Date!

[Kitte]

I say we start a posse and get after her!!!!

Zam I do agree everyone deserves a second chance, but, if she messes with you again she will have the Ladies of Lit to contend with!

*trys to look menacing but ends up giggling*

 

[Nora]

Cool =)

See? I bet she was frantically trying to get to you, but by the time she could contact you she was thinking, "Oh fuckkk if it was me I'd slam the door in his face!" Her story sounds plausable to me.

And there's an added bonus. Since she's presumably feeling guilty for standing you up, it'll take that much less work to get her in the sack. *nodsnods*

You're a good guy to cut her some slack, kids or no kids. Besides, it's a holiday weekend. Everything gets messed up on holiday weekends. Was she able to reschedule then and there or are you making her sweat a li'l first?

 

[Zamdrist]

You gals are great

See? I bet she was frantically trying to get to you, but by the time she could contact you she was thinking, "Oh fuckkk if it was me I'd slam the door in his face!" Her story sounds plausable to me.

The more I think about it the more it bothers me. She was at a party until 2 PM today. She hadn't been online since Sat. morning. Was this an all nighter party? She didn't make sure she had a sure ride home? Doesn't seem too responsible for a 43 year-old.

And there's an added bonus. Since she's presumably feeling guilty for standing you up, it'll take that much less work to get her in the sack. *nodsnods*

I was thinking the same thing LOL!

You're a good guy to cut her some slack, kids or no kids. Besides, it's a holiday weekend. Everything gets messed up on holiday weekends. Was she able to reschedule then and there or are you making her sweat a li'l first?

I let her sweat for oh, say 5 minutes. LOL. I'm still digesting all of this. We are scheduled to get together Friday, no time or place set yet. I want to talk to her on the phone first.

 

[Monazwx]

Originally posted by Nora
And there's an added bonus. Since she's presumably feeling guilty for standing you up, it'll take that much less work to get her in the sack. *nodsnods*

There you go Nora, always thinking about the positives!!!

Good to know that she didn't stand ya up Zam.
You're so sweet to give a second chance.
Hope it goes well.

(Keep this jealous gal posted).

 

[SexyChele]

Zam, I'm really sorry to hear that things didn't work out for you this afternoon! Damn, it hurts to get stood up like that!

Now, I have to admire you for giving her some slack, and making arrangements to meet again, but be certain you have her number and she has yours. That way, if something comes up, neither one will be left holding the bag.

I don't know the lady, but I'm 42 and if I were at a party and needed to be somewhere by 12 I would have begged and pleaded with someone to drive me home in time to get ready. Hell, some one at the party would have given her a lift and then returned to the party. I've done that.

Also, if she's at this party, and unable to find a ride home, she knew of the restaurant, right? No call there? If I couldn't have found a ride home (after trying the above), I would have called the restaurant at 12, and asked if you were there and explained things. Hey, it would mean you were still there and no date, but at least she would be calling.

Things sound a little fishy to me. There are ways of contacting people when you are going to be late or unable to show up. And a morning "party"?? What? For the Indy 500 or something? Just color me confused and skeptical.

But I do wish you luck on Friday. (Maybe you should be just a little late - throw a scare into her?)

*Hugs, hon* And know you have lots of females right here who would love to have lunch and a drink with ya! (and, yes, that would include me!)

 

[Zamdrist]

*Hugs, hon* And know you have lots of females right here who would love to have lunch and a drink with ya! (and, yes, that would include me!)

Thanks SexyChele. You words and the words of the others here are kind of overwhelming, not to be corny or anything. Thanks

My head is saying one thing, my heart (and admitedly the other head) are saying another.