darn, thats big

[rosewiththorns]

Hello everyone,

I'm new here, and after poking around, I'm hopeful that I can find some help with a situation I'm having. I just moved into a new apartment a few months ago and I'm glad to say that I made some friends pretty quickly. It's a good mix of ladies and gents, so we all manage to have a good time. To keep it short, I started to notice one of the guys in particular, and he seems to return the interest, which is great. Here's my situation though: gossip with the other girls has quickly turned up what gossip will. Apparently he's "large". With a capital L. I've only had sex a few times and it was only with one guy in college ( his cock was kinda tiny), so I'm getting a bit nervous.

I'm not really sure what I'm looking for here. A few words to calm a jittery mind I guess. I don't want to act like a little school girl when it finally happens...

I'm sure some of you have had experiences with larger than usual men. How was it the first time? How big was he?

Thank you to anyone that responds. Hopefully it won't seem so bad when I know others have had the same happen to them.

 

[simplegirl]

I've never been with an exceptionally large man but....

The vagina is very elastic. Face it, it's made to have a baby fit through it. His penis might create a snug fit, but you should be fine.

Take your time, make sure you're nice & wet & relaxed. Get some extra lube and have fun!

 

[SweetErika]

If he's been with all these women in your apartment complex, you should probably be more concerned with his health than the size of his cock. Even if he uses condoms religiously, they don't protect against everything.

At any rate, if do get intimate with him, your best bet is to relax and assess his size for yourself, rather than getting all worked up about something that may be just fine beforehand. After all, you don't know what these women consider "large" and there are lots of workarounds for long cocks (not so many for extremely girthy cocks).

So, basically, wait to cross the bridge until you come to it. IF he's uncomfortably large and you both want an ongoing relationship (sexual or otherwise), you could do something like get a toy that's his size or slightly larger and see how you can make that size work best for you. But you may be worried for nothing and creating pain for yourself down the road by getting all anxious about his size beforehand. Painful sex is usually a self-fulfilling prophecy - if you think it's going to hurt or it hurts initially, it will hurt because you're anxious, tense and may try to rush through it.

 

[MisterSir]

Apparently he's "large". With a capital L.

How large is large, in this case?

 

[Firebrain]

I wouldn't worry about the size of his cock itself, but whether or not he's any good with foreplay. That's what counts, regardless of the size....

...besides, this is only gossip. You won't know until you've, ahem, tried.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I would also imagine that if he's large and experienced, he'll be aware that he has the potential to cause pain instead of pleasure. He should therefore be accustomed to women needing lots of foreplay and a slow build up or whatever.

 

[satindesire]

I would also imagine that if he's large and experienced, he'll be aware that he has the potential to cause pain instead of pleasure. He should therefore be accustomed to women needing lots of foreplay and a slow build up or whatever.

Yes, I agree with that.

Generally if a man has at least two brain cells to rub together, they're aware of the fact that their size is actually detrimental to the woman's pleasure, and will take more time in foreplay and preparation so keep from hurting their partner.

The smart ones are more gentle as well when it comes to actual intercourse.

My poor husband wouldn't get any sex at all if he wasn't so careful with me, especially now in the last month or so.

 

[infinity706]

Hello everyone,

I'm new here, and after poking around, I'm hopeful that I can find some help with a situation I'm having. I just moved into a new apartment a few months ago and I'm glad to say that I made some friends pretty quickly. It's a good mix of ladies and gents, so we all manage to have a good time. To keep it short, I started to notice one of the guys in particular, and he seems to return the interest, which is great. Here's my situation though: gossip with the other girls has quickly turned up what gossip will. Apparently he's "large". With a capital L. I've only had sex a few times and it was only with one guy in college ( his cock was kinda tiny), so I'm getting a bit nervous.

I'm not really sure what I'm looking for here. A few words to calm a jittery mind I guess. I don't want to act like a little school girl when it finally happens...

I'm sure some of you have had experiences with larger than usual men. How was it the first time? How big was he?

