LittleAngel72396
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Daddy's Little Girl
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Lily13
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barefootgirl69
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LittleAngel72396
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Just found this thread again (dear god, it took foreeever, lol). Makes me want a Daddy or Mommy sooo bad.
shadow_anon2u
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Subscribe babe. Never lose it again, lol.
Azuldrgon
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So many guys think they know what's involved with being a daddy. In reality, they think it's just like being a Dom or just a small thing when in fact it's a very involved role.
Daddies love their Littles, even more than a Dom would.
Daddies have to take care of their Littles, even more so than
Many Lit guys don't understand that and that's why they prove to be utterly clueless.
It upsets me, but at the same time a Little can find a good daddy if she looks hard enough.
Hazguy
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I think part of the biggest problem is that the Fake Daddys have a lot of misinformation on what the lifestyle is. I consider myself identifying as a daddy, but have not taken a little yet as I consider myself still learning the lifestyle. I don't want to hurt anyone. Plus, long distance relationships are so hard ....
Azuldrgon
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So many guys think they know what's involved with being a daddy. In reality, they think it's just like being a Dom or just a small thing when in fact it's a very involved role.
Daddies love their Littles, even more than a Dom would.
Daddies have to take care of their Littles, even more so than
Many Lit guys don't understand that and that's why they prove to be utterly clueless.
It upsets me, but at the same time a Little can find a good daddy if she looks hard enough.
Amen.
another thing so many don't seem to understand is, most littles can't call any tom dick or harry Daddy. It is a title of honor and has to be earned. As is dom, sir, master... but just cause you id as daddy don't make you mine
I don't mind making it known though that is what I'm looking for.
Love this thread.
Azuldrgon
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Amen.
another thing so many don't seem to understand is, most littles can't call any tom dick or harry Daddy. It is a title of honor and has to be earned. As is dom, sir, master... but just cause you id as daddy don't make you mine
I don't mind making it known though that is what I'm looking for.
Love this thread.
I remember the first time she called me Daddy.
Talk about goosebumps.
I wasn't even trying to guide her towards it, but she said it the first time and it felt like a puzzle piece being put into place.
One of my highlights I think.
RubenesqueAphrodite
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One of the biggest obstacles I've had is reminding myself that eventually I will find my Daddy, or he'll find me.
It gets VERY old and VERY tedious and VERY annoying trying to push the bad experiences and bittersweet memories out of your mind..much like trying to pull up weeds. You think you're done and are finally at a place where you can begin your garden anew. Then the wind blows another dandelion all over your yard and you know in a few weeks you'll be back out there trying to get rid of them.
It gets VERY old and VERY tedious and VERY annoying trying to push the bad experiences and bittersweet memories out of your mind..much like trying to pull up weeds. You think you're done and are finally at a place where you can begin your garden anew. Then the wind blows another dandelion all over your yard and you know in a few weeks you'll be back out there trying to get rid of them.
barefootgirl69
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When I was having trouble finding a daddy, a DD friend told me to quit looking, to wait, not to push it. But to make myself available, get to know a few, surrounding myself. So, I did just that. I met many friends who were available for advice or hugs when I needed, even though they weren't my daddy.
Suddenly, I met someone and we weren't looking! We said we would be friends only. But, it clicked, I couldn't resist the pull to submit, it happened all on its own... nothing formal 'will you be mine' stuff, it just is. It is long distance, and it is until I find something in RL, when we'll go back to forever friends. I adore Him, and He's such a good Daddy.
Be patient.
Suddenly, I met someone and we weren't looking! We said we would be friends only. But, it clicked, I couldn't resist the pull to submit, it happened all on its own... nothing formal 'will you be mine' stuff, it just is. It is long distance, and it is until I find something in RL, when we'll go back to forever friends. I adore Him, and He's such a good Daddy.
Be patient.
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barefootgirl69
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I like that you are taking your time to grow. I tried several times with 'new daddies' and it wasn't working, I'm not sure why. Confidence as a Daddy is important, so we can rely on you.
As for long distance, sometimes it works in the right circumstances, when a little like me needs the emotional aspect and needs taken care of.
RubenesqueAphrodite
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oh, I have Daddy types I am friends with, that's not an issue. I'm just not submitting or getting sexy with them as they are long distance. I can't let it go further than that, and I have my reasons.
They are there to hear me rant, calm me down, reign me in, give advice, etc. but I won't let it go any farther than good friends and very much needed emotional support.
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oh, I have Daddy types I am friends with, that's not an issue. I'm just not submitting or getting sexy with them as they are long distance. I can't let it go further than that, and I have my reasons.
They are there to hear me rant, calm me down, reign me in, give advice, etc. but I won't let it go any farther than good friends and very much needed emotional support.
I'm so glad you have that! Even when we are searching for something in RL, which I've not yet done since my divorce and recent move back to SoCal, we need someone or several.
What I've discovered, since it's all new to me, is that Daddy's have the same needs in a 'daddy way'. They want to be needed, want to feel connected in some way, even if they aren't our daddy. It amazed me that I had never thought of it like that.
Daddies... speak up at any time, please!
Azuldrgon
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Agreed.
We do need to feel needed.
I have a hard time completing my day without hearing from her or seeing a sign of life.
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Rambling ...
I struggle with the online Daddy/little relationship. I think it happens too quickly, roles established because one or both identify as such. But, trust? I struggle with trust. To have that level of trust, to really have it, I need love. Yes, I said the "L" word. Love is necessary for me to trust completely and without it ... well, it just feels like roleplaying. Sure you call me little one and I call you Daddy, but if one of us gets bored or annoyed it is easy to walk away because the deeper feelings aren't there. It would take time, friendship, understanding, longing, and great deal of faith for my trust to reach the level of a true Daddy/little relationship.
It sometimes seems ... impossible for me.
I struggle with the online Daddy/little relationship. I think it happens too quickly, roles established because one or both identify as such. But, trust? I struggle with trust. To have that level of trust, to really have it, I need love. Yes, I said the "L" word. Love is necessary for me to trust completely and without it ... well, it just feels like roleplaying. Sure you call me little one and I call you Daddy, but if one of us gets bored or annoyed it is easy to walk away because the deeper feelings aren't there. It would take time, friendship, understanding, longing, and great deal of faith for my trust to reach the level of a true Daddy/little relationship.
It sometimes seems ... impossible for me.
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Exactly this. I come to a place like this looking for a daddy, but it is only play. So it's a shadow of the real thing.
The only DD/lg I've had happened organically. We began as friends, and over the course of a year or so we grew into it quite by accident. It was amazing, the deepest connection I've ever had.
I no doubt will be chasing that dynamic for the rest of my life. Do I expect to find it here? No. But it still gives me a thrill to call a man daddy.
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