Dating outside the Indian race

[Guest]

I am an Puerto Rican and Italian Female and I recently started dating an Indian male. When we got together I asked him how his family felt about him dating outside of his race and he is Lutheran Christian Orthodox. He replied and said that he could have and arranged marriage or he could marry for love either way his parents would want him happy. Well now he wont even introduce me to his friends in fear that they will tell his parents and I feel very bad. I feel like this is the one for me and even though we have only been dating for 6 months, I feel like we are meant for eachother. He is a senior in college, and I feel that after he graduates his family will try to find a mate for him. I am scared that he will just leave me, and that would hurt alot. I am in love with him, but I feel like he is just dating me till he graduates. Am I wrong? he says that he is in love with me and he will do anything to stay with me even risk his relationship with his family, but I don't want that over my head. I feel that being family oriented and having respect for your parents is everything. I would never treat my parents like that so I would not want my mate too. I was just brought up that true love is inevitable, and you will know when you find that right person. I just want to be part of his life. Meaning meeting his friends, family, ect. I just don't understand the culture
can someone please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[koalabear]

Cowboys are more fun.

 

[badbabysitter]

Way to go yayati

Your revisionist moronic mindset was almost convincingly played...except there isnt anyone in the human species as stupid as the fictional character inserted above

 

[BgMma]

dating.

I hate to burst someone's bubble, but you need to move on.
If he is not willing to introduce you to his family and friends, he is either in another relationship or he doesn't want anyone to know about you.
I can understand how strongly you feel about this man, but you don't have to be so desperate to have him. My goodness, woman, there are other men who woould be happy to have you on their arm. Life is too short to anguish over another person.
If you feel that this relationship is detrimental to his family and you don't want it hanging over your head, there is trouble.
I also hate to point out your short comings. If you have so many doubts about where you are going with him or if he is even wanting a long term relationship, it's not a relationship. It's a binding.
Love is not about hanging on. Love is trust.
Talk to him. Seriously. Let him know that honesty is preferred and that you can deal with disappointment. Even though he says he cares and doesn't want to leave you, he could still just be saying it to appease you. He is more likely to come clean if he thinks he is off the hook.
This is just my opinion. I am not saying that this is ideal, but really think about what you are doing. Don't let your heart and your pride cloud your mind. If he is as good as you say he is, he will see how much he is hurting you.

 

[BgMma]

dating

My mother was that stupid, can assure you. I put nothing past anyone.

 

[Allexus_TN]

Cowboys are more fun.

Care to prove it?

 

[Kitte]

Is indian raceing like indian wrestling?

 

[BgMma]

dating

LMFAO

 

[Siren]

 

[Guest]

 

[rosario]

well you could try an old indian custom

Smoke a peace pipe with all the ancestors.......

 

[Guest]

Tiana,

I feel terrible for you. I had a similar situation. I fell in love with an Indian man. I am from a Latin culture background. At first this man led me to believe that he would fight for a love marriage but the end, he ended up breaking it up. He went to India and on his return he claimed he was arranged during his visit. For a long time, I kept covering up that fact that this man was a jerk. Afterall, he told me everything I wanted to hear and made me feel so special. But I realized that this was just a game. When he broke it up, he did not even call once to find out how I was doing. He claimed that it was for my own good. It was a shock for me. One day everything is like a dream and before you know it, everything is gone. I say leave this man before you get hurt more. Eventually you will realized that he was not good for you. It will take a while but you can get through it.