Thank you to anyone that responds. Hopefully it won't seem so bad when I know others have had the same happen to them.

Well, I've had 3 huge cocks. (yes, that's above average, but it woudn't be surprising if you knew how many guys that was out of ) Anyway, one was about 10 inches and about as thick as a soda can. One was about 8 with a normal girth. The third was around 5.5, but was about as thick as a soda can. They were difficult to handle even for me and I'm a lot larger than an average woman. Of course, it's not the end of the world, even if you can't do penetration. There's lots of other fun, sexy things you can do.

 

[rosewiththorns]

Thanks for the replies everyone. Sorry for the long absence, short vacation with the family.

Lets see. He hasn't slept around with all the other girls. Its been pieced together from random comments and what he looks like in a bathing suit. Maybe if we all get drunk enough, we can get a number out of him. When he wears tight jeans, it very obviously goes down one pant leg though. Hard? don't think so.

He's also a nice guy, so I don't think I have to worry about him being ignorant about it. We shall see I guess.

It feels HUGE when we dance together, let me tell you

 

[RandomAssGuy]

Hidden bannana? lol

 

[Firebrain]

Maybe he's really a girl with a strap-on, a la Boys Don't Cry...

 

[xander1083]

just enjoy that moment and everything will be just fine. Keep us posted of what will happened. lol

 

[rosewiththorns]

Damn. I just typed up a really long reply to everyone, but my computer went on the fritz and I lost the whole thing before I could post it. I finally found out how big he is, but I honestly don't feel like typing the whole thing up again. In short, While sitting on his lap, flirting with him, I felt his head where his bellybutton should have been and blurted out the all important question before I could think about it. He said he's 10 1/2. I didn't get to see/feel it without clothing in the way since he was really embarrassed about the boner thing to begin with.

To be honest, I'm still a bit in awe whenever I think about it. I've never seen one anywhere near that big. What should I do now? I'm entering new territory for me lol

 

[mark_j]

Damn. I just typed up a really long reply to everyone, but my computer went on the fritz and I lost the whole thing before I could post it. I finally found out how big he is, but I honestly don't feel like typing the whole thing up again. In short, While sitting on his lap, flirting with him, I felt his head where his bellybutton should have been and blurted out the all important question before I could think about it. He said he's 10 1/2. I didn't get to see/feel it without clothing in the way since he was really embarrassed about the boner thing to begin with.

To be honest, I'm still a bit in awe whenever I think about it. I've never seen one anywhere near that big. What should I do now? I'm entering new territory for me lol

Either you are intrigued enough to give the guy a toss or you are not... that is a decision you have to make. No one here can make it for you.

Or in the words of Yoda;

Try not. Do or do not, there is no try..

 

[rosewiththorns]

Oh, I'm very intrigued. How could I not be?

 

[CherryBomb24]

my suggestion - go for it.
just have fun, quit worrying or your going to make it worse lol

 

[whoknew1212]

I agree with Cherry, I think you would regret it if you didn't at least try to get the guy into bed

 

[infinity706]

Oh, I'm very intrigued. How could I not be?

Well, go for it if you want. As long as you can accept that it might not fit inside you, there shouldn't be too much problem. Of course, if it does, just go slowly and you should be fine.

 

[zjake]

I say go for it...

Just wrap both hands around his cock the first time it heads for your mouth... that way it'll be a little more manageable...

And make sure your lady will need lots of preparation before entry!

That way you win no matter what.

 

[thechiv]

Just wrap both hands around his cock the first time it heads for your mouth... that way it'll be a little more manageable...

And make sure your lady will need lots of preparation before entry!

That way you win no matter what.

I guess two hands acting as a buffer would be helpful...

 

[swampydonkey]

girls feel happy with a big cock. I think little prick's man can't satisfy a girl perfectly. they are really retard because they don't take of their penis. I have enough big cock for my wife and girls.

 

[fgarvb1]

girls feel happy with a big cock. I think little prick's man can't satisfy a girl perfectly. they are really retard because they don't take of their penis. I have enough big cock for my wife and girls.

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