

it's an urban thang

boy
yah gat me turnin' my head
lickin' my lips
gaspin' for air
feelin' that uncontrollable
twitch in the hips

boy
can't stop
lookin' at yah
thinkin' of yah
walkin' your way

lawd
whatever you're doin'
to me
boy keep givin' it
to me
swingin' it
in your sexy way
oooh wheeeeee!!!
pleaseeeee
keep bringin' it
it my way!!!

oooh, boy
whatcha tryin' ta do ta me?

---<--<-@

harlequin: sista style

babe nothing quite as satisfying
as my head buried in your armpit
my shoulder falling asleep
inhaling our funk

stepping over strewn jeans
and empty video cases
eating cookies
made just because

swishing dish water
captured on film
so later you can watch
your honey doing
household chores
in your denim shirt

serving lunch by candlelight
toasted bagettes with
hummus and cherry tomatoes
nothing quite like
love

 

[perks]

I don't mind serious or flirtatious threads. It's nice to have a mix of both. I tend to stay away from the more serious ones....that is my choice.
I like to flirt here and at times can be blunt with my comments. And the ones that have taken time to get to know me, know it is all in fun for me. I'm not looking to get laid! I can do that in my RL.
I feel the need I guess to defend both ends of the spectrum and think both should be respected for what they represent.
If I don't like certain threads, I don't post to them. If I don't have any input for a certain thread, I don't post to them either.
I'm not here to stand in judgement of anyone else.
Does this make sense to anyone else?

It sure does sugah.....I'm right there with ya.
perky

 

[daughter]

gurl....

perky_baby--

Good to know you got my back. LOL

Lawd knows, you know what's up. We couldn't stop laughin' !Gonna have to holla at you soon. If I get too relaxed, folks will start asking for translation. *smiles*

Peace,

daughter

 

[xzchief]

Re: So I am dry

I haven't criticized the type of threads here. Why is serious and in-depth topics suspect? Are they unwelcomed here? You'll have to tell us why you think I'm doing research. If someone isn't yucking it up, she's a reseacher? I cam here for adult conversation. I'm not looking to flirt nor get laid so I won't post those kinds of threads. I don't post jokes. So maybe, I am dry. I am also honest and candid.

In-depth topics are, in general, suspect here. While there are certainly some exceptions, people here usually want to blow off steam instead of entering philosophical discussions. Just check the post and views totals for each thread.

In fact, the question "Why are you at Lit?" was posted recently. The consensus was that it's a place to relax and have a good time. I write about politics. I do research. I am, by nature, rather dry. Here, I play up some traits and play down other characteristics.

Several bullshitting threads have thousands of posts. I boosted some of those totals. Threads on political and social issues aren't as popular. The conversation here tends to be adult-oriented, not necessarily adult.

 

[Summery]

xzchief....you dry? Never! Ok, sometimes. But I have had the pleasure to know many sides of you and all are Welcome by me!

 

[Cheyenne]

Re: Re: So I am dry

In-depth topics are, in general, suspect here. While there are certainly some exceptions, people here usually want to blow off steam instead of entering philosophical discussions. Just check the post and views totals for each thread.

Not necessarily true for everyone although probably true "in general" as she said.

There is a whole group of us who will post to the philosophical discussions. That IS how some of us blow off steam and unwind!

I'm answering your threads, and have already complimented you in a PM about coming up with some new topics for discussion. After 20 months here, I thought I'd seen every topic at least 4 or 5 times. The "do you shave" and "let's do a list of people who..." threads get boring after awhile, too.

 

[InnesLane]

I'm really glad I read this thread.

I don't get in often and so have never read daughter's threads or posts, but now I have another to add to the list of those I'll gravitate to.

Some of you that I like are silly, and some are serious. Some are sarcastic to the point of insulting while others as sweet as a fresh rain. What I really like are people who can think, and are good at using words to convey clear thoughts.

That pretty much includes everyone I've read in this thread so far, by the way. I tip my hat to the lot of you.

 

[Cherry]

Actually ...

I tend to agree somewhat with Cat here.
I've noticed a certain oddity in daughter's posts, as well.

Not so much an oddity that daughter's threads are thought-provoking attempts to encourage debate ... but rather, that she seems to try to control the continuity of the threads, at times. If a poster drifts from her original intention of subject matter, she doesn't hesitate to state that wasn't what she wanted to hear. A little too controlling.

For instance:

"HUH? The original question asked about your behavior. I don't want someone to explain others' behavior. I wanted to hear how folks see themselves."

