Cybering

[Lust Engine]

thanks everyone for the advice. i think i am gonna get rid of him and try to find someone who will understand my "virginity" to the whole thing and not judge me. thanks!

Remember you're only a virgin once. Take this as experience and find something a little more mutually rewarding.

 

[sheath]

i've reccently started chatting with a guy and he's expressed his want to cyber with me. well everytime we do it he will get mad at me because he says that i don't know how to do it right. is there a certain way that you are supposed to do it?

The point should not be how to become better at cyber...

The point SHOULD be dumping the jackass who treats you this way and moving on to a man who loves to initiate a woman into new, wonderful things.

S.

 

[sheath]

Remember you're only a virgin once. Take this as experience and find something a little more mutually rewarding.

Note to self: Read entire thread instead of shooting from the hip.

S.

 

[midwestyankee]

Note to self: Read entire thread instead of shooting from the hip.

S.

Don't worry too much about this one. The only problem with shooting from the hip with this guy is the possibility that you would miss.

 

[sheath]

Don't worry too much about this one. The only problem with shooting from the hip with this guy is the possibility that you would miss.

LOL!

S.

 

[SexyChele]

no in real life i take it slow. i love to please my man and be pleased in return. but my "cyber buddy" i guess i could call him that, he's usual on when he's at work and he's like do it quick i don't wanna get caught.

Huh? Wait a minute! What is this guy doing? Whipping out his dick from under his desk and wanking off? He's using you to get off and could probably care less who the hell you are and if you are getting anything out of this experience.

Dump him. I mean, uh, this a computer thing, ya know? It's not like you have time invested in a real relationship or anything. Trust me, there are hundreds of men out there in cyber space who want a woman to talk (or type) dirty to them. Oh, and just a word because you are virgin: most of these men are assholes. Every once in a great while you will actually meet a man who you can call a "friend." You'll know them when you finally meet up.

Good luck to you.

 

[fresh_air_2000]

Huh? Wait a minute! What is this guy doing? Whipping out his dick from under his desk and wanking off? He's using you to get off and could probably care less who the hell you are and if you are getting anything out of this experience.

Dump him. I mean, uh, this a computer thing, ya know? It's not like you have time invested in a real relationship or anything. Trust me, there are hundreds of men out there in cyber space who want a woman to talk (or type) dirty to them. Oh, and just a word because you are virgin: most of these men are assholes. Every once in a great while you will actually meet a man who you can call a "friend." You'll know them when you finally meet up.

Good luck to you.

Absolutely sound advice. This may be on a computer, but it's still humans clicking the keys, so all the things you do normally to feel of someone is OK, or to be avoided at all costs, do here too. If it's no more than assisted jacking, why bother. Cybersex (I guess, as I've not done it, but I'm sure the common thread of physical sex must run through it) should be beteen partners who want to exclude all else and devote care, attention and maybe (is this going overboard?) love to each other.

 

[LosersWinItBig]

This is kinda funny, not you raynedrops48, i'm not insulting you in anyway and i'd love to talk sometime, i'm also 21 and, i enjoy cybering but i also know how to talk about other things, i think with the head on my shoulders so to speak but, i enjoy cybering almost as much as sex itself, it gives you time to explore your partners wants, likes and dislikes without making a fool out of yourself in the bedroom, i just can't seem to find any ladies that enjoy it, maybe i'm looking in the wrong places but, i've talked to ladies online and they think i'm just a sick pervert and maybe i am lol but why don't women give a guy a chance, i'm not a rude, sick, twisted guy the ones who have gotten to know me often say i'm one of the sweetest guys they know. I do agree though a friendship should come first and see where it goes from there, i've never talked to a girl online looking for one thing, i've never started talking to a girl with the intention to get myself off and to hell with her, if anything i'm the type of guy thats all about pleasing the lady, i can please myself later but i get the satisfaction knowing that shes pleased.