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I would be happy to indulge your desire for a role play.....![]()

I know that this is something that has bothered me for a long time, but more so lately. It doesn't matter how long it's bothered me, and I'm not sure it even matters WHY it bothers me. I just need to say this.
Unless we have a relationship, you are NOT my Daddy!
I know a lot of Daddies, I'm sure we all do. None of the Daddies I talk to do this, but whenever there is someone new (not necessarily at Lit) who discovers that I identify as a lg/princess - I'm suddenly barraged with things such as "Let Daddy do that" "Do this for Daddy" etc.
Do I call other Dominants 'Sir'? Yes, there are times I do - when they've earned respect, even when they aren't MY Sir. But, I grew up in a military house with a Southern mama, and 'Sir/Ma'am' is a way of life. My children are taught to say Sir/Ma'am.
On the other hand, I do not mind being called Princess, just don't call me your Princess.
Am I alone in this?![]()
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What you described is similar to the etiquette I was taught when I entered the world of BDSM as a sub (a very, very, very long time ago). A sub would address other dominants as "Sir" or "Ma'am" but only their own dominants as "Master" or "Mistress." Likewise, a dominant didn't use the terms "pet" or "slave" with others' submissives unless it was agreed upon beforehand amongst them. I was quite surprised to see that this doesn't seem to be nearly as standard now as it once was; for instance, my ex-sub preferred to call me "Ma'am." I let her choose because I understand how important that is to a sub, having once been one myself. Still, it always felt a bit wrong to me. I much prefer "Mistress" or, if my sub likes it, "Mama" or "Mom." Nevertheless, as old-fashioned as I am, "Mistress" seems presumptuous from submissives who aren't mine.
I suppose this is part what would seem confusing when it comes to my desires for a daddy-daughter roleplay, as we would be using the same terms (Daddy, baby girl, maybe princess) but I don't want him to be my dom. I'm thinking more of the pushy, spoilt daughter who almost always gets her way; where she's really the dominant. This seems to be pretty rare in the world of daddy-daughter relationships, so wish me luck.
You're right, I need to remind them gently and not 'blow them out of the water'.BFG,
You have hit a nail on the head. Your Daddy is special, he is Your...Daddy, but as the Little you have to make that distinction clear to others. They may not realize they are being disrespectful, a play full, your not my Daddy, may be I order.
Ash
Sometimes that's easier said than done!What you described is similar to the etiquette I was taught when I entered the world of BDSM as a sub (a very, very, very long time ago). A sub would address other dominants as "Sir" or "Ma'am" but only their own dominants as "Master" or "Mistress." Likewise, a dominant didn't use the terms "pet" or "slave" with others' submissives unless it was agreed upon beforehand amongst them. I was quite surprised to see that this doesn't seem to be nearly as standard now as it once was; for instance, my ex-sub preferred to call me "Ma'am." I let her choose because I understand how important that is to a sub, having once been one myself. Still, it always felt a bit wrong to me. I much prefer "Mistress" or, if my sub likes it, "Mama" or "Mom." Nevertheless, as old-fashioned as I am, "Mistress" seems presumptuous from submissives who aren't mine.
I suppose this is part what would seem confusing when it comes to my desires for a daddy-daughter roleplay, as we would be using the same terms (Daddy, baby girl, maybe princess) but I don't want him to be my dom. I'm thinking more of the pushy, spoilt daughter who almost always gets her way; where she's really the dominant. This seems to be pretty rare in the world of daddy-daughter relationships, so wish me luck.

I know that this is something that has bothered me for a long time, but more so lately. It doesn't matter how long it's bothered me, and I'm not sure it even matters WHY it bothers me. I just need to say this.
Unless we have a relationship, you are NOT my Daddy!
I know a lot of Daddies, I'm sure we all do. None of the Daddies I talk to do this, but whenever there is someone new (not necessarily at Lit) who discovers that I identify as a lg/princess - I'm suddenly barraged with things such as "Let Daddy do that" "Do this for Daddy" etc.
Do I call other Dominants 'Sir'? Yes, there are times I do - when they've earned respect, even when they aren't MY Sir. But, I grew up in a military house with a Southern mama, and 'Sir/Ma'am' is a way of life. My children are taught to say Sir/Ma'am.
On the other hand, I do not mind being called Princess, just don't call me your Princess.
Am I alone in this?![]()

I feel almost too new to this to have an opinion, but I feel strongly about this, too.
It is akin to a fellow dropping me a PM, assuming because I'm female and he has a dick that I want his dick... And if he tries to call himself my Daddy, or my Sir, it strikes me off the bat as being very manipulative.
I won't submit to just anyone. Being submissive is something I offer after someone has proven to me that he has my best interest at heart; and that takes a lot of work on both our parts.
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Felicity,
I if BFG, or CB did not jump them first, I will, all points of view is valid. My lg reached out to me, and on whim I answered, best thing I have ever done.
Ash


That, to me, sounds like serendipity.
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The universe aligned, now for my divorce to become reality, and I am headed 1000 miles north.

Thank you, for saying what I could not articulate.

I think I am going to give a peek behind the curtain and make the wanna bes jelly. I sent this to my lg, today. Maybe CB will turn it one of her memes.
I hope beyond hope, wish beyond wishes, want beyond want, need beyond need....Crave beyond Crave!
For this first time in my life I know.

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how about this Ash?
feel free to keep - repost or if you want it somehow different, let me know.
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The universe aligned, now for my divorce to become reality, and I am headed 1000 miles north.

The universe aligned, now for my divorce to become reality, and I am headed 1000 miles north.
I will be here patiently waiting for the call, that you are on your way.
I will be here patiently waiting for the call, that you are on your way.

Welcome to the thread and to Lit.
So glad you and your Daddy found each other.
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Thank you.
I am glad we found each other also. He is my knight and shining armor.

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Tucking my hair behind my ear![]()

Messages and notes can mean so much to both a Daddy and his little girl. Don't forget to write your DD and let him know how much you appreciate him, how much you miss him when he's gone, etc. Daddies, don't forget that something left for them to find will be so special to them (they may even bake you cookies!).
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