Cyberealationships (also a rant)

[JennyOmanHill]

Some work; other's don't

I believe ANY relationship takes a lot of work! A LOT of work!!

A year after meeting him online (and spending one week in the flesh with him), I'm heading out to Omanland to see if we can bear living with each other on a day-to-day basis.

I agree that if a cyberrelationship "clicks", it's a good idea to meet up quickly! It took four months for us to meet face to face, and the joy of finding that the guy you fell in love with presented himself honestly and openly through voice and words, lifted all doubt about what I was truly involved with.

 

[Saint Peter]

That is why I go for hookers. Do the math. Add up the phone calls, travel, stupid teddybear flower shit you send. A good hooker is the way to go dollar for dollar.

And what happens when you meet face to face. OMG!! That nose looks like a blimp. My God!! I should have asked her for a pic of that huge ass. You know where I am going here. Any good hooker on the corner will let you check out the goods before any cash changes hands.

Just one Saint's humble opinion.

 

[Saint Peter]

I can see we are lacking whoremongers in here. Such an intellectual crowd.

 

[Belilica]

Intrigued, that passage was beautiful!

Well, I guess I'm just here to tell Foxy that we all know how she feels. I'm sure there are others here on the boards that haven't posted but have had similar experiences. For me, it's someone that I met here on the boards. Well, there are 2 that I'm close to, but one that is a huge part of my life now. We've still never met, but continue to correspond and talk on the phone. He has written me and we are even working on a combined work (an excerpt from which I'm hoping to post soon). The point is that it's a common thing, it happens with all online relationships. Just go with it, see where it takes you, and try not to get yourself hurt. Good luck little sister, and if you need to talk, you know where I am...

Bel

 

[BustyTheClown]

Fox, there are so many of us who can identify with your situation it isn't even funny, lol. I'm sure many of us envy you two for at least being on the same continent. I sure do. I don't mean to say that your relationship is any easier than ours, but it will hopefully be easier to manage visits, at the very least.

My SO and I have been together for almost three years now, and have known each other for three and a half. (We met in a chat room.) He's in England and I'm in America, and it took us a year and a half to finally meet because of our situations. When we did, though, it was amazing. There's nothing in the world like being with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, even if you can only manage a couple weeks at a time. I hope you two get to share this pleasure as soon as you can.

And you know, even if it doesn't work out (fingers crossed!), I'm sure you will learn valuable lessons that you couldn't have learned from any other experience. Whatever happens, I wish you luck and please know that if you need any advice or someone to talk to about it, just give me a PM.

 

[SpiceCake]

so true

That is why I go for hookers. Do the math. Add up the phone calls, travel, stupid teddybear flower shit you send. A good hooker is the way to go dollar for dollar.

And what happens when you meet face to face. OMG!! That nose looks like a blimp. My God!! I should have asked her for a pic of that huge ass. You know where I am going here. Any good hooker on the corner will let you check out the goods before any cash changes hands.

Just one Saint's humble opinion.

I know I want to see a picture of that big thick 8 inch cock first as well! Yeah, right! Do those 18 inch biceps have any muscle in them? Is that your real hair?

Damn - I know exactly what you mean!

 

[Cibo]

I know what most of you are going through. The love of my life is more than 2,000 miles away from me.

But we talk everyday on the board and on the phone and we have a great time whenever we are with each other.

She has to stay where she is for school and I might move out there for college next year. In the mean time, we are gonna meet during her winter break and see how things go from there, which I have no doubt in my mind will go oh so very well.

We pretty much love each other so much that nothing will ever get in our way.

 

[Ladyhawke]

I know so much how you feel. At least I'm lucky enough we are both in the U.S. but still there are days when it seems like Minnesota and Arizona are about a million miles apart.

 

[Jessie]

We pretty much love each other so much that nothing will ever get in our way.

Damn skippy. :


I love you.

 

[tastygroove]

I do too, and you're welcome.

Hey there Intrigued...I checked out your photos...not too shab...not too shab at all.

Didn't check out the poetry though...I'm shallow like that.

Later.

 

[Sillyman]

I do want to move there. I'm not doing it for school. It would be easier to go to school in the states. I want to do it to be with her.

I have no job to leave behind, and as for my friends and family, FUCK'EM. I have no friends, and my family is full of people who treat me like garbage. I want to go all the way here.

 

[Lancecastor]

As you can see.....

.....Canadians are sought after the world over as superior lovers.

Lance

 

[Draco]

Fanzee, I've yet to meet Draco in person. We've known each other for 2 1/2 years now and been in an online relationship for 2 years now. I got lucky enough to meet him thru ICQ and something just clicked. My husband and I had been having troubles and in the time when Draco was merely my friend, he often helped me deal with things. When I finally realized I didn't love my husband, or rather when I dinally admtted it to myself, it was Draco who was there to help me out.

I'm now seeking a divorce from my husband, who's agreed to let me have one. I'm also looking forward to having Draco come see me sometime in the future and to becoming his wife. I love him more than life itself. I'll wait as long as it takes. He's the one person who makes me feel complete.

Aw shucks...I didn't do nothing...honest.
Who'd of guessed that a simple "Hey Rosie, whats cracklin...?" (Her at the time ICQ nick) would lead to my new wife..Go Figure?
It is difficult, but well worth it . She brings to me a side I thought long dead. I had had some terrible relationships and a messy divorce (with kids involved.) She brought to me, love, respect and understanding, something I hadn't looked for in a woman for a long time. She taught me first to like myself again, then to open my heart and feelings to another. To her I would give my world , my all, I would move heaven and earth to be at her side.

Love You, M**.
Yours forever
M***

 

[Private Vasquez]

Smuggling is still legal in some states. Y'all could take that approach.

 

[Jim_Henson]

Love You, M**.
Yours forever
M***

Eminem... really?

 

[Draco]

Eminem... really?

Sorry Jim

M**, J** M***...better...? Feel like being the meat in our sandwich.......???

 

[SweetCherry]

Eminem... really?

Watch it Muppet Boy or I'll slip Exlax into your M&M cookies. Just remember who's gonna be doing your cooking. It sure as hell ain't the lil blond girl, unless you plan on living off macaroni and cheese and peanut butter sandwiches.

 

[Jim_Henson]

I've lived off worse.... I ATE your cooking

 

[SweetCherry]

Sure, you say that NOW. I didn't hear complaints last time.

 

[Jim_Henson]

And i plan to come back? Shit the lil girl better feed me.

I actually loved your cooking, just having the kids staring at me eating was a worry

 

[QuickDuck]

Hmmm nope, definately not alone

I'm in Sydney, she's in California ... hmm yup complete opposite sides of the world.

I will get there... soon.... I promise.

I want to know.

One thing i do know, is that ever if real life does not turn out as brilliant as it does in fantasy, we will be wonderful friends.

 

[SweetCherry]

Bah, this time around the only one staring at you will be the monkey boy. You scare him. The lil girl will probably be in your lap reading to you if you let her.

And you're fast earing yourself an elaborate meal if you keep that up.

 

[Draco]

And i plan to come back? Shit the lil girl better feed me.

I actually loved your cooking, just having the kids staring at me eating was a worry

SweetCheery, its about time you taught the Aussie about knives and forks.....muhhahhhahhaha

 

[Freya]

Re: As you can see.....

.....Canadians are sought after the world over as superior lovers.

Lance

You know it baby!

 

[islandman]

Re: Re: As you can see.....

You know it baby!

I discovered that fact for myself this afternoon.