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Solsurfer

Solsurfer

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So lately I’ve heard that some females are saying they like the dad bod. Really? They say guys who work out too much don’t have time for them or their bigger bellies make good pillows. I’m a dad and I bust my ass in the gym and kitchen to be the best I can be. My wife tells me she likes my body, so that’s what really matters but c’mon. Ladies....let me know what you like better and why. Please clarify this mystery. (Or is there even a mystery?) Inquiring minds want to know.
 
It’s not the body type... it’s what he can do with that body that counts.
 
I’m sure everyone has different tastes.
A body that is fit from doing activities you enjoy or a physical job is more appealing to me than a body that is sculpted in the gym.
 
Icy1 said:
I’m sure everyone has different tastes.
A body that is fit from doing activities you enjoy or a physical job is more appealing to me than a body that is sculpted in the gym.
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Same here. One of my first BFs was a body builder. He annoyed the heck out of me by putting the body building ahead of everything. Not good.

I do work out. I'm still plump. Working out makes me feel good. I once took it to excess. I no longer do. Just a few minutes a day now.
 
I like when guys are not overly sculpted, or excessively fat, but have somewhat of a tone.

Skinny guys are a turn on to me as well. I'm just man crazy, lol.
 
Who doesn't like a sculpted body? But who doesn't like a sculpted mind either? All depends on the guy and the situation. I've turned muscular guys down and chosen a "dad bod" because he was much more interesting.
 
MisAlicia87 said:
Who doesn't like a sculpted body? But who doesn't like a sculpted mind either? All depends on the guy and the situation. I've turned muscular guys down and chosen a "dad bod" because he was much more interesting.
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Wait...?! So we're not all just pieces of meat?! ;)
 
Jada59 said:
Same here. One of my first BFs was a body builder. He annoyed the heck out of me by putting the body building ahead of everything. Not good.

I do work out. I'm still plump. Working out makes me feel good. I once took it to excess. I no longer do. Just a few minutes a day now.
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I agree it shouldn’t take away time from the relationship. That should be priority number one.
 
Dad bods are finely sculpted pieces of art! Do you realize how many beers and hours watching football one has to undertake to develop the perfect dad bod? It isn't easy, it's a lot of sacrifices we make just to turn you ladies on! :rolleyes:
 
I love something to cuddle. I don't like hard pecs, massive shoulders. I love soft and squishy.
But you know what? It's never a guy's body that has been the first attraction, it's always whether they're intelligent, make me laugh, have depth, care about me. I accept the vessel they're in regardless if the inside is great!
Perhaps subconsciously I think gym bunnies are concerned with their aesthetics first. Give me a lithe mind over a lithe body.
 
I like fit and toned and its awesome and so man dad aged men do that now. But like if someone is just obsessed about bulking up with muscles, well that like eye candy but the guy is probably a jerk and its no fun
 
Solsurfer said:
So lately I’ve heard that some females are saying they like the dad bod. Really? They say guys who work out too much don’t have time for them or their bigger bellies make good pillows. I’m a dad and I bust my ass in the gym and kitchen to be the best I can be. My wife tells me she likes my body, so that’s what really matters but c’mon. Ladies....let me know what you like better and why. Please clarify this mystery. (Or is there even a mystery?) Inquiring minds want to know.[/QUOTE]

are we body shaming.
As we're living through a time where men are being swept into the "All men are pigs"... garbage can
I quit the gym because of the self-absorbed gym rats. each time someone new came in...they were, what is the catch cliche now..."objectified" or "body-shamed"
this sounds like a "boost" my ego thread..
we all have our tastes...I've received PM's from people that complain that I keep posting pix of BBW and full figured women..."that's so unhealthy" is the common comment.."They'd like to see them fall off"
Not trying to be ultra personal...just an observation born on my experience
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klippert said:
Solsurfer said:
So lately I’ve heard that some females are saying they like the dad bod. Really? They say guys who work out too much don’t have time for them or their bigger bellies make good pillows. I’m a dad and I bust my ass in the gym and kitchen to be the best I can be. My wife tells me she likes my body, so that’s what really matters but c’mon. Ladies....let me know what you like better and why. Please clarify this mystery. (Or is there even a mystery?) Inquiring minds want to know.[/QUOTE]

are we body shaming.
As we're living through a time where men are being swept into the "All men are pigs"... garbage can
I quit the gym because of the self-absorbed gym rats. each time someone new came in...they were, what is the catch cliche now..."objectified" or "body-shamed"
this sounds like a "boost" my ego thread..
we all have our tastes...I've received PM's from people that complain that I keep posting pix of BBW and full figured women..."that's so unhealthy" is the common comment.."They'd like to see them fall off"
Not trying to be ultra personal...just an observation born on my experience
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Wow! That's sad.

For me, it's the mind and what's on the inside that counts more than anything.

When I worked at the golf course, there was one golfer that most people would say was gorgeous. Tall, tan, muscular, well dressed, perfect looking features and yet? I could not see him in that light. Why? He was very abusive to his friends. This guy was in the military and his friends were not. It was a military course so in order for them to be able to play there, they had to go out with a military person. His friends were quite nice. I have no clue what they saw in him. And I took great pleasure in getting him banned from the course after he violated just about every rule there was. Nobody else had dared to ban him because they were afraid of what he might do. He did get very violent.

When I looked at this guy, all I could see was rotten.

I also remember making a statement as a young adult. I got braces on my teeth. Only needed them on six teeth and it was more of a cosmetic thing. Had I known how horribly painful they would be, I likely would have not done it. But I commented to my mom that my next BF had better have perfect teeth after all the pain I was going through.

Then one night I went out to dinner with my parents. My BF and his sister were in the restaurant. I introduced them. After he left, my mom looked me in the eye and said, "He has a chipped front tooth!" And he did. Her pointing that out to me made me feel shallow for even making that statement to begin with.

Bottom line for me, my attraction is what's on the inside first. And not much else matters.
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Well this took a left turn to Seriousville. To each their own. No shame. Do what you want and be respectful towards others. I’m sorry if you were offended but on the other hand, this is Literotica, don’t take it so seriously. Life’s too short to get all worked up about stuff. Especially on the internet. Even more so here.
 
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