Daddy's Little Girl

Days come and go, wants and needs will always change.
Dry hacks and pained sound ring, a horrible din compared to her usual cheer.
"Sweet One... What's wrong? What can I do to help?"

She looks up and tries to smile, but I can see the pain in her eyes.
Straining to speak and show her usual enthusiasm, she falters and groans.
"Daddy... I'm sick. I'm so sorry I don't want to be a sick girl for you..."

Her eyes once laced with pain now betray fear and and anxiety.
Hushed murmurs as I examine, my eyes missing nothing as I search for her ills.
"Sweet One, you seem feverish, and hoarse. A common bug. Nothing for you to be ashamed of. Nothing you could prevent."

Her eyes relax ever so slightly as she draws a deep breath.
Hearing my words have soothed her mind, but cannot ease her discomfort.
"But Daddy, I can't be what I need to be with you like this... I can't serve..."

A finger slides to my mouth, a gentle sound to call for her silence.
Astutely I draw myself up, and return in a moment, carrying her objects of comfort.
Affectionately I address her applying everything I can. Her Dominant I am, but only after I give her my care and devotion.
"Here is your blanket, your medicine and your dinner. As much as you serve me, I serve you... That is our covenant."

HB :heart: contented sigh
 
Hey BFG :) !

Yeah it was ok quite quiet but I'm saving up for a holiday to the US in July (and I don't go back to work until 8 Jan so making the most of that) You?

Hanging out with family and talking with friends. You're coming to the US?! Where, where, where?! I'd love to meet you!
 
Hanging out with family and talking with friends. You're coming to the US?! Where, where, where?! I'd love to meet you!

hehe:) Just to LA this time for a conference in Anaheim (Yup little me is squealing with delight and is sooooo excited!)
 
I read the "points" post with a dreamy sigh, thinking I would enjoy something like that with a daddy. I hadn't thought of it in terms of self care! I love this! I am going to create a list and put it in action. Thanks, Honey and MrTenant!

Yes. I agree and thank them both as well. I loved reading both lists and I'm going to take a page out of Honey's book :heart:

these are great ideas. thanks for sharing. :)
 
What a fascinating space to share and be comfortable with one's desires! I'm slowly making my way back to this safe space and appreciate the openness of others on here. My baby girl recently moved on, sprouting her wings, exploring the world on her own. We chat regularly but after a few months I realize how much I miss her spirit, her flirty touches, her innocent laughter, her eyerolls when I say something that dates me...
 
What a fascinating space to share and be comfortable with one's desires! I'm slowly making my way back to this safe space and appreciate the openness of others on here. My baby girl recently moved on, sprouting her wings, exploring the world on her own. We chat regularly but after a few months I realize how much I miss her spirit, her flirty touches, her innocent laughter, her eyerolls when I say something that dates me...

Welcome!

My Daddy's younger than me. :cathappy:
 
I like the idea of a reward system for anything needing doing. They're wonderfully flexible.

Currently, my tasks might look like this:

getting in bed by ten
taking my meds on time
shaving my legs*
tidy my knicker drawer
making a dr's/dentist appointment
texting my dad
ask for a hug from one of my older kids

And rewards like this:

paint my nails
learn five new words in French
do one yoga segment on my dvd
eat a piece of dark chocolate
take a nap
sit and listen to music for 15 minutes
take a bubble bath
light a smelly candle and enjoy a cup of tea
sit in a quiet place and dream about my future

Rewards can be listed in a notebook and crossed off as they are chosen to ensure I'm not just eating chocolate all day long. :D I also like the idea of a reward basket filled with little treats to make my heart sing - a new keychain, nail polish, lip gloss, earrings, CD/movie/book from Goodwill. The basket can be brought out to celebrate a productive week, or making it through a difficult day, whatever. You'll notice that both my tasks and rewards are 'self-care' items. The difference is usually that there is some unpleasant or challenging aspect about the tasks, such as having to ask for others to meet a need.

Daddy-specific rewards: a new pic, voice clip, video message, snail mail, etc.

*I added shaving as a goal not because Daddy gives a hoot, but because I tend to neglect doing the things that make me feel pretty out of a sense of unworthiness.

I love this.
 
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What a fascinating space to share and be comfortable with one's desires! I'm slowly making my way back to this safe space and appreciate the openness of others on here. My baby girl recently moved on, sprouting her wings, exploring the world on her own. We chat regularly but after a few months I realize how much I miss her spirit, her flirty touches, her innocent laughter, her eyerolls when I say something that dates me...

Thanks.

I appreciate that it isn't merely age difference, that just happened to be my most meaningful relationship that revolved around Daddy/baby girl.

Welcome :)
 
Without quoting anyone above (several others have already), I just want to say that self care is a struggle for me too. I tend to see others as coming first and as my needs as not being all that important.

I'm not too crazy about the point system though I can see some advantages to it. It's nice and concrete and rather rule bound (gotta love that) but so many of the suggested rewards are not things I want. I am much less of a "little" than many here and not terribly girly gurl either. (I know...strange duck ~ good thing daddy likes me anyway...lol)

Anyway. One of daddy's long term solutions for me to help me pay attention to self care is to write him a poem that reports on some self care every week. Just a few lines. But it helps me. It helps focus my attention and keep me honest. It has been a great tool. :heart:
 
Without quoting anyone above (several others have already), I just want to say that self care is a struggle for me too. I tend to see others as coming first and as my needs as not being all that important.

I'm not too crazy about the point system though I can see some advantages to it. It's nice and concrete and rather rule bound (gotta love that) but so many of the suggested rewards are not things I want. I am much less of a "little" than many here and not terribly girly gurl either. (I know...strange duck ~ good thing daddy likes me anyway...lol)

Anyway. One of daddy's long term solutions for me to help me pay attention to self care is to write him a poem that reports on some self care every week. Just a few lines. But it helps me. It helps focus my attention and keep me honest. It has been a great tool. :heart:

I like that we are all different. :):heart:
 
I like that we are all different. :):heart:

Me, too... and that's why I think we can all agree there's no little or DD or PYL/pyl that should be made to feel bad because they aren't like others. And, there's a special someone that will fit. Like Farawyn's signature block... 'jagged edges that fit'.
 
I like that we are all different. :):heart:

Me, too... and that's why I think we can all agree there's no little or DD or PYL/pyl that should be made to feel bad because they aren't like others. And, there's a special someone that will fit. Like Farawyn's signature block... 'jagged edges that fit'.

Agreed and agreed. :heart:
No two people's relationships are the same.
And as clear as you might be about what you need and who you are in the context of one relationship,
when you interact with a new person, at least some of that stuff becomes malleable.
I find all of this stuff so fascinating.
 
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