"Maybe I was not clear initially. I realize the net affords us freedom so it makes sense we'd be less inhibited. I was more interested if folks felt their sexual selves differed significantly from what they project in other aspects of their lives."

"I wasn't looking for anything as elaborate as online role-playing. I was looking for replies like, ..."


Frankly, I think it's a little too rigid to moderate a thread to keep it on the tract of an "original" intent ... but rather, let conversation flow wherever it goes in association.

There have been many "serious" threads on the GB (long before daughter's) often hotly debated. But, threads are not panel discussions, limited to protocol of debate. Such is the beauty of conversation on the GB ... one subject matter often extends into "another thought".

 

[xzchief]

Re: Re: Re: So I am dry

Not necessarily true for everyone although probably true "in general" as she said.

There is a whole group of us who will post to the philosophical discussions. That IS how some of us blow off steam and unwind!

I'm answering your threads, and have already complimented you in a PM about coming up with some new topics for discussion. After 20 months here, I thought I'd seen every topic at least 4 or 5 times. The "do you shave" and "let's do a list of people who..." threads get boring after awhile, too.

So you know, Cheyenne, I am a guy. I'm glad you like my picture of model Jennifer Korbin. I like it too.

 

[Marxist]

I think what cath! was referring to in daughter's posts is the tone of constant inquisition without let up. I detected it too and wondered what the hell was going on. I then recognized daughter from the other forums and sites and remembered that this is just the way she is.

I don't usually have anything to say in her threads because I deal with women and their reproductive problems all day and I'm too past it to share.

Literotica is open to everyone over 18 and I look forward to more of daughter's posts and perspective. I do hope to see more of her personality and less emotional science.

Welcome to the General Board, D.

 

[Cheyenne]

Re: Re: Re: Re: So I am dry

So you know, Cheyenne, I am a guy. I'm glad you like my picture of model Jennifer Korbin. I like it too.

Opps, sorry. You have one of those names that isn't clearly one sex or the other. I usually ask if I'm not sure, but somewhere along the way I logged "female" in my memory banks for you. I don't think I even paid attention to the av.

 

[Cherry]

Speak for yourself!

ummm, she appears to a very articulate woman which I guess is not becoming of you. And I'm sure that no matter what name you used, you wouldn't be missed.

To know her, is to miss her if she were gone!

This little kitty may have multiple names to go with her 9 lives (what business if that of yours?) ... but, she is certainly a welcomed member of this community.

 

[perks]

perky running naked through this thread

 

[StondTmplPilot]

Daughter, not to worry, you do not make me uncomfortable at all. I think you are very articulate, and very intelligent. I am just not such a deep thinker, so I tend not to gravitate to those type of posts. Not to say I am dumb, but I mainly just come here for the friends I have made, and to unwind. I apologize if you misunderstood my intentions in my earlier post.

 

[Guest]

I enjoy the many different types of threads on this board. It's very refreshing to be able to come in here and decide from day to day what it is I want to share. Variety is the spice of life - the same is true in here.

To be able to share what we feel and to be able to voice an opinion is an amazing thing. If we were all to agree and say the same things over and over again, it would become a little bit ordinary.

This is the reason I continue to come here - I can write about anything that tickles my fancy at that particular moment.

I'm enjoying learning about all of the many different personalities on this board. Everyone is unique and so very different. That's the beauty of this board.

I wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Joyous New Year. May we all find the beauty that is meant to be seen and let it settle quietly inside our hearts.

 

[Laurel]

Re: So I am dry

[aven't criticized the type of threads here. Why is serious and in-depth topics suspect? Are they unwelcomed here?

This BB, like the rest of the site, sort of grew organically. we've never tried to attract a certain type of person, so whoever showed up became part of what the site is all about. The only thing the people here have in common is an interest in sex - and even that term means something different to each of us. If you read a while, you'll see the more "serious" posters complaining about the "flirts", and the "flirts" complaining about the "serious" folks. That's been happening since the day the BB was launched. But pay it no mind...there's room on this forum for everyone, from the one-liner wise-cracker to the essay poster, from the serial flirt to the political junkie.

I'm a fan of chaos and contrasts. I like the sparks that fly when the Lefties and Righties clash, when the "out for fun" folks clash with the "serious" people. If I had my way, I'd have communists on the board arguing with hardcore Libertarians, and feminists yakking it up with Southern Baptists. I think people are at their best when they're being challenged. Homogeneity, IMHO, is Boring.

As in real life, no matter who you are or what you say, there will be someone on this board who will not quite "get" you. But there will also be someone who appreciates your posts and digs your energy. Just be yourself, and post about what you want to post about. It's your board as much as it's everyone else's.